Chapter 1049: Lies Are Poisonous
A person who originally trusts a person, whether it is the other party's situation or the identity of the other party, we will feel that the other party is a person who will not lie, and a person who will always tell the truth, but one day, when the real facts are in front of us, we will find that when we slander a person, when we really face these moments when we feel that nothing can happen, we don't want to believe it later, but the truth is like this, and you can't tolerate the slightest doubt.
In an instant, this person's status in your heart plummeted, and the previous words did not mean that you were lying because of a white lie, but out of a slander against others, a maintenance of your own dignity, so why bother?
Or is it in an inconspicuous corner, not because of anything, and there is no corner of conflict of interests, just like this, deceived by a lie or two, you will know that it turns out that what you have to admit is the truth.
A person who used to trust a lot, just like that, after being confirmed, although we can't believe it, but the fact is so, we will still accept the reality, only after this, we gradually understand, see people's hearts over time, the meaning of this sentence, we all know, between people, a very popular sentence, that is, a long time may not be able to have love, but a long time will definitely be able to see people's hearts, this is true, after a long time, slowly have some general understanding of the people around them, some are such shortcomings, some are such shortcomings, some are such advantages, some are such advantages, in the face of these people, we only discovered, don't touch the weaknesses of the other party, don't touch the bottom line of the other party, this is where you settle down, and you will make yourself more smooth in this crowd, this may be the so-called social experience.
For a long time, I have not known what social experience is, but after getting along with others for a long time, I know that if you don't make the other party angry, don't embarrass the other party, in fact, just don't embarrass yourself, this is the best choice, and because of one thing, and understand a person, because of one thing, and understand some things, because of one thing, and know what to do in the future, how to choose, this is one thing, and even a sentence gives us the deepest feelings, such feelings will really shock a lifetime, because of how to believe in things, so unforgettable happened, so it will be deeply memorable。
In other people's lies, we learn to grow, in other people's lies, we don't forget to remember the teachings, we don't forget to protect ourselves, this is the most real reality, it's just that the person who lied, after that we will never trust him again, and in the days to come, maybe his life will be more difficult, because after a long time, get along with each other, people will understand each other, and will understand each other, just lying, is the shackles they give themselves, no matter who is like this, in the end it will only be dishonest to others, and in the end it will only be abandoned by others, this is what I understand as a lieThis is what I understand in life, lies are really poisonous, poisoning not others, but yourself, so you have to do it truthfully, tell it truthfully, except for those well-intentioned lies that are good for others, and those selfish lies, those footholds that exist only for themselves, will eventually be defeated by reality, and will eventually be abandoned by people's hearts.