I went grocery shopping this morning, I used to buy vegetables in the supermarket, but today I unexpectedly wanted to buy at these small vendors, because at the beginning I finished breakfast, just wanted to buy some bananas, but the banana seller and the aunt who sold vegetables were together, when I bought bananas, it happened that an eldest sister was shopping for vegetables, and it took me a short time to buy bananas, but after buying, I lined up here, and after waiting for this eldest sister to buy it, I talked to this aunt, and the eldest sister seemed to have always bought vegetables from this aunt, and this eldest sister was bargaining at the beginning, Still muttering in her mouth that this is good and that is not good, cucumbers in her eyes, all have to go through a sieve, all of them are provoked like this, and finally selected a few cucumbers, and walked away after paying, when this eldest sister was buying, this aunt didn't say anything, but as soon as this eldest sister left, this aunt began to complain, saying that she didn't want to deal with this eldest sister, saying that this eldest sister had a bad character or how to be picky, and liked to deal with those who were good at talking, in fact, why didn't you talk at the beginning？

Wouldn't it be good for you to refuse this eldest sister once? Next time she won't trouble you, she won't bother you, she is obviously talking to me, she is talking to me, but I don't say a word, she is also like a joke when she speaks, and she says it to those peers around her, I really want to say, how is this aunt such a person, you sell your goods to others, and say that people's family is not good, so there is no need to say it?

Whether other people's character is good or not has nothing to do with you, because people buy your vegetables and give you money, and there is no credit, what's so strange about this?

Who doesn't want to maximize their interests in the process of purchasing, don't want to buy the best things with the least money, and can buy what they think is the most worthwhile.

But when she complained, I didn't answer her, and none of her peers spoke, and they didn't know what kind of impression to leave on this aunt.

Then I finished buying her food and left, muttering in my heart, what kind of big sister is this?

It's also the first time I've bought her food, and I wonder if she will comment on me after I walked by.

Anyway, I've already walked over, so I don't think about her. Speaking of this matter, I still remember a previous incident, that time was when I took the car, our place, some places are very remote, when buying tickets, there are still some people who do not understand common sense, there is a car, they obviously arrived at the county seat, but on the way, but found that there were very few people in the car, so let all the people get off, and then let the passing car take the people away, and then go back to pull people, I don't know what it is called, but I know that this is uncivilized, this time it is such a phenomenon, they let all people sit on our car, I was also in the car at that time, So all the process I witnessed with my own eyes, a total of 10 people, the driver of the last car gave the current car ticket seller 40 yuan, that is, 4 yuan per person, let the family help bring people to the destination, but the current car, overload is often queried, so the boss of this car saw that his car just happened to be 10 seats, and agreed to let all people come up, but at this time, the problem arises, after all the people come up, how to count 12 people, how to come out of 2 more people?

The driver didn't understand, but looking at the car just now, he thought that the number of people could not be wrong, it must be that there are two more people on the car now, he began to ask, who was not in the car just now, immediately someone raised his hand, there are really two people in the car to occupy the seat, and the 10 people just now can not sit down, the seat is not enough, the driver asked the 2 people who got on the car just now to get off the car, let these 10 people go together, because after all, it has already received people's money, at this time, the problem comes, one of these 2 people does not get off the car, what she said is also reasonableShe still said that people are equal between people, and said that she would buy tickets, why not let her take the car, and asked the driver to give a reason, the driver asked her to take the next bus, she didn't agree, saying that she went to the county seat for important things, and couldn't delay time, so the stalemate came down, and the quarrel lasted for a long time, the car didn't drive, and finally almost fought.

In the end, the two people were also determined not to get off the car, but the driver gave 8 yuan to let the two people who did not get on the car just now take other cars to go, which is equivalent to saying that 40 yuan and quit 8 yuan, and the car drove out smoothly, but at this time, the driver and the conductor were not calm, just now it was a contradiction with the eldest sister who sat in the car, but in the end no one blamed, but blamed the conductor, saying that people let so many people, the conductor did not show weakness, blamed the driver, said this is your car, how many people you let you decide。

Why don't you look at the seats, when so many people get on as soon as you open the door? Whose fault is it, who can tell?

However, someone in the car told the driver not to make noise and let him drive well, because the lives of this many people are safe?

The driver didn't listen much and complained all the time. A big brother next to me, next to my seat, the two of us are sitting side by side, he whispered to me, this driver got cheap and behaved, obviously he made money, and blamed the ticket seller, I think, it should indeed be like this, but I didn't say anything, in strange occasions, sometimes silence is also a good choice, so as not to give yourself some unnecessary trouble, I didn't say anything, does this big brother think I'm a dumb person?

After he finished speaking, he saw that I didn't speak, and he didn't force me, even if I did, I think he must have more to say next, and silence is a good choice at this time.

It's also today's eldest sister that I just remembered such a thing, why in real life, people don't think it's their own fault many times, they all insist that it's someone else's problem, is it all someone else's problem?

When you encounter something, why don't you just say: I was wrong, I'm sorry. If this is really the case, there will not be so much trouble, no wonder today's children have been saying that they are not wrong since they were young, and they don't even dare to tell the truth.

It's so pathetic. Maybe it's because you're afraid that you're going to be responsible, and you're afraid of being punished, but if you do something wrong, even if you admit it, you're not necessarily going to be punished, it's much better than your own words, at least your heart is calm, and I'm becoming less and less aware of modern people.