The last time I saw a boy, because he was more familiar, he was not very familiar, this is a situation between familiar and unfamiliar, what is familiar, what is unfamiliar, I don't have a clear definition, but he told me a lot of his story, since he can tell me his past before, his affairs, I think he and I should be considered familiar people.

There is another layer of relationship, before me and him, it should be a classmate relationship, don't say it should be a classmate relationship, in fact, it is a classmate relationship, this layer of relationship I should have explained earlier, but I just remembered it.

In the eyes of others, this boy may be a thoughtful person, because he has also been in love a few times, and the final result is that he is dumped every time, and he has been dumped more times, he also began to doubt himself, and he also began to consult me about some of the problems he has to face in reality.

He also hopes that he can make a private decision for life if he falls in love once, and no one can separate them, but every time they break up after falling in love again and again.

After listening to him say that he broke up a few times, I also think that the word breakup appears too many times in his life, and I also think that the word breakup is too frequent, but he said that he doesn't want to, he wants to love someone well all his life, but he has never been able to do it, but in the days that followed, he reflected on himself, but he was still very confused, and he didn't know what the problem was, I told him, your idea is correct, people, no one likes to break up, no one likes divorce, but is everyone willing to do this?

I don't want to, but I can't help it, I break up every time, I think there are some problems in this boy, not just the woman's reasons.

What about him? Talked about one, broke up, talked about another, broke up again, and the third, broke up.

Why is the result the same, he is not a person with a heart, but it is this result, he gradually grew up under the emotional change again and again, and gradually found that he considered the problem more comprehensively, and gradually found that life is like this, after each sadness, he will still heal the pain, continue to move forward, face life, so many times he has failed, he will still live in line with the original intention, always looking, but after the so-called emotional change, whether he can still wholeheartedly love someone like his first love, whether he will feel that he has talked a few times, and has no sense of security, Is it like a hedgehog that has been stabbed, as long as the people who are close to him, maybe they can still talk about friends once or twice, but he locked his heart, took back his emotions, and it was not so easy to find a partner, to fall in love, and then I found out, maybe after talking a few times, he was not as good as before, he would not believe in a person in a short period of time, maybe boys and girls are like this, after several emotional changes, everyone is not so easy to deceive, and they have become smarter。