Du Caige pondered for a moment and said, "I will sort out my thoughts and come to visit He Lao in a few days." When is the convenient time?"

"Master said that as long as you come, it will be convenient at any time, and she will definitely sweep the bed and greet you. ”

Long Jiumei didn't know when she had come over to eavesdrop.

Du Caige picked up his mobile phone and walked a little farther, and Long Jiumei snorted dissatisfiedly.

After chatting with Xu Qingya for a few words, finalizing the time to visit He Lao, and telling Xu Qingya Du Yuanqi's number, Du Caige returned to the sofa and sat down.

Long Jiumei came over.

She glanced at Du Caige, then lowered her eyelids and said casually, "This girl's voice is very young." How old are you?"

"19 years old. ”

"College students, if you are a little younger, you may not be ready to teach your husband and children...... But it doesn't matter, it's just right to talk about it for a few years," Long Jiumei said, "She has a good voice, what does she do at home?"

When Du Caige chatted with Xu Qingya before, he already knew some information about her family.

Her grandmother, Mrs. Sun, is a national treasure artist who receives a state allowance.

Her grandfather Xu Peiju used to be a political bigwig, a feudal official, and a political party.

Although he has retired now, the old protégés are still everywhere.

Her father was a singing artist in the army with the rank of major general.

Her mother runs a chain restaurant, a chain of Internet cafes, and a chain of small supermarkets, and Du Caige estimates that she has at least tens of millions of assets.

So Xu Qingya is actually a standard rich second generation, white and beautiful.

After Du Caige picked up some superficial information about Xu Qingya's family situation, Long Jiumei continued to nod with satisfaction.

At the end, he didn't say it too explicitly, but just understated: "The little girl is good, let's contact her more." It's not good for you to be depressed all the time, so you have to spend more time with young and lively girls. If you are engaged in art, you must also keep a young mind in order to write good works. Your dead ghost dad was also a merry and talented man back then, and he settled down when he met me. ”

Du Caige did not expose his mother's bragging.

In fact, Du Zhiqiu is an honest man, and he has been eaten to death by Long Jiumei.

If Du Zhiqiu dared to be romantic, he would have broken his leg long ago.

mentioned Du Zhiqiu, Long Jiumei began to wipe her tears uncontrollably, and Du Caige and Du Feiqi brothers and sisters had to comfort her.

In the afternoon, Du Yuanqi found her brother and said unhappily: "Mom wants me to help you." ”

"Help me with what?"

Du Feiqi glared at him: "Help you pick up girls!"

“？？？”

Du Yuanqi said angrily, "That Sister Xu." Mom wants me to help you get the string and chase her down. said that her family is good and worthy of you, and maybe I will contact Sister Xiaochen again. ”

"Just ignore her. I would also make it clear to her that if she wanted to interfere in my business, then I would buy her a suite, ask her to live out, and hire a nanny for her. If you want to live with us, don't interfere with our business. ”

Du Yuanqi kept nodding: "That's how it should be." ”

Although she was the one who brought her mother back, she regretted it less than a day after her mother came back.

......

Du Caige didn't have much of a festive mood.

The editing of "Those Years", the update of "Romance of the Dragon and Snake", and the "Ghost Blowing the Lantern" facing the finale all cost him a lot of energy.

And that's just the holiday season.

After the festival, the company has a small meeting at the conference, where he will meet with Shu Yihuan and Meng Zhaolong to discuss the script, the production and distribution of Duan Xiaochen's Sakurajima single, the preparation of the second micro-film, and the invitation of some cultural people......

Du Caige felt out of breath.

Fortunately, he has a place to rest, complain, and unload his burdens.

"I sometimes think that I am not cheap, I like an easy life, but I always unknowingly take care of myself. Sitting opposite Chen Quan, the light was soft, and Du Caige looked lazy.

It was already night, because Du Caige had something to delay two consultations, which were one of the temporary consultations.

Perhaps, although you like a relaxed life, you are more concerned about realizing your self-worth. ”

"yes...... The need for self-actualization is the highest level of human need. ”

"Huh?"

Only then did Du Caige remember that due to the different histories and cultures in this world, there was no Maslow, so naturally there was no famous "Maslow's hierarchy of needs." ”

Du Caige said lightly: "I think that people's needs should be divided into five levels. From low to high, they are physiological needs, security needs, love and belonging needs......"

"Wait, you said slow down!"

Chen Quan was keenly aware of the value of these passages, "I don't have a good memory, can you allow me to record and sort out what you said? I think what you said is very enlightening." ”

"Absolutely. "You also have to have a bosom friend when you pretend to be a beep.

You run up to Tony Stark and say, "I'm the most talented musician of all. I innovate musical forms, I lead new musical genres, I ......"

Tony Stark: "I don't understand music, I'm just rich. How much does your song cost?"

