When you see football on the football field, you will think that when you play football, this person kicks it to that person, and that person passes it on to other people, such a model of playing football.

But then in real life, people told me that there are a lot of football-like thinking, for example, sometimes, some things you encounter, many people are blaming each other, this is the so-called kicking ball-like thinking.

I remember going to a place some time ago, and I was supposed to go to their unit for a little something. Maybe it's because my face is unfamiliar, and they're not familiar with me, so there's such a scene.

When I first went there, the gate was closed, and the gate guard was not there, so I saw a person walking in their yard, as if he had grabbed a life-saving straw, and hurriedly asked him if the gate guard was here?

Help get the key, he told me that the gate is not here, and then I said by the way, do you have the key, open the door?

When I told him what I was here for, he told me he didn't have the key. Then he quietly went away, doing his own thing, and going about his business.

At this time, their unit regained calm again, and after waiting for a while, another person passed by the unit, and this time I told him in a kind tone, do you have the key, open the door?

He told me that he didn't have the key, and said that this was the responsibility of the gatekeeper, and he would talk about it when he came to the gate, but the doorman was obviously not here, and I had been waiting here, at this time I remembered, kicking the ball-style thinking, maybe that's it, although it's just a very simple thing, but it's also like kicking the ball, with such a reason to shirk each other, there is such a reason to shirk each other.

It reminds me of something from a long time ago. At that time, I had just graduated from college, we were a little ignorant, we didn't know how to deal with a lot of things in real life, at that time, because we bought a fake in the mall, we didn't know the truth of a loss, and at that time we always felt that 110 was a phone call that could manage everything, no matter what we did, when we encountered something, we asked the police uncle for help, this was very effective, but when we called 110, the police uncle told us that when we bought a fake, we had to call 12315, which was more convenient, and we listened to the police uncleAt that time, I called 12315 in the past, and the staff of 12315 told us that we wanted to call the industrial and commercial administration to complain, in fact, at that time, they told us about the industrial and commercial administration phone, but after a few phone calls, there was still no result, just very tired, I didn't want to call anymore, and then I found out that I was just a little disappointed to leave, a little disappointed no longer to think about such things, just feel that I bought a fake, just eat a little loss, and at that time I don't know why many people bought fakes, only self-reckless unlucky, no result。

Until the other day, I went to get a key, and it didn't come to fruition for a long time. Only to find out that the things I encountered before are similar to the things now, they are all a kicking ball thinking, under such a thinking, many things are actually fruitless, and when we really understand it, we know that we can simply turn big things into small things, small things, and don't care about so much, just digest your emotions slowly, instead of falling into this kind of kicking ball-style thinking, and can't extricate yourself for a long time.