Chapter 288: In This World, There's No Big Deal But Death!
After drifting on the Yong River for more than two hours with his daughter, the father and daughter who had a good time went ashore on the side of the Rowan River, and the bodyguards and drivers were already waiting by the river, and as soon as Liu Xiahui's father and daughter arrived, the drivers drove towards the Liu's Building.
At noon and in the afternoon, we all ate at the Liu's Building.
In the car, Liu Xiahui smiled and asked, "Little fairy, what do you want to eat later?"
Liu Xiaoxian replied without hesitation: "I want to eat ice cream!"
Liu Xiahui's expression stiffened, and he said: "Xiaoxian, you should eat less ice cream, eating frozen things is not good for your health!"
Liu Xiaoxian said pitifully: "But I haven't eaten ice cream for a long time, Dad, didn't you just say that I am the oldest on my birthday today?
Liu Xia Hui said helplessly: "Okay, you can eat a little ice cream today, but you have to eat it after dinner, what do you want to eat as the staple food?"
"Staple food, I want to think about it!" Liu Xiaoxian's eyes turned smartly, and said, "Then eat roasted whole sheep!"
Liu Xiahui nodded and said, "Okay, then Dad will arrange it immediately!" After speaking, Liu Xiahui called the chefs of [World's No. 1 Chinese Restaurant] to prepare a roasted whole sheep.
As soon as Liu Xiahui finished making the call, the car stopped, and he saw a crowd of people at the door of a hotel next to him, all of whom looked up at the hotel, obviously something was wrong.
Liu Xia Hui also looked at the hotel, and at a glance saw a woman sitting on the fence on the top of the building, and instantly understood what was happening, obviously someone couldn't think of jumping off the building!
For this kind of person who wants to commit suicide, Liu Xiahui summed up the eight words Lu Xun said: mourn his misfortune and be angry with him!
However, since he met him, Liu Xia Hui still wanted to try to see if he could save people, so he regarded it as a blessing for himself.
After thinking clearly, Liu Xiahui said to his daughter: "Xiaoxian, Dad has something to do now, can you go back to eat first?"
Liu Xiaoxian nodded sensibly and said, "Okay Dad, then you come back quickly!"
Liu Xia Hui responded with a smile: "I know, Dad will go back after finishing his errands!"
After speaking, Liu Xiahui opened the car door and got out of the car, and the bodyguards quickly divided into two groups, one group escorted Liu Xiaoxian back to the Liu Mansion, and the other group stayed to protect Liu Xiahui.
Liu Xia Hui did not stay where he was, but walked into the hotel for the first time, ready to go to the roof to try to talk to the woman who wanted to kill herself, to see if there was a chance to save people.
At this time, the hotel has been in a mess, someone is ready to jump off the roof of the hotel, which has a very big impact on the hotel, after all, there are many superstitious people in our country, if you don't know, if you know that someone in this hotel jumped to death, then you will never choose this hotel to stay in the case of having a choice.
Therefore, the hotel is the last thing that wants people to have an accident.
Now, the hotel has called the police, and the police should be about to arrive, and what the hotel can do at present is to block the passage to the roof of the building, so as not to let those onlookers go to the bad things, and wait for the police to come.
Liu Xia Hui wanted to go up, and the hotel originally wanted to stop it, but Liu Xia Hui's bodyguards went over to negotiate with the person in charge of the hotel, and then Liu Xia Hui and the others were unimpeded.
This hotel has a total of eighteen floors, and soon Yanagi Hui came to the top of the building with his bodyguards.
Looking through the staircase, you can see the side of the woman, who is sitting on the small fence with her hands and legs in her hands, staring blankly ahead, not knowing what she is thinking.
Seeing this scene, Liu Xiahui's heart tightened, to be honest, this fence is not as big as half the woman's buttocks, sitting on it in such a posture, the danger really needs not be said.
It is no exaggeration to say that a gust of wind blowing may cause a woman to fall from the building.
At this time, the woman seemed to be immersed in her own inner world, and she did not notice the arrival of Yanashita Hui and the others.
At this time, in fact, Liu Xia Hui can slowly approach, maybe he can drag her back while the woman is unprepared.
However, Liu Shita Hui still didn't dare to take this risk, in case he was about to approach the woman, he was suddenly discovered by the woman and fell downstairs after being frightened, it would not be to save people but to harm people.
Therefore, Liu Xia Hui thought about it, and before walking out of the staircase, he deliberately coughed twice to remind the woman that someone was coming.
Hearing the cough, the woman turned her head, glanced at Liu Xiahui expressionlessly, didn't say anything, didn't have any overreaction, turned her head to look ahead, and continued to immerse herself in her inner world.
