There are some things or habits that it is best to explain clearly from the beginning, so as not to have to excuse themselves once a year in the future, which makes people suspicious.

"Sister, I'd better say happy birthday to you now. Luo Qingyu said helplessly, "Something happened to my aunt's family, and I really wasn't in the mood for that kind of occasion." ”

Although her parents have not yet informed her, she knows what the day of her aunt's death is.

If there is no external force to stop it, the death of my aunt is a sure thing. As for how she died, she didn't know. I haven't received a confirmation call yet, so I can only say that something happened.

This is the main reason for her recent restlessness.

Not only did she not remind her parents, but she also did not tell Brother Nian. My aunt is the one who has been saved once, at the cost of the life of the child in her womb and her own little life, and it was her father who blocked the backlash for her with his flesh and blood.

The same person, she doesn't want her family to take another risk.

finally changed the fate of her loved ones, and she was already satisfied. People who open the hang are easy to have an impact on the fate of others, and she doesn't want to watch Brother Nian or her family lose their current lifespan.

"Huh, what's going on?" Nong Cien didn't expect this kind of reply, and was stunned, and then said, "Is there anything I can help with?"

"I don't know for the time being, I'm still waiting for news from home. ”

Luo Qingyu didn't want to mention this, so he tugged at the corners of his mouth and said:

"To be honest, even if I didn't have it, it wouldn't be convenient for me to go. The identity of a dancer is very annoying, in case you say the wrong thing on a crowded occasion, or do some small actions wrongly and are photographed on the Internet, it will be another wave. ”

Hey, Nong Cien couldn't help but smile, "It's all your own people, what are you afraid of?"

"There must be a mistake in the hundreds, I'm afraid. Luo Qingyu smiled, but he didn't think so.

At the birthday party, in addition to the farmer's family, other relatives and friends of the farmer's kindness must be returned. For herself, all those who are invited are close friends and her own people.

Yu Luo Qingyu, but not necessarily.

The human heart is unpredictable, and many people understand this truth, but they are unwilling to face the reality. I always feel that the person I know is a white and immaculate white lotus that is harmless to others.

If others question their own vision, they suspect that there is something wrong with her character. People with bad tempers will be furious when they hear this, and people with deep scheming will bury their dissatisfaction in their hearts, and in the long run, they will be out of control in the future.

Nong Cien has a quiet temperament, and he is slightly famous for his adoptive mother who is engaged in charity everywhere in the magic capital and even in the mainland. It just proves that she is a certain communicator. Luo Qingyu and her knew each other just because of the relationship between the farmers.

It is not very familiar to talk about it, and some words should not be said too bluntly, so as not to make the listener have a heart.

"You have this kind of party every year, are you tired?"

"What's so tiring about this? Who doesn't celebrate their birthday every year?

"However," Luo Qingyu said truthfully, "I occasionally remember that Brother Nian bought me a bouquet of flowers, and I bought him a tie." ”

Only for the elderly, they are young, how to save trouble and how to come. Of course, this sentence can't be said to prevent the other party from thinking that he is sarcastic about her unfilial piety.

Therefore, it is quite tiring to chat with people who are not deeply acquainted.

is far from Xiao Qi, Xiao Jiu and others, in front of those two people, it is not a matter to lift the table in public, it is a joke.

In short, other reasons can be ignored, Luo Qingyu doesn't like to join in this kind of excitement, completely because he doesn't want to know too many of his own people.

An aunt has already made her sleepless, and if she knows a few more, will she still be alive?

That's why she brought up this topic.

......

At noon, Nong Cien sat at Luo Qingyu's house for a while and left, and went straight to the company to accompany her husband Wang De to dinner.

During the banquet, she told Wang De about Fang Cai one by one, and sighed: "Alas, Xiaoqing is really difficult to invite. ”

Ouyang said that she would definitely not be able to invite Xiaoqing, as expected......

"Isn't she having something at home?" Wang De disagreed, "There are birthday parties every year, and you are not the only guest, why should you care if she comes or not?"

"The party is every year," and not only once, "but she doesn't come, the meaning is different." ”

As an adopted son, the third child was recognized by everyone in the farmer's family. As his partner, everything he says and does is on his behalf.

When she comes, it means that the third child is here.

not only has face, but also makes his brothers and sisters feel that they and the farmer are indeed a family. Even if a small part of the peasant family did not recognize the brother and sister, and the third child did, those people did not dare to say anything.

"You, who are usually silent, actually have a very low self-esteem in your heart......" Wang De shook his head.

"How can I have low self-esteem?" Nong Cien glanced at him reproachfully, "It's not just me, who doesn't want to be looked down upon by the third, eldest and second?"

"Xiao Qi and Xiao Jiu, they don't have this need. "This is a private room, Wang De said bluntly, "They are looking for three or five confidants to eat and drink outside on their birthdays, and they have neither invited us nor the old five couples......"

It is so free and open, not bound by secular etiquette.

Unless some elderly people want to be lively and want to call their children and grandchildren back, they will make a big move. Even if the elders call them, some children and grandchildren can't come back because they can't come back, and no one says that they are unfilial and disrespectful.

"As for being a man, you should be polite and polite to outsiders, and be courteous. Treat the family, forget the meaning, why bother?"

Everyone is like this, they don't interfere with each other, and he thinks it's very good.

Even if people don't go to the party, it doesn't mean that they despise him. For example, in recent years, his Wang family's company has encountered difficulties, and which farmer has stood by and watched?

"That's what I said......"

Nong Cien couldn't find the words to refute for a while, but she just felt uncomfortable.

That being said, it proves that I was right. Wang De shook his head helplessly, "Actually, there are some words that I have been holding in my heart for a long time." I'm embarrassed to say that I'm afraid it will hurt your self-esteem. ”

"What's that?" Nong Cien squinted at him.

"You and your brother care too much about the form, and you care too much about what the peasant family thinks of you......"

Because I care, many things become a little deliberate. To put it bluntly, it just looks a little groveling. Wang De said cautiously, glancing at his wife from time to time, trying his best to take into account her self-esteem.

Not only did he feel it, but even Nong Cien's sister-in-law felt the same way.

Unfortunately, no matter how much they tried to persuade them, the siblings firmly denied it, and thought that this was a courtesy to their own family. As a bystander, he and his sister-in-law had a headache.

Seeing that she was holding the dishes as usual, Wang Defang continued to say:

"From my observer's point of view, it doesn't have to be that way. The more cautious you are, the more you will appear to be angry. I guess, this is the reason why Xiao Qi, Xiao Jiu, and even the third and Xiao Qing don't like to be guests at our house......"

In the face of people with low self-esteem, the more you should pay attention to proportion, which is a psychological burden for young people who jump out, and of course they don't want to come.

"Then why does Ouyang like to come? She's not young?" was pierced by her husband in the bottom of her heart, Nong Cien broke the jar and threw the chopsticks angrily, "In the end, it is Xiao Qi and Xiao Jiu who look down on our brothers and sisters." ”

Influenced by them, even a little daughter-in-law like Xiaoqing, who has just married in, doesn't take her brother and sister seriously.