Some friends around me, in many times, I will always comfort them when they are in a bad mood, at this time, their hearts should be better, but once, when I said my opinion, they said that all I said was soup, although this is not a break in my heart, but always unhappy, after such some views, I am also when I meet them sad, I dare not easily say my own opinion, and I dare not say too much of my thoughts, although sometimes, they treat me as a friend will tell me some of their things, but sometimes think about itWhen others tell you some things about her, it means that she trusts you, but when they say that what I said is soup, there is no malice, but there will always be some concerns in the heart, there is no refreshment and laughter before, sometimes think about it, the older we are, the more things we have experienced, we will be cautious when we speak, and we are afraid of doing things wrong, and those young people who have just entered the society, because they have experienced less things, so they are not afraid of anything, and even at the beginning, they don't even know what is right, what kind of approach is more suitable, what kind of approach is more tactful, so it gradually matures from youth to astringency, so there will always be a saying that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, which is what it means.

Those of us who have experienced a lot of things, but we don't have the original momentum and those simple ideas at the beginning, and we will have a lot more worries, but when we face what we encounter, we will always not deal with it, this approach is very contradictory, that approach is also very contradictory, I don't know what to do, so it will be better, after all, I am older, and I have my own fixed mode of dealing with problems.

Sometimes, I will also find that my heart is as fragile as others, at first I feel that others are very fragile and it is really distressing, but after a long time, I found that in front of some words, I am also very fragile, although I did not show it in front of everyone at the time, but because of a speech, it may be just a casual word from others, but let myself shrink the whole heart back, in the following days, I rarely tell others about my things, even the most ordinary chats are also cautious, not to mention their own hearts, always never said this, and did not deliberately force themselves to pretend that nothing had happened, many times, we will find that what has been said, just like a scar, the scar is good, but such a scar has always been there, engraved in my heart, engraved on my body, I can't bear to look at it directly.

I also found that I didn't think much about it at the time, I just wanted to comfort others, who knew that when others said this, I was also stunned, and I comforted others at will in the future, hoping that others could be happy, such words still have some skills, and even sometimes think about it, if you are not fully sure, or try to say as little as possible, or be more cautious, disaster from the mouth, illness from the mouth, in this way, although it is not a classic sentence, but it is also the accumulation of life experience, or keep it firmly in your heart, so that you can get along with others better, in order to make yourself happy every day, rather than asking for trouble。