Chapter 214: The misunderstanding is resolved
The beauty said: "First of all, this affirms the issue of the values of the two, of course, it is undeniable that the impact and changes that work has brought to your girlfriend, you just told about it from your point of view, this statement is very one-sided, if you let your girlfriend come to me for consultation, it is likely to be another result." β
Chen Fan said: "Doctor, I just want to make my girlfriend a little more normal, I think she is now the manager of this store has been a demon, I heard that there is a workplace PUA saying recently, about how companies control employees, brainwash employees, my girlfriend will not participate in various trainings every day, stupid for training, right?"
The beauty said: "Shouldn't you be happy, this can only show that your girlfriend is a good store manager with a sense of responsibility! From your point of view, what your girlfriend has done is really incredible, but you try to think from another angle, since she has become the store manager, she should take the responsibility of being the store manager." β
Chen Fan frowned and said, "According to what you say, it's all my fault?"
The beauty said: "Sir, you think a little too much, I have encountered a lot of cases of PUA in the workplace, but most of them are persecution paranoia, especially those who have not done a good job, thinking that they have learned the term PUA in the workplace, and they think that others are targeting her everywhere." β
Chen Fan said: "Isn't my girlfriend who regards the company as more important than herself, but in my eyes, the broken company can stay or not, it's a big deal to change jobs, no matter how bad it is to play at home every day, I will raise her." How important is a broken job!"
The beauty exclaimed: "Start your own company? That gentleman is really young and promising!"
Chen Fan said: "It's okay! Don't you also open a psychological counseling studio by yourself!"
The beauty chuckled and said, "Sir, I suspect that you have persecution paranoia, I have never said that you are wrong from beginning to end! I like the sentence in it, the middle, the right way in the world. If you think I'm being a bit blunt, why don't you change the subject, sir, what do you do?"
Chen Fan said: "I opened a small company by myself. β
The beauty nodded, and the doubts in her heart suddenly disappeared with Chen Fan's explanation.
"It's the same, so I'll ask you one last question, which do you think is more important in her mind, you or work?"
The beauty asked again, "Sir, how did you and your girlfriend meet?"
Chen Fan recalled: "We met when we were in a house, she was originally an intern of Anjiake, and then I bought a house, and I became boyfriend and girlfriend after coming and going. With my indirect help, her fortunes have risen all the way, she has been promoted to store manager, and she is still thinking about what to hit as a regional manager. β
For a while, Chen Fan was stunned on the spot, opened his mouth, couldn't answer, it was difficult to answer, he wasn't sure, and he didn't dare to guarantee.
The beautiful doctor smiled: "It's not so difficult to answer, or I'll give you three answers, you are important, work is important, you are as important as work, make a choice!"
Chen Fan's heart twitched suddenly, he felt that the beautiful doctor had finally asked the key point! This question has been haunting his heart, like a little devil sealed in the deepest part of his heart for a long time, he doesn't dare to think about it, and he doesn't want to think about it, he cherishes the relationship between Li Shanshan and him.
In Li Shanshan's mind, who is more important to the job of him or An Jiake? Chen Fan has asked Li Shanshan to give up this job more than once, go to graduate school to improve her education, or go to his company to help, or open a milk tea, women's clothing, cake shop and the like by herself. But she refused every time, her reason was that she was stupid and couldn't do anything else, she came out to buy a house as soon as she graduated, and she liked the job very much.
The beauty said: "This job of selling a house can give her a strong sense of security, and it is obvious from this that your girlfriend is a very strong and independent person." β
Chen Fan said: "She is indeed very independent, because she grew up in the countryside, she can do laundry, cooking and cleaning, and I asked her what she would do if I went bankrupt and had nothing." She said she would work hard to support me. β
Chen Fan thought about it and chose the last answer, he is as important as work.
This is a compromise option, which perfectly fits the golden mean proposed by the beautiful doctor. Or maybe he didn't even dare to think about the answer he didn't want to mention.
The beautiful woman preached: "No, do you think that marriage is a sense of security? Then you are still too naΓ―ve." β
Chen Fan touched his nose and asked, "Then what is the sense of security?"
The beauty smiled and nodded: "That's right, the root of this problem comes from the fact that you don't give your girlfriend enough security, and she can only pin her search for security on work." β
Chen Fan said: "What kind of security is insecure? I gave her the household registration book, can I still have a sense of security?"
His nose was sore and his eyes were red.
"It turns out that I am the more important ......"
