Sometimes think about it, no matter how much you pay, your pay and your gain is proportional, some people may not believe it, and some will quibble, but I will feel that the pay and the harvest are basically equal, in real life, especially in the countryside, we are popular here when someone has something, the people around the village are going to help, in this way, things are easily solved, when someone else has something, you go to help, when you have something in your own family, there are still others to help, don't think that such a thing will be very bad, in fact, many things do not have a very bad momentWhen you are actively helping others, others will also actively help you, and in this way, I think that when you help others, you are helping yourself.

Every place has the living habits of each place, and the city is the same, we live in the unit building of the city, and even the people who are not familiar with the door, everyone is from different places, because they fancy the house in the same place, and buy a house together, sometimes think about it, such some people, no one knows whom, who is strange to whom, if you live in the rural habits, you may really be uncomfortable with the indifference of YC city people, but the reality is really like this, you can't accept it and will change, even if you can't accept it, the reality will still be in front of you, so that you have to accept, wait until you accept itIs there any other way and idea?

Living in the city, no one has paid a lot for anyone, so when everyone has something, it is still like a stranger, and the very warm atmosphere in the countryside can also move a lot of people, living in the countryside for a long time, in the city life of this time, I found that in the city days, we are accompanied by only large shopping malls, gorgeous supermarkets, and others are not so familiar with the countryside, just now I also felt bored, so I went to the street for a turn, after turning, I found that there was no place to go, so here at the intersection of my house, turned around and went home, only to tell myself, or go back to writing, because there is nothing else to do at all, is there anything else?

No, just by yourself, eat, sleep, go home. Later, I found out that the older I get, the less excitement I can accept, or stay quietly alone, in the depths of the silent heart, I still have to return to the quiet life again, silently do my own things, only to find that solitude is a state of mind, a state of life, and an ability.

Later, I felt that in the city, there are many unfamiliar faces, and in the countryside, it is normal for you to go to the neighbor's house to visit the door, but in the city, if you want to go to the door, you still have to think about whether the other party has time and convenience, so sometimes, when you really understand, you know that your contribution and your gain are always proportional, there is no gratuitous pay, and there is no gratuitous gain.

It's the same in other aspects, when you give, it means that you will have the same gain, no matter what you do, never tell yourself, you will pay innocently, and don't worry that your pay will not be rewarded, pay and return are relative, are consistent, no more, no less!