Seeing this scene, Liu Xiahui's heart sank, the person who committed suicide was not afraid that she would be excited, but afraid that she would not be excited, and she would commit suicide with emotion, that was a moment of unthinkable, as long as the emotions calmed down, the matter would pass.
But this kind of calmness from beginning to end, the kind of person who is only immersed in his inner world and feels indifferent to everything in the outside world, is the real difficulty, and it is probably not easy to dispel the other party's suicidal thoughts.
When Liu Shita Hui wrote in his previous life, he checked the relevant information and knew that there were four most common causes of suicide:
First, it is because of depression that cannot be cured, so he embarked on the road of suicide.
Second, it is due to emotional crisis and family breakdown.
Third, it is due to physical diseases such as cancer, AIDS, etc., which pose a lot of psychological pressure to the patient, resulting in mental breakdown.
Fourth, it is caused by interpersonal relationships and work pressure, and the parties cannot find other ways to seek relief, so they have to choose radical methods.
Among the four common causes, if you encounter the second and fourth types, there is still great hope that they can be solved, but if you encounter the first and third ones, it is difficult to solve them.
In addition to this, there are other reasons that are rare.
For example, religion, such as superstition, such as mouth and poison, and even influenced by movies and television, thinking that people can be reborn after death, and then looking for their own death and wanting to live again.
Yanashita Hui carefully looked at the woman, who was about thirty years old, and guessed what kind of woman she belonged to.
It's a long story, but it's actually a few seconds.
Seeing that the woman turned her head to look at them, she was immersed in her inner world again, Yanagi Hui groaned slightly, then walked out of the staircase, stood about seven or eight meters away from the woman, coughed again, and said, "This eldest sister, can I talk to you a few words?"
The woman didn't reply this time, and she didn't reply either, I don't know if she heard it or not.
Liu Xia Hui continued: "Eldest sister, I'm not here to tell you the truth, but I want to ask you if you have any hurdles that you can't get over, as long as you say it, I will never shirk what I can do!"
Seeing that the woman still ignored him, Liu Xiahui said while observing her every move: "Eldest sister, I don't know what kind of predicament you encountered, so I had the idea of committing suicide, and I am not a psychologist, so I don't know how to persuade you."
Before you speak, I'll tell you a story!
You have either heard of this story, sister, or you have not heard of it, whether you have heard it or not, I want to use this inspirational story to dispel the idea of suicide. ”
Liu Shita Hui said: "The protagonist of this story is named Pan Lian, who was born in a poor rural family in Hainan, China. When he was 18 years old, his father sent him to Hong Kong to make a living.
After arriving in Hong Kong, Pan Lian initially worked as an apprentice on the steamship "Tanda".
In 1939, when World War II broke out, the British began to recruit sailors in Hong Kong in order to cope with Germany. 21-year-old Pan Lian signed a contract with the British merchant ship "Belomon" and became a waiter on the ship.
After spending more than three years on board, Pan Lian's boat was attacked by the Germans.
It was November 23, 1942, and the Bellomon was transporting strategic supplies for Britain in the Atlantic, as usual, when it was discovered by a German submarine.
After the first torpedo hit, the merchant ship exploded, and Pan Lian quickly abandoned the ship and jumped into the sea. After that, a second torpedo hit, and the Belomon sank into the sea, killing most of the crew on board.
In a panic, Pan Lian grabbed a wooden plank and drifted on the boundless sea.
At this time, Pan Lian fell into despair and confusion: what should I do? How can I return to land, how can I escape?"
As the story unfolded, it was difficult to judge whether the woman listened to it or not, but the bodyguards who followed Liu Xiahui upstairs listened to it, and they were all thinking about what to do if they encountered this situation?
Yanagishita continued: "After drifting at sea for several hours, suddenly, a miracle happened, a life raft floated over. Pan Lian desperately swam to the life raft and climbed up.
As luck would have it, there were two cubicles on the life raft and two metal boxes with 40 litres of life-saving fresh water, some beef jerky, biscuits, canned food and chocolate, plus a flashlight and a couple of flares.
Perhaps, this is a blessing in misfortune for Pan Lian.
After a burst of joy, Pan Lian saw the hope of life, so he began to use these things in a planned way, consuming only a little food every day.
However, in the tropics, the sun is exposed to the sun, and the water is lost very quickly. He had to have enough fresh water to replenish or he would soon die of dehydration.
In order to solve this problem, he tied the canvas from the life raft to the masts around it, which can be regarded as a simple shed. One is to avoid exposure to the sun, and the other is to collect fresh water when it rains.
