A student's crying
Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info Today in class, a student suddenly cried, I don't know why he cried so sadly, so when I called him to the front to ask, he told me that he was doing his homework, and the classmates next to him were making trouble, and he didn't let him write, so he got up to defend his dignity, or maybe it was out of a human instinct, he got up and fought with those classmates, and when I saw him, he was in his position, holding something in his hand, ready to throw it out, I saw it and immediately stopped, although I don't know what he was holding in his handBut this situation is not allowed to happen in the classroom, not to mention that for safety, it is not allowed to throw objects at all, I listened to him at that time, I criticized him, because what I heard from the beginning to the end was all about how others said, I never heard him say that he was wrong, I really don't know why today's children have developed such a like since childhood, always when they encounter things, they never think of what is wrong with themselves, but always like to find reasons from others, in fact, he is a 7, 8-year-old child, when he cries, I don't know how to say it, I have a lot of truth to tell him, but his age is too young, his crying still aroused my sympathy, originally I had a lot of things to tell him, but then it was unexpectedly stopped, I don't know how to comfort him, or criticize him, such a young child, if not from an early age, to instill a little correct concept in him, is always the most terrible!
I had a lot of theories, I wanted to tell him well, but he was such a young child, I think he didn't know if he could understand my reasoning, let alone accept it, which made me very sad, because in the hearts of many parents, they are always afraid that their children will suffer outside, so they desperately tell their children about their ability to protect themselves, when they encounter things, not only can they not deal with it generously, but they still have to blame others for their heads, that is the most shocking thing I heard, I just told him at the time, others make trouble with you, you can ignore them, they play that is their businessAs long as you keep a quiet mood and do what you like to do, or don't be so affected by others, I know that the environment can shape people, but there are still many people and things in the environment that will not change because of the external environment, in this case, we just take care of ourselves, and, when there is a problem, why never say that there is a mistake in yourself? Why can't we reflect on ourselves? Throughout the conversation, I never heard him say a word about his mistake, this is the biggest break to my soul, is it not a mistake when I hold something in my hand and am about to hit someone in class, where is he still shouting at someone else's mistake? These are questions that we need to ponder, in the final analysis, there are more problems for parents, so I think, if one day, I still hope that I can convey more of my own concepts to children and their parents, because children are so young children, children have a lot of things that he can not understand and understand at that age, but parents are adults, they should understand the truth and ideas will be reflected in the children's body, I also deeply think about such a problem, the root is still in our region, parents are some farmers, most of these farmers are still people with no cultureThey are all farmers working in other places, and their children are growing up with grandparents and grandmothers, or other relatives, so there are a lot of problems, when these problems become problems, I still hope that I can personally do something for these children, not for the sake of the interests, nothing, for the development of this society to do a little public welfare activities, I also envision such a life, you can organize some public welfare education activities for free for everyone to participateMaybe it's not the temptation of money, it's not other problems, it's better to do what you like the most, don't let these next generation not have a good concept when they are young, and develop a lot of bad habits since they were young, when these bad habits really grow up with him for decades, maybe 20 years later, these habits of theirs may become a cancer on their bodies, endangering themselves, hurting others, or will have an impact on this society, this is what I think, maybe I can do this for the society, I also envision my future life, should be happyI don't know when I will start to find the problems around me, I hope to solve them as soon as possible, to be able to bring some benefits to others, to become a positive and kind positive energy transmission, of course, I have other things to do, I love people, I also think about how to work hard, to be able to give each other a happy, free, a better future, this may be what I should do, I have achieved it step by step, I am really disappointed in the rural parents of our time, really! Why do many children become selfish and lazy now, and they don't have the courage to take responsibility? In the days to come, it is better to think of a specific implementation plan and go step by step
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