This is the last time I went to Luoyang, I wrote down a moment of feeling, the driver is still very skilled in a familiar hand, but suddenly a sudden brake, the whole car is nervous, I am the same, I didn't even have time to see what kind of thing suddenly appeared in front of the car, the driver has stepped on the accelerator, continue to go straight, sometimes it is often like this, originally walked well, but suddenly an obstacle, so it became the biggest reason for the driver's sudden braking, but it has been driving out for several minutes, why I still have a very nervous feeling, this feeling has continued, refusing to fallAt this time, I suddenly seemed to remember something, and I suddenly told myself, why did the driver step on the accelerator and walk a lot of way, I was still nervous, I told myself, this is not right?

The driver is not nervous anymore, why am I so nervous? It is also said that when I realized such a problem, I knew that I should relax in an instant, but sometimes, we just have a special feeling, or even something that does not fall within the scope of our own worries, which makes us very worried, for example, people are usually worried about those fools on the street, whether they can get food today, and some people will worry about whether the people who do business will make money, and even because of some problems that have nothing to do with themselves, they think about it for a long time, think about it, and then they can't extricate themselves, this is the problem, when sometimes, the people around me have such and such worries, Worried about problems that have nothing to do with us, analyzed for a long time for those things that have nothing to do with us, have their own opinions and opinions, and quarrel because of some inexplicable issues, at this time, my greatest strength is to tell the people around me that this is not what we worry about, and then they will stop talking without saying anything, or even stop arguing, and become happy, and even become harmonious.

However, the words still have to be said, and the way of speaking is still to be emphasized, especially there is a special factor that is the word, although the inconspicuous one or two words will have a completely different effect, for example, the above

"It's not something we worry about. If I say, "It's not your concern. "Maybe they're going to argue with me, said

"It's not really something we worry about, but we're just debating it, just thinking about it. "Just a word difference, can shorten the distance between people, but when we worry about some indifferent things, we find that those indifferent things, will make us bothered, in fact, are not things in our lives, but the problems faced by others, maybe people who face problems are more optimistic than we think, and we onlookers do worry a lot, really make ourselves feel ridiculous, but a lot of times, often a lot of things in real life are like this, salty radish light worry about a lot of things, salty radish light worry about a lot of people, think about just increase their own troubles。