Some time ago, I watched a short video, we saw a scene of the husband and wife worshipping each other at the wedding scene, and the witness said a very interesting topic, that is, who cooks first and who bows his head?

When this topic is extended, these two couples, they didn't bow their heads, two people, you look at me, I look at you, who wants to cook?

I think neither of them wants to cook, so two people are waiting for each other to bow their heads, in fact, there is no need for this, there are so many relatives and friends watching there at the wedding scene, two people are here without humility stalemate, what's the point, we are always in such a stalemate every time to find a kind of inner balance, rather than quickly making choices when encountering things, in order to improve some efficiency.

When I encountered such a thing, I also thought about the problem, if it was me, I would not hesitate to bow my head at that time, isn't it just cooking, what's there?

In real life, many people will think that if they cook or they pay more, it is like a loss, but later I found out that this is not a loss at all, and people who would rather suffer a loss may not necessarily lose anywhere, or about the problem of cooking, what is so terrible about cooking?

Later, I also found such a reality, many people don't want to cook, because they lost to their own laziness, everyone likes to live a day of clothes to reach out for food to open their mouths, but in real life, we want to live such a day, someone must make efforts and pay, and these people who pay seem to have suffered a loss, have been working hard to take care of others, and those who enjoy it seem to be blessed, and then I am also in the process of continuous cooking, slowly understand the truth, I remember cooking several times before, when I cooked, my husband always told me in the back, you do this and that, I was angry all of a sudden, I said you want to do it, I'll wait there, don't say anything, I'll wait to eat what you do, but then he met me and didn't say anything, and he still couldn't change his problem a few times after that, always directing you to do it in the back, always wanting you to make his most delicious meal, in fact, it's simply impossible, people are already working hard to cook, you don't know how to respect others, and you have to make the meal you want to eat the most, how is this possible?

When we were young, we also knew in family education that we never dared to be picky eaters, and we didn't dare to say that the food cooked by our mother was not appetizing here, and there was not appetizing, because cooking was very hard, and we were so picky, sooner or later we would be scolded by our father, so what kind of food we all have to eat, this may be a habit we have developed since childhood, and my father also eats, and then my mother said that she can eat any kind of food, which may not be our appetite is very casual, just a kind of respect for others。

Some time ago, my husband told me that this kind of food is not delicious, that kind of rice is not delicious, I told him, I don't like the rice is not delicious, you can do whatever you think you want to eat, by the way, put a little more water in it, help me make a bowl of rice, I don't think your cooking is delicious or not delicious, so when he has made a few meals, he also feels very tired, others have made it cooked, put it there, at least you can eat a bowl of hot rice, but there are so many things to say, then do it yourself, have enough food and clothing。

This is really a good choice, we are also an ordinary family, an ordinary family, not like those big families, eat very fastidious, everything has to eat good meals, and we eat some random meals, can satisfy our hunger, instead of every picky, as if for others, such a problem, there is no need at all.

And then I found out that every time I cook, do housework, I don't feel a loss, when I do it myself, I found out, no matter what kind of work, even if it is doing housework at home, you do more, it is a kind of exercise for yourself, no matter what kind of thing, you do more, you will know the skills, I cook the same, every time I cook according to my taste, and others are just rubbing rice by the way, so I will follow my feelings to do, today I want to eat what I want to cook, there is no room for him to speak, really, I don't have so much mood to please othersI think it's good that I can cook a bowl of hot food, if he doesn't want to eat it, he can do it himself, or go out to eat, it's okay, but people still have to respect others, and don't be so picky about the meals that others have already prepared.

Later, after continuous exercise, because I sometimes want to improve my taste, I made a variety of meals, and after a period of time, I even found that the meals eaten in the outside canteen or in some hotels, at home, I will also study at home, although no one tastes good, but it is also a special experience, every Sunday, can be busy and full of day, just in order to make a few meals that I want to eat, to feel the taste, maybe just take the time to find fun, to find different feelings and experiences, after such an instant, I can also eat some good meals, and others can also eat some good meals, and my husband is also like rubbing the rice to follow my taste, saying if you really don't like to eat, just do it yourself, I follow you, what kind of meal you cook, I will eat what kind of food, I will never say that the food you cook is delicious or not delicious, because people are like this, when you have been spoiling others, only to find that other people's tastes are becoming more and more picky, so don't spoil others so much, leave a little space for self, people are like this, when you cook a meal, people say that this is not good, that is not good, but how to correct it?

From cooking to washing dishes to all kinds of busyness, all things are done before you find out that in fact, you have wasted a lot of time, sometimes even two hours to cook a meal, sometimes even longer to prepare, and others are picky, I really can't accept it, so, when I cook, everything is done according to my meaning, this is my biggest choice, but also my biggest concession.