Recently, the lecturer's class of Chinese culture is becoming more and more popular.,I also took the time to watch.,The main thing is about women's morality.,I really don't understand a little.,If there is a relationship between men and women in today's society.,Why is the whole responsibility on the woman?

Why don't you open a lecture hall on male morality? This is a question of mine, and also, after watching her video, I want to say that I didn't want to scold her, because I didn't have that kind of mood, you just say it like that, I don't oppose it, I don't support it, because I have my own ideas, and you have the right to speak, but I watched your speech yesterday, and I didn't fall asleep all night, so my unkempt heart didn't know what to do?

When I got up in the morning, I was a little confused, my eyes were very astringent, but I still couldn't sleep, my husband still asked me why I got up so early today, I said for such a speech, should I do it?

Who is Ding Xuan, I don't have anything to do with it, but it wasted a good time for me to sleep, what do you say you are doing decently, the key is that I am also a little cheap, I always want to take a look at new things, study it, this time is good, insomnia for a night, I don't know how tonight is?

One of her points of view is that men are the heavens, women are the earth, and the earth can never turn the sky, so her way of treating men is to be tolerant, which may have been the case in the previous society, but in the current society, many views have changed, for example, the relationship between men and women now, everyone has repeatedly asked for equality, and it is basically like this, why do you just ask women to be inferior to men?

Besides, after a lot of experience verification, men and women play the same advantages at work, and women may also be very strong or very successful, which does not necessarily mean that women must be dependent on men to exist, just like "Wrestling!

Daddy The above views are the same, why can it be recognized by the audience, in fact, it is also in line with the taste of many people in modern society, but Ding Xuan's point of view is different, so it has been misinterpreted and abused by many people, and even insulted, because such a view may have been adapted in the previous decades, but now it really doesn't work, because people's ideas have changed, I also saw on the Internet that some people are very supportive of Teacher Ding Xuan, and some people are against it, but I think Teacher Ding Xuan is not using this as a bait to gain everyone's attention。

There are also people who say that those who do not support Teacher Ding Xuan are uneducated people, and people who do not understand China's classical culture, what other books such as "Analects", "Book of Filial Piety" and "Tao Te Ching" are recommended for them to read, is there actually such a need?

If you like Teacher Ding Xuan, you like to go, no one interferes with you, those who don't like her, what reason do you have for others to like her?

If you like it, you like it, and you don't like to pull it down. It's a good attitude not to force others like that.

Ding Xuan is 63 years old, their generation said that they must endure domestic violence, I believe it, because in that era, a lot of domestic violence, men still disrespect women, in that era men beat women a lot, I often see in our village, husband and wife hand-to-hand fighting, as well as holding bricks and fighting, and holding knives, in fact, looking at this situation, I am also so afraid, although I am just a bystander, but such barbarism is also very common, needless to say, men and women fight, needless to say, men and women fight, needless to say, men are dominant, women suffer, but women in that era were wronged, I still won't get divorced, I didn't have that concept at that time, everyone thought that divorce was a shameful thing, so there was a lot of domestic violence, and there were many women who swallowed their anger and didn't dare to speak out.

However, in modern society, men and women are basically more respectful, and if they don't get along, they will get divorced, and there will be no men beating women at all, although it is not so absolute, but it is already a lot less.

If you can't get by, it's just a day, there's no need to force others and scold others, this is the improvement of national quality, everyone doesn't know if you have found it, when we were young, that is, those people of our parents' generation, many of them were people in the 50s or 60s, and there were many people who quarreled and cursed and swore in the village, but now there are basically none, who is scolding in the village?

Everyone is ashamed of such a thing, so everyone has learned to live in harmony with neighbors, which is also a manifestation of everyone's improved quality.

As for the current pre-marital sex, on the one hand, the society has developed rapidly, the people's minds are open-minded, and there is another reason that the trouble caused by part-time work, we are different from those people in China and foreign countries, those people in foreign countries, where the husband works, will bring his whole family to his city, but we in China are not good, where consumption is high, you say that the money you make in a month is so small, they are not not counting such an account, they really can't afford it, so they work outside alone, and the wife and children at home are studying at home or something, which develops such cheating, in fact, they can not cheat, can also be a good citizen, don't they want to?

It's really helpless for them. They are also separated for part-time jobs, for a few hundred yuan a month, is it worth it?

Is it really worth it? So foreigners admire this point of our Chinese people very much, that is, a person who works hard outside is really a very strong generation.

Teacher Ding Xuan's starting point may not be wrong, I believe that everyone who stands on the podium is doing their best to dedicate their thoughts and essence to everyone, but many of her views are a summary of her life experience, she is 63 years old, so her views are not easy to be accepted by us young people, this is normal, this is the gap and generation gap between generations.

So those who have repeatedly refuted Teacher Ding Xuan, their experience may not be at all different from Teacher Ding Xuan's experience, so there is such a big difference, even if they are people of the same era, born in different classes, born in different families, their views are also very different, let alone dozens of years old?

It is normal to have different views, there is no need for such disapproval and abuse, we are not qualified to impose our own views on others, please allow others to speak, you can disagree, but others have the opportunity to speak.

Here's how I see it. I didn't sleep all day today, I didn't feel sleepy at all, I still endured writing down my opinions, I still hope that everyone will keep their own opinions, and giving others a respect is also a respect for themselves, just like a saying, the light shines in the dark, but the darkness does not accept the light.

The principle is the same, and I sincerely hope that when I write this text, I will no longer be angry tonight, and I will no longer feel like I have something to say, so that I can sleep well tonight.