In addition, he began to knot the rope day, and everything became very planned. ”
At this point, Liu Xiahui paused slightly, judging that the woman should be listening, so he continued: "Time passed, and although Pan Lian only consumed a small amount of food every day, on the 55th day, his food was still exhausted.
Faced with the predicament, Pan Lian had already thought of a way.
First, Pan Lian took apart the flashlight that had run out of power, and then made a fishhook with the spring inside. After that, he also dismantled the cables on the life raft into strands and twisted them into tiny fishing lines.
In addition, he found some shellfish from the planks of the life raft and used them as bait to fish.
After catching fish for the first time, Pan Lian once tried to eat these fish raw, but after all, we Chinese did not grow up eating sashimi, so raw fish is difficult to swallow. In order to solve this problem, Pan Lian dried the fish he caught, so that there was no fishy smell and it was easy to store for a long time.
If you can fish, why not catch a big fish?
Thinking of this, Pan Lian also took a nail from the life raft and made the nail into a fish hook.
Later, Pan Lian used this hook and then used a small fish as bait to successfully catch a small shark. There are dozens of small fish on top of a big fish, and Pan Lian also made the canned food into a simple knife, cut the shark into fillets and hung them up.
Fresh water and food have been solved, but a new problem has arisen - the storm!!
After a storm, Pan Lian's dried fish and fresh water that he had been accumulating for many days were ruthlessly taken away. ”
Speaking of this, Liu Shita Hui asked, "Eldest sister, have you heard of this story?"
The woman turned her head, this time finally speaking, and asked, "What happened later?"
Liu Xiahui was in good spirits and continued to speak: "In the face of all this, Pan Lian did not despair, he believed that he could live. So he began to collect food and fresh water again, and in the process, Pan Lian also caught seabirds that landed on the raft, ate raw bird meat, and even bit off its neck to drink the bird's blood.
But that's not the only problem.
Because of the lack of vitamins at sea for a long time, Pan Lian's body began to swell, and his skin began to fester.
In the midst of endless suffering and physical pain, Pan Lian still did not give up, because he always insisted on his belief - to live. ”
Hearing this, the woman muttered to herself, "Live!"
Liu Shita Hui said: "I don't know how many days I was adrift at sea, Pan Lian saw a merchant ship. He desperately cried for help, and the merchant ship gradually approached him, but when they could both see each other clearly, the merchant ship turned around and drove away.
Later, on another occasion, a plane from the United States spotted him and threw a buoy on him as a marker. Unfortunately, when the storm came, not only were the buoys gone, but even their own food and fresh water had to be collected again.
These two blows to his will were very big, but he still held on......"
The woman laughed at herself and said, "What's the point of such persistence?"
Liu Xiahui's eyes became brighter and brighter, and he continued: "Finally, when the will and body have reached the limit, Pan Lian saw hope, the color of the sea water has changed, and it is already close to the land.
On April 6, 1943, Pan Lian arrived on the coast of Brazil and was rescued by a family of Brazilian fishermen.
By this time, he had been adrift at sea for 133 days. ”
After the story was finished, Yanagi added: "Eldest sister, this story tells us that human life is the most precious, no matter what kind of adversity you are in, as long as you don't give up, then there is still hope for everything!"
The woman's tears couldn't help but flow, and she said, "There is no hope, he lied to me, he doesn't love me anymore, and we can never go back to the past!"
Hearing the woman say this, Liu Xiahui finally affirmed that the woman in front of him should be disillusioned because of a relationship crisis or family breakdown, and finally had the idea of suicide.
Liu Shita Hui has different attitudes towards suicide for different reasons, if it is because it is because of unbearable illness or severe depression, he is full of sympathy for such people to commit suicide.
But for suicides caused by feelings, oral and drug abuse, religion, superstition, work pressure, etc., to be honest, Yanagi Hui is not sympathetic at all.
Just as the woman was talking, the police arrived at the scene and climbed to the roof of the hotel.
However, Liu Xiahui's bodyguard is still very eye-catching, seeing that the big boss successfully used a story to attract the woman to speak, knowing that this should be a good thing, the bodyguard deliberately stopped at the bottom of the staircase, and briefly told the police about the identity of the big boss and the situation of the woman who committed suicide on the roof.
The police also knew that this kind of person with suicidal thoughts was not stimulating, since there was Boss Liu on the roof of the building to persuade him, and it had achieved initial results, the police would not be so stupid that they had to rush up, so they simply waited under the staircase to see the situation.
Knowing that the woman had an emotional problem, Liu Xiahui had the intention to ignore it, but he has always done things from the beginning to the end, and since he has come up to persuade him today, he can't give up halfway.
