Sometimes I think about the contact between people and people is a matter of an instant, some people make you have a good impression of him, it must be that this person has some joyful elements in your life, but if you don't like something, it must be that others have caused some sad elements in your life, such feelings are complicated, life is complicated, and the things that happen to people are also different and ever-changing, so they create different people, different thoughts, and different ideas.

In the evening, the little nephew said that she was very hungry, I cooked a pack of instant noodles for her, after she ate like this, less than an hour, she actually urged me to cook, I thought she had eaten, she would not be hungry, she had already eaten a pack of instant noodles, just forget it, after all, it is night, don't eat so much, I also decided not to go to dinner tonight, weight loss is the first thing in life, sometimes think about it, weight loss should really be a long-term goal, in the short term, it is possible for you to lose as much as you want, but if you look at it in the long run, you will findIn fact, it will still increase like this, which is understandable.

But at this time, when she said that she was very hungry, I also looked a little disbelieving, I watched her finish the whole package of instant noodles, I cooked it myself, but now what to cook?

She said, then you can do whatever you want, I said, order takeout, because today is the Double Ninth Festival, so the takeaway is also 50% off, this is very discounted, too affordable, just buy some of it, but when I watched it for a long time, I still don't know what to eat, so I have been watching it like this, but in the end, I still found that if I take out, it is a waste of money, because I and my little nephew, the two of us can eat a bowl of rice, and we don't need so much rice, too much, I think she can't finish it。

So just go to the neighborhood to buy braised noodles to eat, is the nearest one, or the recent new opening, at the door of their own community, but has never been to eat, in the first few days of the opening is to buy a bowl to get a bowl, but I still don't have time to eat, just when I passed by, but when I was passing by, I was also passing by, but the date of the house was written last month, that is, now the activity has ended, then forget it, generally do some at home, so it is very possible to save money, and you can eat well, so you will go out to eat when you have to goAt the beginning, my nephew said that I wanted to eat dumplings, but when I proposed that I wanted to eat braised noodles, I asked her if she wanted to eat them, she said she wanted to eat, so I said, then let's go out, soon to the outside, there are a lot of meals in the place to eat, there are dumplings, there are also braised noodles, but she insisted that she wants to eat braised noodles, we will buy the braised noodles, after eating, go to the supermarket, this is the normal state of life, because in life, we still hope that we can sometimes buy some vegetables, but also buy some other food or something, give the little nephew her favorite snacksIn the past, she liked to eat a lot of snacks, but after a long time, she ate a lot of snacks in the supermarket, when we went to the supermarket, we always went to pick up what she had not eaten to buy, she knew what it tasted like, and when you let her eat, she still didn't like to eat, resolutely not, she just wanted the snacks she liked to eat.

When I visited the first supermarket, because there was a bread-type snack was good, she looked at it herself, and I also thought it was good, so I bought one and took it, and then went to the next supermarket, because our goal was to buy a cushion, the cushion on the chair, because winter is coming, it is still good to have a cushion, so at least the stool is not very cold, and it is more comfortable to sit, so we went to buy it like this, but the cushion was not bought, but I bought a snack in my hand, she never ate it, just took it, in fact, I blamed me for being too careless, when I went to the next supermarketI didn't ask anyone if I could bring this bread in?

I took my little nephew in this way, and after I went in, I didn't buy anything, but when I left, the man stopped us and said, you just took a loaf of bread, they thought we took it in his store, it was a one-yuan thing, a dollar of bread, I was also surprised, I said that you also have such bread in the supermarket?

He said, of course, but because he didn't take this kind of bread out for comparison, so we didn't say anything, he himself was not sure if we brought it in from the outside, he just asked casually, but we also had a trace of fluctuation in our own hearts, I realized that this is the problem, it is the bread we bring outside, can not be brought to other people's supermarkets, in fact, in large supermarkets, of course we know, there are also security, but such a supermarket, only a dozen square meters, there is no security, all the salespeople are only this person alone,I also ignored this problem in such a small supermarket.,Of course, at this time I can't say clearly.,I can't prove that I brought it in from the outside.,Although he just asked us so simply and let us go.,I've also thought a lot.,About such a thing,How to define it?

I also don't know, I've been thinking about this kind of question for a long time, sometimes I think about it, I would actually do it for a loaf of bread, if I really want to take a loaf of bread and not give you money, I think such a person should be secretly hidden, not like this in the hand, put it in an obvious position, but I myself also ignored it, when I went to the supermarket before, sometimes I would encounter such a situation, I bought things in other supermarkets, generally buy a lot of things, people will give a bag to carry, so at least a proof, but now it is so unclear, don't give people money, People seem to think that they took a loaf of bread from someone else, and gave one yuan to someone again, it's too SB, a loaf of bread actually gave money twice, what's the matter.

However, such an incident caused me to think deeply, why can't we trust others?

Why can't it be based on human consciousness? It is because some people are unconscious, like this society is all bad people, sometimes, you meet a bad person, although you will not feel that the whole world is a bad person, but it is enough to enhance your defensive psychology, this is certain, sometimes think about it, when we wrap ourselves with a protective umbrella, we must have been hurt before, I also deeply understand this person, after thinking a lot, I realized that they do business, should have encountered such a thing before, in many times we are not so sensitive, but when you are very sensitive to something, it must be in the previous life,There is something similar happening to you.,That's why there's such a reaction.,This is the first time that a salesperson has asked like this.,Although it's a few short words.,But it's always been questioned.。

In the future, it is better to be careful, and if you buy things in other places, you must not enter other similar types of supermarkets like this, this is the final lesson.