Chapter 619 Welcome Welcome
When I was 18 years old, it should have been gone, because this was this when I was 8 years old, so when I was eight years old, there was no fight between Leng Shuiyue and my father, no fighting.
There is no Leng Shui Yue, there is no common game, Ye Jingbei has no sense of belonging to Leng Shui Yue and me, and he is a little richer in this family.
Normally, he would go outside to sleep, and it was easy for him to teach some friends who didn't seem so proper in Ye Jingbei's own house, yes.
Let him make such a friend and talk to his father, it is a cold water moon that is often beaten violently, and he is not recognized, then he will go in the other direction.
If you get compliments on this cold water month, then I'll go this way, and alas, I'll work hard, right?
I have been praised again, and I will work harder to keep going in the right direction, if this cold water moon oh I am beaten I am wronged.
There's no one who doesn't want to do what I do. I think it's right, for example, his mother may have been scolded by his classmates, and he thought I was insulting to his mother.
He felt that what I said was right, for my mother's voice, this Leng Shuiyue lost his mother when he was 8 years old, other classmates may say casually, his mother said that he was defending his mother.
When you get into a fight with someone, I think the first time his dad should ask you why you are fighting, ah, 8 months later. I found two people to confront each other, and the two people blamed each other, and even slowly and then directly appeared in conflict.
At first glance, all the connections between father and son are negative, and fighting each other slowly and confronting each other is a negative emotion.
Yes I see that you don t complain so much time positive evaluation and now I don t see it in the whole process so he can't do it how ye jingbei does this machine today the form of the machine is not organized between the emotional classes.
Convenient words are.
Help Ye Jingbei together. Not only is the price estimate not good, even if the two of them go out to find it, sit together on the phone of a station, there are all kinds of this activity, and there are positive emotions to make up.
Yes, it's because of those positive emotional links there, even if there are some conflicts between father and son in the future, it doesn't matter, I can trust it, but if not, it's like the father of this person in our film went out to work after it was released.
And at first glance, it's not from a three-hospital hospital.
And I believe that when he was 0~8 years old, he didn't say that he would have a good relationship with Leng Shuiyue.
I don't think this kind of father will be, so it's really a seat that needs to be visited, and it's very important to establish a positive emotional connection with Leng Shuiyue.
But the positive emotional connection, the lack of something cold water month for family and the lack of a sense of belonging, many simple parent-child games can help build.
It's not that it's about waiting for the cold water month to be established when it's older, it's like this in the critical period of growth at the age of 0~3, generally speaking, well, the process of growing up in the cold water month is phased, and the most important thing at this time is the mother.
What about the 1~3 years old, Leng Shuiyue began to hope to grow her own strength, alas, I want to see it. In fact, the son is the same as the mother's mother's mother's superfluous father's.
But at this stage, which is what we call the stage of the mother-love complex, the father's performance must be great, but the family cannot be missing.
Because of the filing of a 5-year-old centenarian. Father: Yes, I should return to my father after the age of 5 after the age of 5.
The reason for his return is that his father told him that he said love, for example, that my toys are broken, that my father will fix them, that he will change the light bulb at home, that he will change the light bulb.
When the gas is broken, Dad will say that mosquitoes are so powerful, which is what we call heroism, then whether your family is a boy or a girl.
Ye Jingbei: Yes, yes, I said that there is no such thing between father and daughter now, that is, how old is Leng Shuiyue in your family nowYesYes, the sister who is full of emotions is relatively large. Don't worry, Ye Jingbei should not be big enough.
What you still see is that this lover has. It will make the mother have a will, and then go out to play, that's what I'm so puzzled now, and when I see that my daughter was born, it's basically because he said what I want to eat.
Or do you have money and you want to eat something, so in the future, you want to eat and do what you want, and you just cry and want to do something.
Ye Jingbei: If you want to establish, first of all, my mother has to play what my role is, how many roles I have, there are many things but I still can't do it, don't look at his son is a man's father, this is also difficult.
But there are some things that can only be done slowly, such as delicate, such as delicate, more tenderness I can only experience from my mother, so unless my dad is a particularly lucky person, do you have but after all, there are few, on why Leng Shuiyue has long liked it.
When my mother cried, I called my mother first, because we either had a fire for him, Dad. There is one that is already established when the fetus is in place.
So the cold water moon was with the mother of the mother in the early days she was a natural after all the october pregnancy ye jingbei had a lot of information he felt the beating of your heart he was even in the early days.
