What we feel the most every time is that parents often have more concern for those children with poor living standards, some people may think it is very strange, but this phenomenon is very ordinary, parents always think that those children who have lived relatively well, do not need them too much care and help, when you realize this problem, only to find that parents are like this, do not have any special views, the fact is that parents are worried about their children, forever, a lifetime, when the child is born, they have been worried, and for those children with a higher standard of livingThey will be much less worried, and when you find that they have been paying attention to those children with poor living standards or poor abilities, you will feel that the partiality of parents has been a long time.

They are concerned about these children's lives every time, and they can't get by, and even many parents are afraid that their children are not doing well, and every time they take care of their children, and some parents, the practice is very strange, that is, to give some money to children with better living conditions, to those children with poor living standards, although this practice is inappropriate in the eyes of many people, but they don't know if it is inappropriate, they will still do this, it can be seen that their worries, it can be seen how much they care about the difference between their children。

When someone asks, they will also hide such things, but they always feel that some children can't live a good life, it is their responsibility, they gave birth to others, and they should fight for others all their lives.

There are also some people who think that the icing on the cake is good, especially when they encounter difficulties, they will help others, but some people are not like this, they often do not help when the people around them encounter difficulties, they are also very social people, they already have their own survival mode, that is, the icing on the cake, has been such a icing on the cake, why do you say this, the reason is because they are stammering and pleasing the leader, just like that, they are in a relatively good survival mode, this is their shrewdness, when a leader falls, they just shift their attention, but also shift the goalWhen a person becomes a leader, they gradually get closer, with their own good words and some icing on the cake actions to please the leader, so as to gain some sense of security, to gain room for their own survival, in fact, what I want to say is, even if you are not such icing on the cake, you can survive, I am such an example, I never do the icing on the cake, people have just been promoted, elected as a leader, many people go to prepare a celebration banquet for others, and you are one of them, who will know you?

Who knows who you are? Also, at this time, those leaders may take your banquet for granted, and when a person encounters a problem, you go to help them, although they are not leaders, although they are some ordinary people, but they can remember your good, can remember your help, for a lifetime!

I thought a lot, about this problem, and finally I also found that no matter at any time, when others need help, to help others, so that it will be easier to gain the favor of others, this is my idea, this is also the best explanation of the parents' preference for their children with low living standards, in real life, whether it is for themselves, whether there is an element of interest, or do a good job of giving charcoal in the snow, rather than doing the icing on the cake!