The beauty smiled and said: "I'll tell you the answer directly, in fact, you are too good, your girlfriend feels that she is not worthy of you, only by working hard and climbing up to the same height as you, so that she can find her own sense of security." In fact, in her mind, it is you who are more important. β
The moment the beauty's voice fell, it was as if an invisible air hammer fell from the sky and smashed heavily on Chen Fan's heart!
The beauty took a tissue and handed it to Chen Fan, Chen Fan wiped his red eyes and said, "Doctor, what should I do?"
"Try to understand your girlfriend, she's actually just getting closer to you little by little in the way she can. β
Every bit of his growth and progress, smart T-shirts, and the acquisition of Fighting Sharks were all seen by Li Shanshan little by little, causing her to feel more and more that she could not reach such a height, and even had an inferiority complex and depression.
"I misunderstood her. β
Chen Fan nodded, during this period of time, he and Li Shanshan have always gathered less and left more.
The beauty smiled: "Try to slow down, live with your heart, and melt with love." Rural girls are the most sensitive, and there is only a thin line between self-esteem and inferiority, so you must give her enough respect. β
Chen Fan nodded: "Then I don't care about her work?"
The beauty shook her head: "No, you not only have to manage, but also integrate into her friends and work circle, think about it, are you usually busy with work and lack time to spend with her." β
Chen Fan said: "No need, I'll pay!"
The beauty got up: "I'll take you there, just right, it's time for me to get off work." β
Chen Fan nodded heavily and said gratefully, "Thank you, doctor, I figured it out." β
The beauty breathed a sigh of relief, glanced at her watch and said, "Fifty-seven minutes, three minutes away from an hour." β
Su Manwan smiled and waved his hand, "Bye-bye!"
Chen Fan first went to the nearby Baiguo Garden to buy some fruits, and then went back to the hospital.
Coming to the front desk, Chen Fan finished paying. The beautiful woman asked the front desk to make a receipt and a non-disclosure contract. After Chen Fan signed his name, the two went out of the bosom studio together.
Chen Fan got into the Porsche, lowered the window, waved his hand at the beautiful doctor and said, "Doctor Suman, goodbye!" When he signed the contract just now, he saw the name of Song Yuan's aunt, Su Man.
Chen Fan listened clearly outside the house, and his heart was warm, it turned out that there was such a thing behind him, and everything was misunderstood by him. In fact, Li Shanshan is not for herself, but for everyone's consideration, having such a selfless girlfriend is really a blessing he has cultivated in several lifetimes.
As for why Li Shanshan explained to him, after Su Man's enlightenment, he could understand that it was all due to Li Shanshan's self-esteem derived from her inferiority.
Before he entered the door, he heard Li Shanshan calling at the door, and she said in a hurried tone: "Sister Wu, if the owner comes over at night, you stabilize the owner first, and I'll post some money and give him this 50,000 balcony." β
"After all, this matter is our fault, Xiaoli is new, and it is normal not to go through the contract, if she is fired because of this matter, or the brand image of our store is damaged by the owner, who else will come to us to settle down to buy a house in the future, and everyone is still waiting to open for dinner!"
"Please come in. β
The moment Chen Fan walked in, Li Shanshan was stunned: "Husband, don't you have something to do to go back to the company!"
Chen Fan reached out and knocked on the door.
Li Shanshan's voice suddenly became smaller: "Someone is coming, I'll hang up first." β
"Thank you, husband!" she choked in her throat.
Chen Fan sat on the edge of the bed and took Li Shanshan into his arms, and the two snuggled tightly like this, feeling each other's warmth.
Chen Fan closed the door while smiling, and he gently put the fruit on the table: "I'm not worried about you, how important is your work, no, I bought some fruit and came back." β
Li Shanshan's eyes were red with emotion.
Chen Fan went to the next ward to borrow a paring knife and personally peeled an apple for Li Shanshan.
"Give!" Chen Fan handed the snow-white apple to Li Shanshan after peeling.
After a while, Chen Fan let go of Li Shanshan, patted his head and said, "It's over, you see my memory, I actually forgot to buy a paring knife, wait, I'll go next door to borrow one." β
"Uh-huh!"
After Chen Fan finished gnawing, Li Shanshan took it back and took a bite, just like that, the two of you took a bite and I took a bite, and quickly finished eating the apple.
Chen Fan opened his "bloody mouth" at the place where Li Shanshan had bitten and took a heavy bite.
After Li Shanshan took a bite, she aimed the gnawed place at Chen Fan: "Husband, you can also take a bite." β
Chen Fan accompanied Li Shanshan in the hospital for one night.
Early the next morning, Li Shanshan said: "Husband, it's not early, you hurry up and go to work!"
Chen Fan nodded the tip of her little nose and said, "You think everyone is like you, a workaholic!"