Passion - explosiveness - endurance

When talking about these three words, these three words are all to describe love, talking about the three stages of love, the first stage is passion, no matter who we meet with whom, in the first few years after the encounter, there will generally be passion.

But after a long time, when the passion is exhausted, we find that if our feelings can continue, it is quite explosive, and people can get along with each other to such a stage as explosiveness, which is a good state, which is also the three stages of feelings I saw on TV some time ago, passion - explosiveness - endurance.

If we can move forward when we are exhausted, it is the endurance between our feelings.

In real life, if the relationship can endure very well, it means that the relationship has a foundation. However, when the relationship has endurance, it is found that if there is affection between two people, it is not easy to be separated, and there are many feelings, in fact, such feelings are like running a marathon.

In this way, the relationship that can last for a long time is actually a very profound experience of love. Many times we will also find that those feelings that are not easy to be broken up are actually real feelings, and sometimes we will also feel that in this relationship, the more you give, the less easy it is to break up.

There used to be an example that said this, when talking about girlfriends, they can easily say that they will break up, or even because of a small word, but in real life, some bosses are very difficult, even if they encounter difficulties that are difficult to overcome, they will not give up easily, so in front of anything, how much you pay determines whether you will give up easily.

Each of us hopes that our feelings can be determined for a lifetime, especially the first love for the first time can determine the relationship for a lifetime, and we can get married and have children.

But in many cases, it is not like this, we always think that we said before that you do not marry, if you do not marry, it should be achievable, every time we always feel that we talk about an object, our first love can be set for life, but in the end it is often not like this, when we talk about feelings, there will be all kinds of contradictions, in fact, in a very early time we found that our first feelings, we can not grasp it well, and in the future, the number of times we talk about feelings, only to find that we know how to respect each other, know more about love, and know more about feelings。

Sometimes we are also very attentive in love, but later found out that we are very attentive, but we do not know some skills in love, often let people in love be hurt, the first love of two people, although they are in love with each other, but later found out, although we are very attentive, but in the end I found that when you are scarred, but you want to give up, and it will end in the end, many times it is also because we don't understand the experience of love!

In the face of such a love, gradually become fragile, sometimes only to find that we have been together for a long time, when there is a conflict will not be resolved, just like this hurt each other, in the end, the result of the breakup, in fact, many times we feel that we have feelings for each other, plus some love skills, will sublimate our feelings to the highest level, especially when I saw such three words a few days ago, passion, explosiveness, endurance, I found that such three words are used to describe feelings, it is really a good choice!

But why didn't I see these three words at the beginning, and I didn't even summarize these three words myself, but when others said these three words, I also deeply agreed, because it resonated with my heart.

Feelings in a lot of times, I think it is also the feeling of both sides, not that one party likes the other party very much, so it will be successful, sometimes only to find that both sides like each other, such people are very few, some people like others, and others like the person she likes in her mind, and in today's society, there are many such people, so there is a deep difference between the person I love and the person who loves me, in fact, every time, we find that those who love us will give everything for us, those we love, we will also give everything for it, but then I found out that when I talked about it so much, I remembered a song, that's "The One Who Loves Me and the One I Love", when I think of this song, I feel that sometimes it's a different feeling, because people have different opinions, and sometimes they even have different opinions.

Some people like such people, some people like that kind of people, but later I found out that this is life, some people like this, and some people like that?

But then I realized that we are all moving forward according to the track of life. I used to have inner feelings, when I talked about feelings a few times, I found that I had talked about a few feelings, and there was a sense of gradual maturity, maybe such a gradual growth, but also because of our experience after talking about a few relationships, or it may be because of the results of our age, so we slowly have the same feelings as others, but I always didn't know how to summarize such feelings before, and I didn't even know how to express such inner feelings, but this time when others summed it up, I felt that it was really good to use such three words, passion and explosiveness, and endurance to summarize feelingsIn such an environment, it is not easy to see feelings so thoroughly, and then I found out that the reason why this is the case is a difference.

Because I can't summarize, I am an ordinary person among all living beings. Those who are good at summarizing and good at speaking, that's why they are called guests.

This is the difference between people and people, but I still deeply agree with such a point of view in the end, although this is someone else's point of view, but to be able to be close to their own inner thoughts, or even to reach the light, is also a very good state, but also a very good feeling, but also a very good idea, at least have a very close point of view in their own hearts!

That's why I have such thoughts, and that's why when others say it, I feel deeply recognized!