When you really can't stand it

All along, I have been influenced by some people and things around me, in many cases, everyone is educating me to say, when encountering things, don't fight, don't grab, let go, so I learned to be polite, learned to be humble, learned how to give things I like to others, so I have always been such an existence, not to compete with others, I have also exercised my character, I feel that everything is not brought by life and death, there is no need.

So in many cases, I would rather others say that I am a person who is not very exquisite, and I will not squeeze forward and squeeze to fight like this, so in many cases, I don't want to cause trouble very much, and I don't want to make trouble, but after such a long time, some people will of course understand you, and they will not do things very excessively, and people have already let you, what else do you want?

But there are also some people who are very thick-skinned, and your tolerance of others has become a bargaining chip for others.

All along, there is a classmate in the class is always not very cooperative, at the beginning I thought it was just in my class to make trouble, but after a long time, I also found that when other teachers in class, he will not change at all, maybe it is his nature, but it is still in my class when I can't stand it, at the beginning, he always writes the homework randomly, every time he doesn't say that he wants to go to the tutorial class on Sunday, ask me to reduce some, this is no, I never think so, if you go to the tutorial class, cram school, I think it should be the same as others,Leave it after the homework is completed.,Besides,You haven't completed such a task and go to another tutoring.,What is this?,It must be after you complete the task specified by the teacher.,When you still have the energy, you go to some tutorial classes or something.,This can allow you to gain more knowledge.,But this classmate takes it for granted that going to a tutorial class is like taking up more time than others and asking to reduce tasks.,Reduce homework and go to a tutorial class.,This is the so-called fairness.,Or he won't feel balanced in his own heart. 。

In fact, sometimes think about it, they really don't know that they are reading and learning for their own future, sometimes in the past, I also said, you read for yourself, don't think like this for the sake of the teacher, there are very few people who read for the teacher, there are also a lot of people when they grow up, on the way to see the former teacher turned their head to other places, pretending not to know, in fact, the teacher does not want you to have anything in return, but even the most basic daily greetings will not have, it is also very common, we are gradually accepting such a reality, but when meeting such a student, I also told him a lot of truths.

I've said all the nice things.,But it's still not very effective.,I think other teachers are working as hard as me.,But the effect is still not obvious.,I wonder if it's nature.,So be it.,As long as it's not excessive.,Then forget it.。

When I go to class, I always do some other very funny actions, causing others to laugh, and the others are very quiet, they are all busy with their own things, and only this, when he is in class, that is, when he shows his talent, he makes small movements, shouts loudly, I don't know what he shouts, every time it is like this, when I am in class, I also hear him shouting loudly in other teachers' classes, louder than the teacher's voice, and I love to answer, what the teacher says in class, wherever he goes, he has to pick up a sentence that does not hurt or itch, attract the attention of others, and when he writes his homework, it is like going to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, always say that you are a student who goes to a tutorial class, and ask the teacher to reduce the amount of homework, and others can complete it, why can't you?

It's a question I've wanted to ask countless times. When I write, it's not like it's written, it's not a word at all, it's all dotted lines, such a continuous painting, what comes out is such a mess, it's the so-called homework, when he goes to see it himself, he doesn't know what he writes, and when he reads it and writes it, he doesn't know it, just like that, once and again education, but it still doesn't work, sometimes I think about it, I still accept the words of the experts, there are no students who can't teach well, only teachers who can't teach well, I am also deeply educated by such a sentence, but it turns out that it still ended in failure。

I endure it like this every time, and I need to set aside extra time to answer his strange and painless topics again and again in class, and so many other students are waiting, but once I really can't bear it, so I told him, when you are in class, don't talk too much, louder than the teacher, what are you yelling about?

In the future, keep quiet, wait for the teacher to finish, you will ask your questions, but he still can't, every time he wants to interrupt you, such a self, to ask you to answer some of his strange questions, too wasteful of time, if you have any questions, you can find the teacher after class, how to say, the teacher will give you enough time to say, but also will patiently answer your questions.

That's how good, but he doesn't choose this way, he has to follow his own way, so when I warn him, there is a limit to people's patience, every time you make trouble like this in class, it's unacceptable, it affects others too much, no matter how you yourself are, you can't affect others like this, this is the beginning of this lesson, and I pretend not to see how he is doing in this class.

In the next class, I still hope that he will have some improvements, but this time it is still the same, I called him out directly, and said angrily, XXX you come out for me, and when I shouted so loudly to let him come out, at the beginning he was still full of care, and he looked back, but then he was frightened by my posture, I roared like this, and the sound shook the sky, if I was heard by others, I thought I would have heard the news and rushed to come, thinking that something had happened?

But after a long time, no one came, and I was also frightened by my own appearance, but I didn't hit him or scold him, and in the following time, he was instantly quiet until the bell rang for the end of class.

The next time I go to class, I really can't imagine that he is still the same as before, there will still be some changes, when I sometimes speak, when other students say a very small whisper below, he appears, or stops and says, you guys be quiet, I was also shocked by his instantaneous change, what the hell is going on, is it because of my anger, because I am really angry, or what's going on?

Why did he change so quickly, from then on, and before it seemed to be a different person, this is really strange, I don't know what this is, if it's me, I have never experienced the teacher's roar since I was a child, if there is a teacher who really yells at me like this, I think it must be the deepest memory of my life, such a memory is not good but clumsy, but he was completely changed by a roar, and it is also unprecedentedly quiet, this is all because of what, I can't think of it, but I still feel that in my own creed, I really don't want this to happen,People still respect each other,Or don't be so excessive.,Do your best.,Others also do what they should do.,Everything is carried out in an orderly manner.,How good,I also hope that I have always respected students like this.,Although they're still just a child.,I will still respect their face and ideas.,But this time the anger is unbearable.,It's an instant outburst after the unbearable.,It's also scared of myself.,In fact, no matter how good-tempered a person is.,If you're really angry.,It's also a very trembling existence.,I'm also deeply aware of such a problem.,But I think it's better to control it. , Don't break out again and again, let other people's behavior become the fuse of your own outbreak, and later I also did my own profound review, for this outbreak.