I have heard this sentence before, not only me, many people should have heard it, but also in recent times, I gradually feel that the sentence that has been seen for a long time is true, in fact, this sentence is not false, but many times, only when I have experienced it myself, I will feel how profound what others said before.

This is the truest sentence, on the interface for a long time, we feel that we have been with others for a long time, and we will slowly understand a person, before I am always very confident, I always feel that the first time I see the feeling of others, there is nothing wrong at all, but after having social experience, I feel that this is not necessarily, the first time I see others, maybe this person deliberately shows his or her best side to you, for anyone, no one has a good evaluation of you, there will always be people who say that you are a good person, and there will be some people who say that you are not goodI think there are very few people who can satisfy all people, and even such people don't exist, so people have a good side and a bad side, which is to say, people have advantages and disadvantages.

In a short period of time, we may be deceived by some illusions, and even sometimes, we spend a very short time with others, and in this short period of time, we have not even bothered to understand that each other has been separated, which makes us have a good impression of others, but what about those who often get along with us?

After a long time of tempering and a long time of adaptation, we will gradually understand others, and even sometimes, what others think, what they want to do, what they say, can be guessed, but in the process of understanding others, it is also a process in which our hearts need to be constantly strong, in the process of understanding others, it is inevitable that we will be hurt by some shortcomings of others, at this time, what should we do, is it to turn around and leave, is it to turn around and leave?

Maybe sometimes you can, but sometimes you can't, when these inappropriate things are invading our hearts, we still have to slowly digest our emotions, to accept all this interior and hurt, we can only use a sentence to see people's hearts for a long time to comfort themselves, this is true, when the days are long, some people make us happy, some people make us sad, but this is the final inevitable thing, but it is also the inevitable result.

Many times, I also told myself, when I saw people's hearts for a long time, some people are such shortcomings, and some people are such shortcomings, but we really shouldn't touch other people's weaknesses, and don't touch other people's pain, so that maybe others will be better to themselves, this may also make their lives and moods better, this is my biggest insight, treating others well is equivalent to treating yourself, what you give, what you get, this may be the so-called social experience, after understanding others, don't touch others' bottom line, don't touch other people's feelings, try to make others happy, I'll make myself happy, for anyone, it's like this.