In fact, in a person's life, ability is one thing, and whether you can stand in the right position is really important, there are always people who will say, with the right person will save a lot of trouble, will also develop a lot, but in front of real life, those who stand in the wrong line, they don't want to, who doesn't want to make their future life smooth, even if you are not greedy for money, you are not lustful, you don't have these bad habits, but you still have to survive, your life, your work, or be happy.

In this way, we can be more confident, more smooth and enthusiastic to meet the future life. We are all ordinary people, but in the circle we live in, there will still be some differences, when encountering conflicts of interest, what should you do, who should you take to, this is very important, which also determines your future life, however, I am a person, really strange, because I don't like to stand in line, when I encounter a reason dispute, I generally do not face anyone, no one deviates, I am just myself, in fact, I can have such a personality, which is also what I have always done.

The old employees in the unit, for them, standing in line, this is a very simple thing, they can easily observe the words and colors, it is easy to do their best, who to face, who to deviate from, even if they don't say anything, but the heart is like a mirror.

And for a newcomer, standing in the wrong line is undoubtedly the most terrible thing, and sometimes it even means that you have completely failed, and you have no chance to turn over in this life.

I am also a person who has suffered a lot of losses, because I have suffered a lot of losses, so in the later life, I gradually have my own ideas, have my own opinions, and now I hate the most is to stand in line, so I never stand in line, I remember when I was in college, an incident happened, let me remember it vividly.

At that time, it was just entering the military training of the university, the school has not yet started, the military training is only the first lesson of the school year, which is also very important for us, and this scene is also spectacular enough, the teacher said at that time, if anyone does not perform well, they will be eliminated, the number of students in the class is not just enough for the number of people in the team, but a few students will be eliminated, and a student in our class, she has been confirmed to be eliminated, the instructor of the military training is also let go, that day, I remember when she was notified by the instructor that she could not participate in the competition, she cried very sadly, and she is my best friend, I watched her cry, I really can't bear it, so when I'm resting, I asked her, did you eat in the morning?

I'm going to buy you food, in fact, at this time, everyone is resting, they may be like they were born, they are far away from her, only me, yes, that's right, only me, hurriedly bought food for her, I remember that she didn't eat what she bought at the time, maybe she just cared about being sad, how to eat.

I also clearly remember that when I gave her food, the instructor looked at me strangely, and I didn't think much about it, at that time, I felt immature, and I just wanted to take care of her, after all, I was friends with her, I was just thinking, at this time, I don't take care of her, who can take care of her?

And I can't afford to ask the instructor to let her participate in the competition, because what I said, for the instructor, I think it should have no weight, so I can only take care of her like this.

After this time, I also feel that I have been affected, although my performance in all aspects is very good, but I have not been rated as a pacesetter, I don't want to think about it a lot, but I also know that this matter has a great impact on me, when something happens to a person, others are far away, and only one person comes forward, this will not be a good thing, after that, after so many years, I also feel that my original idea is very simple, although this matter has not lost much to me, a few years have passed, I have no contact with this girl, I just think, if at a certain timeWhen she thinks of these past events, can she feel my mood and practices at that time?

Maybe, maybe there is a trace of gratitude to me, maybe it has long been forgotten, we have never been in touch again, and I have forgotten about her, and I, for her, should be nothing.

I don't say it again, to anyone, to this person. This incident is a small thing, but also a lesson.