You say, "I am the most gifted painter." I innovated my painting techniques, I created a whole new genre ......"

Tony Stark: "I don't know how to draw, I'm just rich." How much does your painting cost?"

Can this happily beep?

But if you say the same thing in the presence of a beautiful, boring lady, you may make her laugh and tremble, and then you will pretend to be successful, and you will enjoy all the tenderness and warmth in the evening......

Similarly.

Maslow's hierarchy of needs for businessmen, lawyers, drivers, white-collar workers...... It's a piece of.

Useless.

Can you eat it? Can you get an extra half a month's bonus if you understand this?

But for counselors, the hierarchy of needs theory is a 100-carat flawless pink diamond.

It is a rare treasure of immeasurable value!

Waiting for Chen Quan to start recording, Du Caige continued to pretend: "The fourth level of need is the need for respect. The fifth level is the need for self-realization. ”

"These five levels of needs must be met from low to high. For example, it is difficult to consider the need for self-actualization until physiological and security needs are met. ”

Chen Quan nodded constantly.

This is one of the highest crystallizations of psychology and philosophy on the planet, and as an excellent psychological counselor, Chen Quan can naturally recognize its value.

After Du Caige broke down what he remembered, Chen Quan turned off the recording and said with a smile: "I have to study it carefully, what you just said can be sorted out and written into a book, and it is definitely a masterpiece that detonates the entire psychology world." ”

"Teacher Chen, you have won the prize. Du Caige finished filling the beep, and felt a little boring.

"Let's focus on your question again. "Chen Quan is still very professional.

Du Caige thought for a while and confessed: "Actually, what bothers me the most recently is the relationship between me and two women. I like Duan Xiaochen, but I don't have feelings for Yan Yingzhen. If I think about it, it seems that I should try to repair my relationship with Yan Yingzhen. But I can't bear Duan Xiaochen. ”

Chen Quan nodded: "So in the final analysis, you want both, and neither of you wants to give up." I get it. ”

Du Caige smiled bitterly: "Am I a scumbag, so I don't dare to develop too deeply with Duan Xiaochen now." Although I know that she wants to establish a relationship with me, she doesn't mind being ...... with me That one. But I couldn't make up my mind. ”

Chen Quan showed an understanding and gentle smile: "I will not make any moral judgments about you. I'm your counselor, I'm just helping you know yourself and learn to accept yourself. ”

After a pause, she added: "Of course, I can't teach you how to go left and right, it's not about morality, it's that I can't teach you what to do." In modern society, you want to have the love of two girls at the same time, which is difficult. Especially, these two girls are so good. ”

"Even if you can really hug left and right, left and right, I don't think you will necessarily be happy in the process. Maybe there will be more troubles. ”

Du Caige shrugged.

Hugging left and right is a young man's dream.

As a person who has come over, of course, he knows very well that although it is cool to hug left and right for a while, in the long run, it will bring more trouble and pain.

When he was on Earth, after his divorce, he had two girlfriends at the same time by accident.

These two girlfriends have very good personalities, their identities and status are relatively ordinary, and they are not arrogant.

And it's very restrained, almost never tearing.

In this way, he often feels stressed and troubled.

It's not easy to get a bowl of water flat.

So, having Duan Xiaochen and Yan Yingzhen at the same time?

I can only think about it in my dreams.

In reality, of course, it can't.

He doesn't have the spirit of a king, and he can't shake his body, so he lets the two beauties bow their heads and stick them upside down as if they were fed ecstasy.

Duan Xiaochen and Yan Yingzhen each have their own tempers and pride.

In their respective fields, they are all proud women of heaven who stand at the pinnacle.

One is a diva, and the other is the richest woman in Dahua.

Even ordinary girls find it difficult to agree to share their love with other women.

What's more, it's such a proud daughter of the sky?

Du Caige also knew that this problem would not be solved for a while, unless he made up his mind to choose a certain one.

In front of Chen Quan, he can only complain, and it is impossible to find a solution.

After talking for a while, Chen Quan said: "By the way, I have been asking my friends to inquire about the woman named Yiyi in the 'Lingquan Studio' and you said. ”

Du Caige perked up and sat up straight to listen.

"A few days ago, a friend gave me feedback that in Moling City, there is a spiritual stronghold called 'Lingquan Studio', which often holds spiritual salons. The organizer is a woman in her 40s, and she looks very much in line with your description of 'Yiyi'. But when he went to investigate again, he found that the 'Lingquan Studio' had closed. ”

"He found a few people who often go to the 'Lingquan Studio' to participate in the spiritual salon, and confirmed that the hostess is indeed called 'Yiyi', but now he can't be contacted. ”

"I asked him to help keep an eye on it, and if you have anything to do with it, you can push for a more detailed investigation. ”

Du Caige has always been very concerned about this matter, and immediately nodded gratefully: "I will follow up, Mr. Chen Quan, thank you so much." ”