This is the topic I thought about last night, in fact, in a person's life, or to learn to speak in a year, and then spend ten years to learn to be silent, before we found it difficult to learn to speak, but it is more difficult to learn to be silent, when we are in an open mood, when we meet people who have a common language, when we are in trouble, these times are often when we are most excited, the most want to speak and confide, you can really say to yourself, I can control my mouth, not let myself talk nonsense, can let myself say thoughtful, correct, but many times it is not possible, or want to sayThe words may really be your own calamity, or sorrow, or the handle of being ridiculed.

We sometimes try our best to tell others that what I say to you is a secret, and you must keep it a secret, but how many people keep it a secret? Many of them tell other people's secrets unknowingly, and sometimes they become themselves when they are ridiculed by others, and we don't even know where the reason is. Sometimes we will blame our good friends for not keeping their promises, in fact, it's not someone else's fault, so don't blame others, if we don't say no, there will be nothing? As the saying goes, strict self-discipline, lenient to others, these old sayings, in fact, sometimes are still the truths that we should abide by, and the revelations that these truths can give us must be obeyed, and we must not wait until we regret it to feel hurt.

I remember the previous self, I thought that talking to others was trust in others, that is, sincerity, but in fact, what about you? Said a lot of things, sometimes find that you say a lot of things with a good friend, or your love object, sometimes all day, sometimes it's a whole day, a basket of things, but after they know, there will be a third person to know, there will be more people to know, such a result is not ideal, exposing yourself to other people's noses as it is, it is inevitable that you will feel uncomfortable, and then sometimes you think about it, in fact, you blame yourself.

I don't know why, perhaps, people are constantly growing, so many years have passed, I slowly realize my mistakes, but what should I do? It is also in these few days that I realize what is the reason for the existence of the problem, so I have to find such a reason, and find that I still have to learn to be silent and there is nothing to do?

In these years, in fact, I have suffered a lot of losses, but people, in fact, many people are like this, in many losses, many of them are caused by their own mouths, people who can manage their mouths well, in fact, should be very peaceful, nothing happens, and you can enjoy life, so good.

In fact, my current state is that I understand the truth, but I just can't manage myself, this is the lack of implementation, it should be like this, why can't I manage myself? From understanding this truth to really solving the problem, it still takes a process, but I found that in fact, realizing the root of the problem is a good progress, only in this way can the problem be solved thoroughly, but if you don't know where the problem is, how can you solve it? Not to mention the good and bad problems that they can solve, the rest is their own execution ability, we often meet such a kind of person, in fact, they understand all the big truths, they just don't want to do it, there are many such people.

No matter how much truth you know, if you don't do it, you won't be able to do anything, and it's not as good as these people who understand the truth and slowly implement it little by little. If you know something, you can do it, so that you can improve your configuration and make yourself more perfect.

The rest of the problem, what I want to say is silence, not blind silence, but when you encounter things, you must say when you should speak, you can't be blindly silent, you have to choose to say, this is the most correct, don't say that learning to be silent really doesn't mean silence on any occasion, which is not good for yourself.

At this time, I thought of a song, which is the ending song of "Water Margin", when I first started listening to this ending song, I found that it was not suitable for my own taste, but what about the people around me? I thought it was very good, so they told me that this song was very good. Later, after listening to it, I realized that there was something I could learn about it.

For example, when it is time to make a move, it should actually be a kind of truth, such a truth should be a good truth, and such a truth should have been understood by oneself a long time ago. But when we understand it, we still have to follow it well, and this is the reason why we learn these truths.

For example, when we learn pinyin and learn Chinese characters, what are these for? It is for reading, in order to improve ourselves, to read some written materials, rather than simply knowing words for the sake of knowing words, so much is not interesting!

When I write these words under the lamp today, I just hope that I want to say to myself that I want to learn these principles and principles of life, and sometimes I find that in fact, those principles of life are very cold to say, but they are really realistic, and they are those truths that I can use, and those things that are beneficial to me in all aspects, and I must practice them well and take them seriously. As there is a saying, take the essence of it, it must be like this, whether we read a book or watch a TV series, we must always know where the good is good? Where is the bad and bad? This is what we should learn, don't keep not seeking progress like that, it is the biggest denial of ourselves.

Learn to be silent, not to let yourself hold back anything, or to find your own feasible way, I think there is really such a way, that is, to speak to yourself every day, what you want to say, to the computer, write it down, improve your level, improve your ability, so that it is a good choice, there is no need to disclose too many secrets to others, when you say so much, you still have to say thank you to yourself, you are your own speaker, you are your own audience, this is really goodThat's all I want to say to myself today.