I didn't expect that kid to have a ceremony just now.
There was management before the formation of life.,There's a bag in the live broadcast room.,I'll be in 10 minutes after he asks the question.,I didn't get over the discomfort.,Ask me a question at night.,The first sentence asked me that bad luck.。
That Leng Shuiyue of our family is almost three years old, why is he in a daze for a while when he is playing with toys here and there, why?
Compare single production. In a daze, you saw me, I saw you, what were you doing when he was in a daze? I sat next to me, I was holding my phone, and then at this time I was dealing with things here, oh, I saw him, and then I went back.
I'll just ask one more question, I said that you think you are less than three years old Leng Shuiyue playing with blocks and other toys, he is in a daze and he doesn't ask his mother to play with him, do you think this is normal!
After looking at it, it seems right, why didn't he ask me to join him, I asked him if he called you. A three-year-old cold water month.
I'm half a year old, toys we say a toy a three-year-old cold water month, how can he develop this toy, more toy features a question I can take this answer, where does he come from these imaginations are his parents playing with him.
It's not to guide you, I still have to build a house, I have to build one. But this three-year-old cold water moon is already used to it.
Why have I told my mother so many times to put down her phone and play with me, and then my mother ignored me, and then at this time I was already playing by myself, and I didn't know how to play more fun, Peanut.
Lulu said that she was only three years old on her mobile phone, and he had already felt that it was a busy day for nearly 10 minutes, and I was in a bad mood, and I said that this cold water month I was in a daze at your house?
Why is it really not easy for the guards to be alone in the cold water moon, sometimes we look at a behavior of the cold water moon, it may be according to our inherent thinking or habitual thinking?
I thought I would say it anyway, and even accused him that Leng Shuiyue's growth was staged, and the degree of connection between father and mother was different at different stages. Fathers and mothers play different roles in the upbringing of the cold water month.
However, it is indispensable for both parents to be together, and when parents ignore the needs of the cold water moon for a long time, the cold water moon may fall into learned helplessness.
will also slowly learn not to ask for help, cultivate a good parent-child relationship, and encourage the good, then let's go back to this short video Ha, uh, this Leng Shuiyue's relationship with his mother seems to be different from his father's.
Let's review these points again. Languages that are increasingly estranged from the family and other people are mixed with brothers and friends, and the only person in the family who can make him trust is. Soon even Grandpa couldn't be trusted.
I don't love you, he can't die, and then he runs to my house, urgently. didn't stay at home for a night, but grandpa was like a father calling to complain, and the father who rushed back in a hurry came into the house and covered his face with Yuying's flat head was a bargaining chip.
When I came back, I scolded me directly, I said don't do anything, what are you doing together?
Especially, but not with men, I said I had mo in my hand
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Wait a minute, you still have to be a woman, and then it feels like the father who is angry and has a few words of discord with the voice, and the father and son actually have a big fight, and we started after he started to move the language.
It seems that it is impossible for him to start, and since then it has been for Yu Yuying. There's a way to make him feel warm.
So at that time, in fact, in our class was the ranch that saved the world, I made me feel this sense of security.
On the one hand, the father who is becoming more and more estranged, on the other hand, the mother who can never be seen again, the afterglow of the inner struggle has tattoos on the body, loyalty and righteousness are difficult to achieve, filial piety is the first, and it feels good to play fast.
Then when he hit, he gave me a hard beat, and then he beat me less and less, because of his own illegal things, although the family didn't say anything.
But the voice can still feel the change in her family's attitude towards herself, and Yu Ying is so desperate that no one can understand the pain in her heart. There is nothing left to be nostalgic in this home.
In the end, the family with the shadow is out of the treasure everywhere, and the family is also completely disappointed in him. I haven't had it for 4 generations in our family, and you've lost all your face.
Well, welcome back, we see that the attachment of the mother of this cold water month is still very strong, although it has been many years since the mother died.
But often he would be on his mother's grave, and I think even though we died, he was still trying to find that emotional side.
When 8-year-old Leng Shuiyue suffered such a big injury, he should have made the mistake of being injured, that is, he happened to live near the countryside and didn't know how to deal with this grief for his son.
So, this pain has always lived in his heart, and it is uncomfortable to live around him, so what should be done?
So it can be done in the form of an epistle to Shanghai. Unambiguous.
