Two extremes

Some time ago, when I thought about a topic like two extremes, I had already thought of the material, but it was also because I forgot what inspiration was at that time, maybe sometimes I realized that inspiration was a momentary thing, and I thought it was good at the time, but after such a period of time, when I thought about it again, there were only two extremes left, such a topic, and I also forgot what the inspiration was at that time.

But I also remember that there is a story that is like this, that is, a man in his wife from marriage to pregnancy, to the birth of all the process, he has not been around, in fact, sometimes I feel that such a man is really a very extreme performance, in real life, some men are very considerate and gentle to their wives, and some are a very docile performance, but this person is so arrogant, he doesn't care about anything, and finally when his conscience finds out, in fact, he also goes to apologize to his wife, and they have a little warmth to each other on TV, although they have divorced, But his wife can still face him face to face, listen to him say his reasons and his reasons, in fact, I think no matter what the reason, no matter what the reason, when his wife is pregnant and gives birth, he can't be on the scene, I think even if he is busy, such a reason is not enough, but I think those men in real life are so extreme, some are so extreme, and some people can do their careers wholeheartedly, and the relationship with the other half is not so close, because they are very arrogant and only take care of their own careers, and rarely take care of their families, maybe because they are busy。

In real life, we will also find such a phenomenon, especially in teaching, the students that the teacher can remember are always students at the two extremes, either students with good grades or students with poor grades, and most of those who are in the middle, in fact, they are not very good and not very bad, those students who are always unknown are the least easy to be remembered by the teacher, and some when they meet again, they can't even remember each other's names, in fact, sometimes it is not that the teacher is very forgetful, nor does it mean that the students are very forgetful, and when they meet again, the teacher may have forgotten the student's nameAnd the students have forgotten the name of the teacher, and when they meet again and again, especially the time they meet the teacher, they actually forget what the teacher's name is, and maybe it is because the teacher did not leave a deep impression on me, and when I forgot the name of my student, it is also because the student did not impress me, and the names of the students who impressed me very deeply are also deeply engraved in my mind.

So we also know such a truth, that is, people with two extremes, although they are not very good in real life, feel that they should not go to extremes in what they do, and think it is better to use a compromise method, and many of us are also good at life, no matter what we do, we choose a compromise method, but those who go to extremes often have better choices in life.

Especially sometimes we feel that the extreme is not good, but people who walk in the two extremes, many of them are also people with personality and ideas, not as everyone thinks, sometimes when you really go to the extreme, when you really understand these people who go to the extreme, they are not as unbearable as everyone imagines, especially sometimes, if we give full play to some imagination, especially the South Pole and the North Pole are the two extremes of the earth, in the South Pole there are the benefits of the South Pole, the North Pole has the benefits of the North Pole, and we are human beings in the intermediate stage, and in this intermediate stage is a suitable place for us human beings, and at the two levels, although it is not suitable for human survival, but there are also a variety of characteristics and poles, they also have a lot of small animals on it, and they are still very distinctive, especially the last time I saw the movie when I saw it, that was "A Magical Day on Earth".

In this film, we also see the magical places on the earth, and also see the difference between the South Pole and the North Pole, sometimes I can understand, whether it is in the South Pole or the North Pole, although they are the two extremes of the earth, but they still have their own characteristics or different creatures to survive on it, but in real life, when we have what kind of ideas and practices, we still don't go to extremes, because going to extremes will produce a lot of bad aspects and bad results, but sometimes even if you go to the extreme, there will not be a very bad result。

Whether there is a good result or not, the key lies in your own heart. The key lies in your own ideas, whether they are realistic or not, there is no strong dividing line between reality and extremes, even if you choose to face reality, even if you face life every time, but sometimes, there will still be a lot of extreme ideas and extreme processes, so as long as you can live your daily life completely, it is very good, and not necessarily as full and perfect as everyone thinks, in everyone's real life, many things are not in line with everyone's requirements and imagination, especially sometimes many problems do not meet everyone's standards and imagination。

Life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten, but in the face of such unsatisfactory things, can there be many extreme ideas every time?

It can't be like this, even if there are some extreme ideas, you should still digest it yourself, or solve the problem by yourself, sometimes even if there is an extreme approach, it is not necessarily the worst in front of real life, but we must do the worst in front of everything, even if the things we choose are very simple things, it is the same, so many times in real life, we still have to respect the most fundamental law of development and change of things, whether your choice is extreme or not extreme, it will be very good to conform to the law of things, and what is the final result, so everything is in accordance with the will of God.

And extreme and not extreme in front of us does not seem to be so important, even if you choose extreme, there will be a good result, even if you choose not extreme, there will be a good result in the end, so in front of my choice, many times, it is still a choice by luck.