There are only a few key steps in life
The most crucial steps in life are just a few steps, and a sentence I read in a book, such words are almost like truth, engraved in my mind.
I am very impressed by such a sentence, in all the life processes from childhood to adulthood, whether it is primary school to university, or other life processes, I feel that junior high school is the most critical years, and some people feel that high school is also very important, in fact, I think the high school entrance examination is a watershed.
If you can be admitted to a key high school, even if you are not very good at learning, you can take the university at will, even if it is different from the university that others are admitted, then you can also be admitted to a junior college.
If you can't even get into a key high school, then your life is different from others, because you haven't studied high school at all, and you are 108,000 miles away from college, whether it is in the course of life or in conversation.
The most important thing in life is that it will be easy to take a few steps correctly, and sometimes, it will be a very tiring process if you don't walk well.
This is like our busy farming moment, we are very idle in normal times, and the key days are very busy, those days, if you can't catch such a few days, in these days you don't cherish well, then even if you are tired in your usual time, you will get nothing.
In the busy days, whether it is a woman or a man, a diligent person or a lazy person, or to work well in the farmland, or to cultivate and harvest well, in fact, everyone knows this truth, but for life, they really don't know, every time they always feel that their life is very long, or they feel that they haven't played enough, and then there are always such and such contradictions, and finally found out, when they grow up to 18 years old, they find that the hard work suffered by their fathers, they have to endure it again, we were in elementary school, parents have said the same thing every time, that is, to study hard, I can live an easier life when I grow up.
At that time, many of us did not understand the meaning of such words, if I could understand the meaning of such words, we would definitely study hard, work hard, and let our lives bloom with colorful light!
But at that time, because we didn't know this truth, so we still made the same mistakes as our elders in our lives, and this was also in the critical years, we didn't study well, but played, and sometimes even played some clever games with teachers, which were very undesirable, but then we also slowly knew the most critical years of life in our own losses, and we didn't do it seriously at all, and sometimes found that the most critical steps in life are also very normal, for example, when we graduated from college, it was difficult to find a job, and after graduating from college, we faced unemployment, there is a saying that we have not graduated, and we have been unemployed。
In the past few years after graduation, we are busy looking for jobs, some are busy getting married, some are busy taking care of their families, and I found that in the past few years after graduation, the most important choice is to be busy stabilizing their jobs, in such a few years, some people have found opportunities, and can have a good job, but if you don't catch the opportunity, your life will be very hard, my family told me that I must find a job in the past few years, in fact, after I graduated, I still think that work is the most important, and some people do not find this truth。
As soon as you speak, it's been a few years, you've done a thing like this in the past few years, you've done the same thing, and now the good ones have jobs, but you're married and have children, but it's really about getting a job and getting married again, there's nothing wrong with that!
You graduated from college, you have a good job, you can naturally find a good object, according to your own conditions, this is our fathers, they know the truth, but this reason is very good, what I said is right.
But when you can really cherish it, you will find that what they said is correct, if you make a choice early, it will still save a lot of time and energy, but I am also very glad that I made the right choice some time ago, because I chose to be a teacher, so during this time I have more time to do other things, more time to do what I like to do, this is the biggest advantage.
During such a period of time, you can read and write to your heart's content, which is a good choice, and as a teacher, I also found that Xiaobai teacher, who is also a teacher with me, is also very diligent in writing every day, and now she is writing every day, writing with all her heart, maybe because we have a lot of time and can do what we like to do!
In fact, work is like this, don't affect too much time, don't take up too much time, occupy too much time, you will feel that it is a kind of possession and waste of life, in fact, sometimes we find that in our life, whether it is work or family, it is a small part of life, and all our lives are to enjoy their own time, enjoy their own life, and if no matter which one occupies most of our time, we will feel that life is very tired.
When working part-time, some people also feel that not only are they working, but all the time except eating and sleeping, the rest of the time is working, and although the salary is much higher, it is not the best job, because how to have other lives, not only to take care of their own families, to take care of their children, but also to have other plans, and this kind of time-occupying work is not a good job at all!
So in many cases, the most critical thing in life is to go well in your own life, the key life is so many years, if you go right, the future life will go more smoothly, if you go wrong, the future life will go harder, so the most critical step in life is a few steps, I also deeply believe in this truth, deeply attracted by this truth, so, I still have to abide by such a truth, the most critical step in life is a few steps, please take such a few steps, the future life will be more comfortable。