I think this is a very good character. Very, very effective, including adults why he didn't give to the mother. That is, did not say goodbye to the mother.
Tibetan relatives, whether they are children or adults, if Tibetan relatives follow this relative, they are very close, that kind of relative.
In our story, it is his, and the most important thing is to do three things, the first is to cry, the second is to speak, and the third is to do it. We were left with a lot of ceremonies.
Or many issues of the party committee in other cultural backgrounds are the departure of the heart, whether it is for the cold water month or adults are occasions that cannot be ignored, in the face of micro-business, with a sense of ritual behavior and vision to make a formal farewell.
It is a very effective way to deal with grief. Brokeback Mountain was not officially disposed of at the time.
This kind of sadness has continued to permeate every aspect of my life later in life, causing great pain to people.
In the case of the cold water month, it is especially important to pay attention to the cold water month and pay attention to sadness. I don't know if it's all the way before, and finally to the computer, he has the strength.
We don't understand, you don't understand me, you don't understand me, and then at this time you go and ask that 13-year-old Leng Shui Yue, can you understand yourself, what boy do you think Ye Jingbei needs most in Leng Shui Yue in adolescence?
Especially our film is really angry Leng Shuiyue needs you to be teammates with me, especially his popular girls.
This is to let his grandfather tell his father, and he will feel that he has a good relationship with you since he was a child, and he feels that you have betrayed him, which is not the way. I observed that the one we both loved me in this family now?
Ye Jingbei: Now that it's over, the one who used to be with me sold us today, and there is another one who won't let him give me money, just wait for me if it's okay, and beat me if it's okay. Basically, there is nothing to do with this family.
Leng Shuiyue: But he may be gone, so we see that all the problems that Leng Shuiyue said in this film are due to these reasons. When he is married, this cold water moon will feel that he is very lonely.
In particular, after his mother walked by, he was beaten again, and in this case he felt 6.2%. It's connected like this.
The Yizhi family has passed the mother of this. And then with all the good feelings that my mother gave me, I turned my head and listened to her grandfather hear my father's head.
More love can make the cold water month to the family.
It's from this angle. Isn't that the case after a fight, because well, a cold water month should have three case periods from birth to adulthood, alas, which is what we often call the rebellious period.
The first one is 2~3 years old, the second one is 6~7 years old, and the third one used to be 13 to 17 years old, but now because of the changes that have taken place, the diet, and the environment have changed, so now in reality when we work.
Some of the local realities, looking at the rebellious calm of the cold water month, are moving forward, half a year or even two years earlier, such as the first 100 years old.
He's drawing the boundary, it's mine, it's mine, it's the essence of my first-party exam questions. This is my hand, right that is my little toilet.
That's my little boy, I'm independent, I have what I want, I have what I don't want, I have what I like, I have I don't like this time this mother took a piece of clothing, baby, you don't want to wear this dress.
Is this name so good, oh, you let me wear this dress is yours, why do you want me to think that he has his own independence, aesthetics are not important or not.
Then you change one thing, and your mother changes one, so look at this day, it doesn't matter if you let me look good in this dress, this is what I mean, so don't, and then this mother will be out of line.
Took two pieces.
Anyway, it's just two Jiao, or these two. I can say it, he was very impressed with me.
In the past, he was more obedient in our relationship, and we communicated better, and once, he listened to that pop music, so I think that love and love are not very good for his age.
Then I said, I said that Yang Yang's music is not suitable for you to change one, and then he is not the kind of person who sits there in the first place, especially as a child, I used to say that I always have to listen to you, if you don't like me, can't you like it?
I was right about this, I was talking to him at the time, but he you think it makes sense, but I think he has a point, it's different, this feeling is that all of a sudden I am reasoning with you like a little adult.
But that little girl is particularly unhappy with that feeling, you have a daughter who is just growing up.
Ah, yes, I think you should be happy. When your cold water moon goes to this place, he has his own welfare, what we hope for, we hope that the efforts of this cold water month are becoming more and more distinct.
I clearly realized that I clearly knew what I wanted, I didn't want anything like this, and when I grew up, he clearly knew what was our responsibility and what had nothing to do with me.
What I really like I really I don't like at all, this is what we are looking forward to, then in the first resistance period of two to three and a half years old, about a year and a half, all the mothers we still have a chance to look at my baby's mobile phone.
What should we do specifically, that is, how to do it concretely, and let him use it after struggling twice to save the world.
