Your house and my land

The last time I saw a program on TV, it was originally her mother's land, that is, her mother's homestead, and her brother had no money to build a house, and then his sister took the money to build a three-story house on her brother's homestead, that is, a three-story building, and after building, when her brother got married, that is, she got married in the three-story building built by her sister, and then found out that at this time, her sister-in-law and her relationship did not get along well, and the floor below the building could be used as a façade room, but her sister-in-law started a business inside, this sister said, a month, if the rent of this house is calculated according to 3,000 yuan, He rents the house to others, and he has an income of 3,000 yuan a month, but his sister-in-law doesn't want to give her any money if he rents it, and he still wants to occupy her house for business without paying rent.

In fact, at this time, my sister should make a little concession, sometimes I find out that in real life, whether it is the relationship between brother and sister, or sister and brother, and sister-in-law, we should tolerate each other, but later I found out that they do not tolerate each other like this, resulting in a lot of contradictions in the middle, in fact, sometimes I want to say that in such a thing, many people are at fault.

Especially this sister-in-law, if people want rent, you can give others some rent and give people the money they used to have, so that my sister will have nothing to say, but in such a situation, no matter how much rent you give your sister a month, it should be considered a little bit of your mind, and there should be no such quarrels.

If you want me to say that both sides have mistakes, that's why the quarrels and contradictions that ended up happening. But my sister is really, it was originally the place of her own mother's house, why did she pay for the house to be built, and sometimes I found out that it was very strange, when my brother had no money to build a house, if you really worried about your own mother's family, you would be worried that your mother's life would not be able to live, and you may also pay for the house yourself, and if you pay for the house, you should be generous, don't worry about your sister-in-law.

Because she is your sister-in-law, the blind date that your brother is looking for, and the person he wants to live forever, so since you have helped your brother build a house, then, don't be so careful, sometimes only to find that in real life, when there is a contradiction, both sides have mistakes, and sometimes it is found that both sides are calculating, not giving in to each other, and there will be the final contradiction and result.

I think if it were me, I would definitely preset the final outcome and contradiction in advance, sometimes, no matter what I do, I have to think about the development of the final thing and the ending of the thing in advance, what it will be, if I don't think about the ending, don't start doing it, this is my idea of this matter.

If I was going to build a house, when I first started to build a house, I would have thought about what it would be like if I ended up paying rent, and what would happen if I couldn't get it back.

These are all issues that I should consider, and later I found out that when my sister built the house, she originally built a house like this, and it should be a good aspect for my brother to marry a daughter-in-law, but then it caused such a contradiction, which was so funny that it couldn't end, and I went to be mediated on TV, I found out that it was not good, not only in such an aspect, but also in such a disgraceful aspect, and there was no need to quarrel like this, after all, it was flesh and blood, such a quarrel, such a close relationship, is it that in the future, I will spend the second half of my life in a quarrel, and the brother and sister who are making trouble are unhappy?

This is really unnecessary, in fact, sometimes I find out that this is the house built by my sister, but the land is my brother's land.

What are the benefits of this kind of trouble? Sometimes I find out that during the expert review and mediation, the expert said that it is very reasonable, but I think that if any of these brothers and sisters can give in a little to each other, there will be no such contradictions.

Especially that sister-in-law, if the sister wants to pay the rent, it will be very good to pay the rent to others according to other people's standards every month, but this sister-in-law may think, this is the brother's place, and she also wants to take some advantage, I don't want my sister to collect money like this, sometimes I find out that people have their own thoughts, that is, they want to take advantage of each other, and sometimes, such mutual wants to take advantage, and finally step by step caused the result of the contradiction, resulting in the contradiction between the two sides.

In real life, we have all heard of a sentence, that is, suffering a loss is a blessing, but such a sentence is easier said than done, especially in such a thing, if each of us feels that we should suffer some losses, can make some concessions, take a step back from the sky, I think such a thing is still easy to solve, and both sides do not give in to each other, such contradictions, I think it is not a moment and a half will occur, there is a sentence that is very reasonable, that is, freezing three feet, not a day of cold, in such a contradictory situation, I found that sometimes contradictions are the result of accumulation over time, only to find that the two sides do not give in to each other, they all have their own reasons, and sometimes it is because of this breath of contention that there will be such a result, there will be confrontation between the two sides, and there will be contradictions.

If both parties tolerate each other, they will realize that suffering is a blessing, and if they can do such a sentence, there may be no such status quo, there may be no such a quarrel, and it may not be on TV because of such a quarrel, and it will become a conversation after we all watch and speak, and we sometimes will not find out, such a thing will not be known by everyone, but when I know such a thing, I find that my sister and brother should still give each other way, and sometimes I find that in addition to the feelings between parents, that is, the feelings between brothers and sisters are the most real, the most reliable, sometimes I find that if it is not for brothers and sisters, our life will also lack a lot of things, so in the current situation, I found that whether it is my sister's house or my brother's land, we can tolerate each other, and we can resolve conflicts under the mediation of experts, and we can shake hands and make peace, which is a good result in the end, so we still have to get along well in the future, between such family affection.