In the past, because of my young age, I didn't have a very deep understanding of what others said, but recently I have slowly realized the truth of what others say, especially the difficulty of finding a confidant, sometimes I found that in real life, many people can't find a confidant, and sometimes I find that a confidant is enough in life!

Such a sentence is not said in vain. In many cases, we will not meet the stories of bosom friends like Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi.

It is indeed not easy for them to become bosom friends, to understand each other's voices, it is difficult for us to meet such bosom friends in real life, sometimes, in many of our circle of friends, most of the people can only be regarded as acquaintances, and sometimes they also find that the more they grow up, the more lonely they are, when they have some things on their minds, they still don't want to bother their friends, sometimes they don't want to bother them at all, and sometimes they even want to tell them our hearts, but they still hold back, and finally digest them slowly, and sometimes we find out that we don't bother othersIn fact, many times we will find that sometimes even if you open your heart, you may not get the other party's understanding, and sometimes, you may not get the other party's real understanding, only to find that it is really difficult to find a bosom friend.

In the hearts of middle-aged people like us, in fact, many times it has slowly become a kind of ideological pressure, especially in the old and the young, there are parents above, some parents are already old, and we have to take care of our own children, in fact, a lot of pressure exists in life, we still have to face a lot of confusion, sometimes the mood is not good, it is also a very normal mood, not necessarily our life is smooth everywhere, and not necessarily in real life, everything we have experienced, can meet our own requirements and standards, and in these real life, we finally found outWhen we have a lot of things on our minds, we find out that there is a difficult scripture to read, and we are also grateful to the people around us, they are already very busy, busy with their own lives, busy with everything, they have no time to listen to our nagging, listen to our complaints about life, in fact, sometimes we also reduce our negative energy, but also reduce our dissatisfaction with life, and slowly let ourselves become positive and positive.

A few days ago, I participated in a class reunion, that is, I played with the students I taught for a day, only to find out that they and I are not the same age, I always heard my friends say that my peers have a lot of common language, and I always don't believe it, and then I found out that in the process of getting along with them, they are much younger than themselves, at least ten years younger, and in the process of getting along with them, I can bring them some life experience and work experience, which can make them grow faster, but then I learned that in their place, even if I tell them what my heart is, they may not understand my heart, I may not understand that the difficulties and problems I encountered in my life are actually the problems I encountered in my 30s, their children in their 20s, even if you tell him, he has not experienced it, he doesn't know what kind of problem it is, how to answer you, it is a very serious and ridiculous question.

And the last time I found out that I had made a very serious mistake, I actually confused people's names, and I later found out that it was just a ridiculous moment for myself to recognize people.

It was also when I went to the party last time that I realized that I was wrong, and I have a good impression that the person who has been in his circle of friends has someone's WeChat, and he actually admitted his mistake!

I think if it weren't for this opportunity, I think I still wouldn't be able to tell where I was wrong, and this gathering realized that I really admitted my mistake this time.

However, sometimes, among several classmates or friends who have a very good relationship with themselves, it is a good choice to be able to talk together and chat together, and sometimes I find that it is a great joy to be able to really meet a confidant and understand my own voice, but it is still difficult to meet in real life, and we find that it is enough to have a confidant in life, but in real life, we have none.

But during this period of summer vacation, I have been used to a lazy life at home, every day is full of food and sleep, wake up and watch TV, and then live all the days into the same day, but sometimes, I should really go to my friends to play, relieve my laziness and pressure, sometimes I find that I can sleep until 12 o'clock every morning, it is really a very strange habit, sometimes I find out, is it like others say, the morning starts at noon, so I have been sleeping, at 12 o'clock at noon, I slowly found that my stomach was hungry, and I started to get upSometimes I find that I really should go out for a walk and make more friends, although such friends are not necessarily confidants, and they may not be able to accompany them for a lifetime, but some friends can accompany themselves for a while is enough to thank God.

In the process of life, some of the friends I made were older than my own age, some younger than my own age, and I found that in the circle of my life, some were my own teachers, some were my own students, and some were the same age as myself, which can be called classmates.

Later, I found that such interpersonal relationships gradually became simpler, such interpersonal relationships in addition to family affection, that is, teachers, classmates, students, there are only a few simple words left, sometimes I feel that life has become so monotonous, and I still hope that every day is so monotonous, every day is like the same day of life, such a time is also very fast, life is gradually passing in such days, in the two months of summer vacation, life is spent like this every day, it has already become every day is in such laziness, the end of the day, sometimes when I feel bored, I felt that I really wanted to find a confidant to chat, but it was difficult to find a confidant, and then I ended my thoughts in such a way, and ended my idea of finding a confidant but not seek.