After the presumptuousness

Writing such a topic, I also think it's incredible, but obviously in life, we have always been very careful to live, we rarely presumptuous, because we don't dare, although our life is not the best, but we still live a worse life, so we are all in a careful life, walking on thin ice, there is a saying called careful sailing of ten thousand years of ship, so we have always been very careful to live, careful work, careful treatment of the people around us, this is the life pattern of many people, I am also one of them。

But then I was also in a casual moment, suddenly felt that I wanted to be presumptuous, and I really realized my wish, that is, such presumptuous, but after being presumptuous, I knew that the other party could not accept such a self, really unacceptable, they could only accept our obscurity life, they could only accept us walking on thin ice, they could only accept our advantages, could not accept our shortcomings, and later found out that in front of those who have a good relationship with you, this can only be a test, you will find that these people around you, some people can accept your advantages, just advantages, and some people can accept your shortcomingsSuch a person who can accept your shortcomings will naturally accept your advantages.

Life is very short, although many people feel that life is many years, even decades of time, but the person who can really accept your shortcomings is your nobleman, such a person can accept your shortcomings, can accept your casualness, can accept your presumptuousness, so that you can get along more freely, although some people look very good on the surface, but some people do a good analogy, people are like vases, some practical, some are not practical, non-practical people appear in your life, those who can only accept your advantages, I don't know where to go when such people appear in our lives。 However, after being presumptuous again and again, those who can still tolerate and understand us, we should accept and cherish with the greatest enthusiasm and sincerity, and in front of such people, we will still get along with them, get along well, and be friends.

In fact, sometimes think about it, for those who can't accept our shortcomings and our presumptuousness, I remember last time, I also met such a friend, when I got along with her, every time it was like walking on the ice, there was always a danger of slipping, and in the days when I got along with her, I also had been living so cautiously, but in the days that followed, I also knew that I couldn't always be so careful, this was obviously not my own in real life, obviously not my own personality, after such presumptuousness, I also decided to be presumptuous like this, but I also want to know if this person can accept my presumptuousness, After being presumptuous once, I found that my life had completely changed, and I couldn't get along with her before, but I didn't regret it at all, because there was nothing to regret at all, just lost a friend who couldn't accept your shortcomings, and I didn't feel so sad when I thought about it. When you are presumptuous for the first time, you find that life is not the way it used to be, but after you have been annoyed for a while, life has entered the normal, and you have returned to your previous peace, just let yourself be presumptuous for a while.

Sometimes, in real life, when you are casual yourself, maybe really those who don't like you will turn away, but those who care about you will still stay, spend the rest of your life with you, in the rest of your life, treat each other well, live a good life, whether it is friendship or love, or family affection, it is like this, people in real life, there is no perfect person at all, there is no perfect person, in front of such imperfect people, we are not saints, we also want to be presumptuous, there are also times when we want to carnival, but in the face of such arrogance, people who can accept usWe will still feel very happy, living together like this, and spending the rest of our lives together.

After being presumptuous, if all the warmth is gone, then don't miss the past days so much, face the present life, face the real people in life, and live a good life. Later, yesterday, after I wrote this short article, I found that I thought that sometimes you can be presumptuous, to know if those you care about you also care about you, whether you can accept your shortcomings, but sometimes, we know that the word presumptuous should be a derogatory term, and after presumptuousness, the situation may become worse, for example, parents in front of the teacher's presumptuousness, sometimes, think about it, many times, the student's poor grades are not necessarily the teacher's fault, or many reasons, there are also parents' reasons, but some parents just blame all the problems on the teacherI also know that there was once a teacher who had such an experience, when the student's grades were not good, it seemed that all were the responsibility of the teacher, in fact, the student did not do well in the exam, the teacher was part of the responsibility, but not all, I emphasize that it is not all, yes, it is really not all!!

So sometimes, when you are presumptuous, when you vent, you really have to identify the object, and you really can't sway your emotions at will, sometimes, people's actions may be a harm to others, sometimes, people's actions will make themselves more short, will make their position in the hearts of others more down, but sometimes, those who can accept your presumptuousness, can also accept your good people, there are not many in life, please cherish it!