Say "I love you" softly.
The last time I met a student in class, I couldn't laugh or cry, because every time I went to class, the classroom atmosphere was very lively, but this time, he actually said loudly to me in class, "Teacher, I love you."
Hearing him say this, I only smiled occasionally to avoid embarrassment. Then the people around him said, the teacher laughed, in fact, I didn't want to say too much at the time, just because I thought he was still young, still a primary school student, with learning as the main task, and my understanding of this I love you is popular I love you!
Sometimes we will also be on many occasions, thinking that I love you, not necessarily is a confession of love, but should be our very ordinary kind of emotional outpouring, rather than the feeling of love, in fact, sometimes I find that every time I meet someone to say to us I love you, we will be very happy, but at that time I also did not respond in time, because I really want to know whether he said very casually, I love you or really have what kind of feelings for me, what kind of thoughts or emotional likes, if it is really love, I think I will still take certain measures in the early stage, but this is just a simple time to say I love you, at that time I thought, wait for a while to observe, what kind of situation it is, and then make a decision, at that time just gently digested this sentence.
I thought about it for a while, and then I found out that after such a boy said this, he didn't say anything for a long time, and he didn't say anything to me, I think, it should be that he occasionally said it in class, which caused a laugh from the people around him, but sometimes we shouldn't feel that the classroom is a very serious atmosphere, sometimes we feel that the class is easy, learn some knowledge, he can understand that the knowledge learned is very good, and sometimes in the face of the words of classmates, I am still very cautious, make my own decisions, and always have to deal with itγ
At that time, I really thought a lot, from what he said, I still thought a lot in a few days, I wanted to say whether he would fall into the whirlpool of love, whether he would like me and affect his learning, affect his grades, in fact, sometimes I found that I would still look at the problem from the perspective of an adult, so when considering the problem, I will definitely be more comprehensive, will be more cautious, this may be my own life experience, I also thought a lot, how to talk to him, or do some ideological work, but later found out that in the later period, he did not react at all, He didn't look for me again at all, I think he was just a casual remark, it seems that I was overthinking, and I still thought about it for a long time, confirming that he was just casual, didn't take it to heart, I was also relieved.
Sometimes, I find that if I don't react at all when others confess, it will cause embarrassment to the other party, or it will be psychologically unacceptable, and sometimes we find that we still have to be better to others, and sometimes we find that we have to be better to others, and sometimes we find that it is really a good thing to be better to others, I found that in real life, every time I want to be better to others than to myself, so as to create a perfect life.
In the face of that classmate's confession, sometimes I found that some people are very brave, some people are very open, and it really takes courage to confess in public, and later I found out that some people can confess in public, which is really their greatest courage, some are caused by feelings, and some people like such generosity, and they confess generously, so that the people they like can be moved, and the people they like the most can be happy, this is the way of others!
But some people don't have such courage, maybe some people don't have such a way, they always feel that it's better to have some love in private.
But no matter what kind of way, I think that some habits like this are very good, and then I also found that after this classmate confessed, I found out that I was already married, so I still couldn't accept this classmate's confession, but then I didn't find out what kind of behavior he had, what kind of practice, and then what kind of progress I found out that I was completely relaxed, because, I don't want to affect his grades, although I am his teacher, he is my student, I still hope that he can study well, and can study in an ideal school in the futureTo be able to make a career of one's own and to be able to live a personal life, this is what I want to say the most.
For him, primary school students talking about feelings may be a whim, and their thinking activities are also very immature, after all, they are still minors, and many things are still very incomplete, ideological problems, sometimes, put all their minds on learning, and can really have a very good result, but halfway they take a detour, sometimes they go to such a detour, sometimes they go to such a detour, sometimes they go to such a detour, so they abandon their studies, and in the end, the relationship does not talk about success, so they will feel very regretful, and they will feel that it is not worth it at all, so in the current words, although he is a minor, but I am an adult, I know how to do it, how to guide them to the right path, and I also found that this is what I should do as a teacher, and sometimes I find that we still have to take care of his own ideas, so that they can learn better, so that they can grow better, instead of letting them go to some detours, and then I found out that I was also a rejection of him, but later I found that I didn't say anything, I could only say softly, I love you!
And this kind of I love you is not necessarily that I love you in love, but that I love you in a very ordinary and popular way!
I really hope that such students can study hard, be able to have their own careers, and in the end, they can live well, this is what I want to say, and I hope that I can do better, so that they can have a happy ending and a good life in the end, this is what I want to say.