So Liu Xia Hui took a deep breath and said, "Eldest sister, I have something ugly, if a person really wants to die, no one can stop it, so you might as well get down from the fence first, and then tell me about the emotional problems you encountered." As the saying goes, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, even if I can't solve your emotional problems, at least I can help you judge the reason for the breakdown of your relationship!"
Perhaps the woman felt that he had a point, so she moved her feet inside, and then, to the exclamation of the onlookers, she jumped with her right hand on the fence and entered the safety of the extremely dangerous fence.
When the woman jumped into the ground on the roof of the building, if Liu Xia Hui aimed at the opportunity to rush up, it was very likely that the other party would be controlled, but as he just said, if a person really wants to die, who can stop him?
If she can't untie the knot in her heart, it will be a symptom rather than a cure, and there will be a next time.
Therefore, when the woman jumped down, Yanagishita Hui did not move, and still stood in place, which made the woman feel very relieved.
Next, the woman opened the conversation box and confided her experience to Yanagi Hui.
This was said for more than half an hour, and Liu Xiahui has been listening patiently.
To put it simply, this woman has been with her current husband since she was eighteen years old, her husband is eight years older than her, her husband had nothing at that time, and her parents strongly opposed their marriage, but the woman still chose to marry this man without hesitation.
Then, the woman followed the man to suffer I don't know how much, and finally kept the clouds open and saw the moon, and the couple's efforts for more than ten years finally paid off, and the days were getting better day by day.
But not long ago, the woman suddenly discovered that the man who had been in love with her for more than ten years actually had an affair and had a child with someone else, this discovery was a bolt from the blue for her.
When she questioned her husband, the man's words pierced her heart: You can't blame me for not being able to give birth to a baby yourself!
Hearing this, Yanagi Hui did have some sympathy for the woman in front of him.
According to her, the reason why she didn't have children was that when she married her husband, because the family was too poor, she had to do heavy work with her husband when she was pregnant, which eventually led to the miscarriage of the child, and there was no money for good treatment at that time, so she couldn't conceive again after that miscarriage!
As a result, her husband didn't feel guilty, and actually used this as an excuse for cheating, which made the woman really heartbroken, and then she had the idea of committing suicide.
After listening to the woman's story, Liu Xiahui sighed and said, "Eldest sister, you are so stupid, just for such a man, you actually want to commit suicide, is it worth it?"
The woman said with tears in her eyes: "When he was the poorest, I was by his side without abandonment, and I had no regrets for more than ten years of hard work." For his sake, I did not hesitate to cut ties with my parents. I trust him, and I rely on him for the rest of my life. But I never thought that he would do this to me, what do you think I mean by living in this world?"
Liu Xia Hui resisted the urge to complain and said: "Eldest sister, your idea is really too extreme, you are only in your thirties, and you have only walked a third of the way in life." And in this one-third of your life, your parents have accompanied you for more than half of the journey, and this man has only accompanied you for a small half.
But if you look at what you're doing now, are you worthy of the parents who gave birth to you and raised you? Have you ever thought about the heart-wrenching pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person? Even if you commit suicide, who cares about your life or death except that your parents will be sad and sad?
To say something you don't like to hear, eldest sister, I heard that you had the idea of committing suicide for such a man, I really wanted to scold you, it was so stupid!
Let's not talk about the whole world, let's just say that we in China, there are tens of millions of people who break down their feelings every year, if they all choose to cut themselves off like you, then our country will be in chaos a long time ago!
Eldest sister, look at the point, there is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome, a momentary emotional setback is nothing, my point of view is this, if you are not even afraid of the death that people fear the most, are you still afraid of living?"
The woman's face was red and white when she was spoken, and the last sentence that Yanagi said made her recite it silently over and over again.
After two or three minutes, she looked at Liu Xiahui with bright eyes and said: "Thank you for your persuasion, it is really better to listen to your words than to study for ten years! You are right, if a person is not even afraid of death, what is there to be afraid of in this life? In the past ten years, I have been most sorry for my parents, and I will try my best to make up for them and give them a pension in the end!"
Hearing this, Liu Xia Hui breathed a sigh of relief and said: "Eldest sister, it's best if you can think about it, as the saying goes, life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten, even if it is the supreme emperor in ancient times, there is no way to do everything well."
In short, relax your mind.
In this world, there is nothing important except death!"
The woman nodded again and again when she heard this, and then thanked her repeatedly, obviously her heart knot had been completely untied by Liu Xiahui!
And Liu Xiahui's mood is also good, even if he looks down on this kind of person who seeks death for his feelings, but no matter what, it is a human life, and it is a good thing to be able to save people smoothly!