If you want to face the sun, you have to come out on your own.
The weather in winter is very cold, the weather is very cold all day, it is getting colder day by day, but I also found that we can't change the weather, really can't change, others say that today is cloudy and the weather is not out of the sun, and we are also very cold, yesterday was the same, power outage for a day, and then you don't even have anything, not even a boiling water, but if the weather is very cold, there are still some benefits.
At least it will let us know that when it is warm, that feeling is very good, and in that kind of warm feeling like you will know how cold it is, and there will be a lot of understanding in this comparison, sometimes you don't know how happy you are, just look at those who don't have your own happiness, and you will find that your life is actually quite good.
This may be Einstein's theory of relativity, in fact, many times it is relative, which is better, or who is happier than whom, these are some relative, and what you have is the best, and don't always compare every time, because you can't compare with others.
I remember every time I told my classmates and friends about my dreams, my classmates and friends always laughed like fools, I don't know why they laughed, they were always very happy at that time, maybe it was because my dreams were too far away from reality, right?
So they just thought it was a joke, I said I want to make money, and they said, how can you make more money than others?
People are already billionaires before you even started, but later I found out that it was indeed a joke.
People's understanding will continue to change with the age of people, I am also like this, has been changing, before, sometimes I also want to make more money every time to change my life, but now I feel that I don't need it, I feel that life can be maintained in front of it, and I don't need so much money, it's good if people are overbearing, just don't mess with others, every time I encounter something, nothing will happen, in fact, there is nothing wrong with this.
Be a good person, live well, better than anything, in fact, in a person's life, a lot of things will be gained, there will be loss, there will be gain, it should be a balance like a balance, you get more here, and then the other side may lose the same amount of things, that others lose more, this side may get another thing, people's nature may be such a balance.
After these few days, I also found that I have improved a lot, first of all, I have overcome a lot of my own psychological problems, I used to be very scared of what I saw, I was afraid of seeing someone put a cup, or I was afraid of seeing someone put a white thing, but after a long time, I found that there is actually no need to be afraid at all, it is just a color, and later I found that I also changed my outlook on life and values, which is very important.
In fact, it's just a color, sometimes my family tells me that this is also very correct, that is, what kind of result is the result of others in your own home, what kind of placement, people also follow your arrangement, in fact, there is nothing, but every time I am so afraid that I dare not live in my room, and then I don't even dare to put things on the table in my own room, in fact, sometimes I am afraid that my family will be hurt, and sometimes I find that I am so timid, or I want to have a stable life。
But fate played a lot of jokes on me, sometimes I didn't want it, but slowly, it became an adaptation, a life, a habit, or I didn't want to be a teacher at the beginning, but after a long time, I felt that being a teacher was actually very good, but then I found out that I still had a lot of problems, and then I would always bring some trouble to others, so I slowly felt like I couldn't get along, but I still had to do what I thought was right, don't please others every time, what I should do, just do what I should do!
And my previous psychological problems have slowly overcome a lot, and I am not as scared as before when I sleep at night, I don't know why before, I am always so scared every time, what are I afraid of?
I don't even know myself, but now I find that I should actually face life well, in fact, there are no ghosts and gods and the like, and I should also live a good life, face my life well, let myself be a healthy and happy person, psychological problems must be overcome, don't look at the things that people put on the table, I feel like I am enchanted and afraid!
In fact, sometimes I want to put it out for others to see, and I used to be scared to sleep at night every time I saw someone else put it like this, and then I didn't dare to do work, and then I quickly quit my job and went home, in fact, sometimes I found that in fact, I should still do what I think is right, people put it on it, as long as you don't do anything that hurts others, others won't hurt you, God should be fair.
Just like every day, as long as it is sunny, the sun will come out, if we want to bask in the sun, we must come out every day, so that we can become warm, let ourselves become cheerful, winter has come, and every day is very cold, but I still hope that every day will face the sun, face your heart, live a good life, face every day.
Of course, when the weather is gloomy and the sun doesn't come out, then accept the reality, because we really can't change it, and when I was chatting with my colleagues today, I also said the same, if it's a cloudy day, you have to let the sun come out, can he come out?
No one can change this, we can only adapt to the weather and the natural environment. Sometimes you still can't change, the environment changes, and the environment is still very difficult, so you have to adapt to the environment, adapt to all these things around you.
As my recent state has gradually improved, I have also found that it is still necessary to face life well, and it is the best choice to be a healthy and normal person.
Life will always develop in the direction you think, let every day be healthy and happy, and make yourself a happy person.