For example, after coming back from this cold water month, Dad looked at this baby Bora, Dad hugged the original, Bao Mom was very good, and then this brand reversed for the first time.
It's just me and Lulu who are fine, and all of a sudden your family and you.
Maybe I can't talk to him a little more than two years old, what does it mean to his head?, which means I don't want me to want it, I want to be clearer.
Then if your family has a good temper and explosive growth, and then at this time, if BMW pushes forward to this time, it is possible that the baby will have experience, Bao Dad can do it, and Jiangsu Satellite TV still has to report in Cold Water Month.
If you can consider some things with the Cold Water Moon Society, I don't know that she has the Cold Water Moon constantly expressing our concepts.
I don't want me to improve my expressiveness again and again, the first time is the second time. I'm out clearly, I'm talking about extraordinary problems, if your baby is more than two years old, don't put your socket this you must not let him use, right?
I understand, because this subsidy is so necessary, well, between 3~5 years old or even before the age of 4 and a half, there may be times when our parents really can't read the cold water month. When you read the story to her again.
He will say, it is enough to listen to this one, and he is exploring the relationship between the characters in it, and even a certain character in it, and he has a good solution to the problem.
He can use it, he can use it, he has learned to learn again, and he is very active in learning, saying that a picture book, let's read it for this little treasure first, and read it three times five times, right?
Then read it, about halfway through it, you have to think slowly, and then at this time induce your baby to use him to tell you the rest of the story, and then give him once, twice, three times.
It is the baby's earliest language expression, and the language expression is a little bit I tell you, when your baby is not moderate, I told him about God and God.
Ah, like kindergarten middle class, middle class, the next semester will start to enter the second people.
Ye Jingbei: I will not do it when I grow up and I have a life, I will do what you say, when you are young, you play with me, I will open up immediately, this is what I want to tell you, you are not right, I can do what I want.
Leng Shuiyue: Some children will even tell their parents that it is wrong to hit someone, if it is an adult, then how should we deal with it at this time, at this time we should actually recognize his idea first.
Let him have a presence, get support, and then communicate openly with him, ah don't contradict him and say that he is not to you like peeling an onion, peeling down layer by layer.
Leng Shuiyue: In the end, he felt that it was wrong, and he changed, because we are all from the past, and we don't want Leng Shuiyue to take a detour, I found that you were wrong, and I pointed you to tell me, which is also very right.
I'm going to intervene soon, is there any specific manifestation, uh, about this autonomous doctor, including his own private space.
Including this and that choice of his own clothes is quite obvious, he has to grow up like this at this time, we can't deprive him of the full strength of growth.
That is, after the past few years, his views and values have changed, so at this time, I think it is still necessary to let Leng Shuiyue make independent decisions according to his needs, and the first reversal period of Leng Shuiyue appears like this. At this stage.
Parents can try to use limited confrontation to cultivate the self-awareness of the cold water monthThe second rebellious period of the cold water moon appears between the ages of 67.
It is manifested as a challenge to the authority of parents, and at this stage parents should fully approve of the growth of Cold Water Month. Place the language and the cold water moon communication cold water moon 3rd floor machine.
That is, adolescence appears between the ages of 13~17 years old, and the strong rebellion and resistance in adolescence are often due to the fact that the first and second rebellious periods are not stable and excessive, resulting in the weight of parents is a game of chess
20. We are young and strong, and we are red. That's the fear of discovering it. What do you mean? The last time you went to the county seat, you didn't find the reason to make money. The advertisement in the province only wears a horse brand all day long, who wants to buy what, you also grab it. 80 times.
Who's holding the lamp, what?
Leng Shuiyue: Mr. Ma wants to agree, I just want to plug it in, we also want to plug it in, you give it to yourself. The year before last, I went back and told Chairman Liu,
There has never been an interaction that harmed the safety of Liu's life, and since you are determined to keep it a secret or not, then our Secrecy Bureau must avoid suspicion.
Leng Shuiyue: Please go and interrogate the duck slaughterer, today I will be in front of you, hello, hello, hello. Yes.
Then you can't help it. The factory started smoothly three months later, and many customers placed orders, and Xie Gang should also charge money to buy a name.
Ye Jingbei: Why has he worked for a long time, he is also engaged in cleaning, cooking, brushing his teeth and rinsing his mouth.
Welcome, welcome, welcome.