After the New Year's worship, it is basically dawn, and then go home to pick up the paper and run to start the ancestor worship on the first day of the new year. In the past, women who went to the grave were not allowed to enter the ground, not even children.

Only when relatives go back to their parents' homes, going to the graves of the deceased elders is a big and small family, so that the deceased ancestors can see that their descendants are full of children and grandchildren.

However, in the past two years, these trends have been somewhat relaxed, and some of the more delicate girls will carry their fathers to the grave together. The fathers of the younger generation must have loosened up, but they were glared back by the older grandparents.

But this kind of persistence is estimated to not last for a few years, and when these older generations die in a few years, or they are not in good health and cannot walk around the village to go to the grave, and the fathers of the younger generation have become the pillars of the family, this atmosphere will become more and more loose, but it is certain that it will not work now.

After a stroll around, the people who made up a dumpling in the middle of the night were not very hungry, so they rarely ate breakfast. Instead, I felt that I was in good spirits after resting in the middle of the night, and went to the granary to continue the battle.

The whole first day of the Lunar New Year is a time for indulgence, on this day it is not allowed to turn over the cabinets, not allowed to cook with a knife, can only eat dumplings prepared in advance, is not allowed to brush the bowl or pot, in short, the hard-working farmers for a year, and only on this day can taste what it is like to be a lazy man.

Playing cards Yang Dongxu will definitely not go again, staying up until two o'clock at night and not sleeping for a few hours, and was pulled out of the bed to worship the ancestors, at this time the spirit relaxed a little and felt that the eyelids were very heavy, so he was ready to go back to make up for sleep.

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When you come on the second day of the Lunar New Year, you will go to several houses on a few days when you have more relatives, for example, you will eat at this house in the morning, and you will go to another house at noon, and you are not allowed to go to relatives at night.

The Yang family has more relatives, except for the seven aunts and eight aunts, because the Yang family has been mixing well over the years, and it is getting better and better.

So some less important relatives also walked up, such as my uncle's brother's house or something. Under normal circumstances, the father of relatives in the countryside is still close to each other, for example, Yang Dongxu calls his uncle, that is Yang Dad's uncle, and the one who calls his aunt is his mother's aunt's family.

Now the main force of relatives is still Yang Dad and Yang Ma with their children, so these relatives still have to go. But grandma and grandpa basically don't go to relatives anymore.

So the relatives of their generation, such as grandma's cousins and Yang's father, don't feel so close, and when they were young, grandma would go back to her parents' house and take her father who was still a child for a walk.

Now that my grandmother is older, she has returned to her parents' house less often, and some people have passed away, although the relationship with these brothers and sisters is still there, it feels a little far away. So in general, this relationship will become weaker and weaker.

Rural people often say that only those who are related to the five suits (five generations) can get married, but in fact, the three generations of relatives are almost a bit weak.

For example, Yang Dongxu will feel close to his mother's mother's family, whether it is the second grandfather, the little grandfather, or the eldest aunt and second aunt's family. But for the grandfather who is farther away, or the uncle who is separated by a layer, there is not much emotion, and there is a layer of affection for a generation.

However, because of the current situation of the Yang family, most of these relatives are still walking, after all, every year people carry bags to the door, if you don't go back to the past and walk around, you can't say it on your face, it is easy to be put on the hat of being rich and forgetting the poor relatives.

It doesn't matter if you eat or not, you definitely have to carry a bag. For example, when I went to my uncle's house, I had to carry a bunch of large bags and small bags every year, first all of them were brought to my uncle's house, and then Dad Yang took the three of them and sent them one by one. The meal must be eaten at the uncle, but the bag must be delivered to others, which is also considered a kind of etiquette.

Because grandpa and grandma are still alive, so the third day of the Lunar New Year back to the mother, so the whole family went out together, this year is the uncle's victory family to entertain guests to eat, so there is nothing left at home.

However, under normal circumstances, it is at noon at the grandfather's house after eating Yang Dad came back early, after all, the relatives were not there during the meal, and they must accompany them after eating, because their aunt also had to go to her mother's house on the third day of the new year, and they had to go to the grave together in the afternoon.

The third year of junior high school can be said to be the most lively time for grandparents' families, with four daughters and sons-in-law, plus more than a dozen grandchildren, and dozens of great-grandchildren.

In fact, on the third day of the Lunar New Year, his cousin should have taken his daughter-in-law back to his daughter-in-law's mother's house, but I don't know if it was because Yang Dongxu would come to his grandfather's house on the third day of the Lunar New Year.

Therefore, the relatives who can come on this day will come, and even the cousin will bring the family over, so that it is good to entertain all of them at one time, so as not to scatter the trouble of coming to grandpa and grandma.

After a while, either the little kid cried, or the kid was beaten. Especially Ran Hao, the child of the little grandfather's family, is just ten years old this year, and it is the time to be naughty, relying on the fact that this is his home field, he has the demeanor of a leading big brother, and he is crazy with a group of little children. After being caught and beaten by the little grandfather, he hid aside and wiped his tears.

As a result, before the tears dried, a few six or seven-year-old children with a long stick as a golden hoop stick and a few six or seven-year-old children from my cousin's family went crazy, first killed the small shop in the village and killed a bunch of snacks, and then walked to the old house trench in the village and threw a cannon into it to see if I could blow up a few monsters, so that I could show my skills to subdue demons and eliminate demons.

"Follow them, watch people don't fall into the ditch, there is still a lot of water in the ditch now?" Yang Ma came out of the kitchen and yelled at Yang Dongxu.

The daughter cooks, the man drinks tea and chats, and watching the children is naturally the task of the third generation of them who have nothing to do, so they can only smoke cigarettes with a few cousins-in-law and look at these nonsensical bear children from afar.

During the meal, Dad Yang and a few brothers-in-law and uncles and grandfathers shared a table, the younger generation had a table, a few cousins had a table, and the younger children had another table, and the noise was very lively.

After eating, the youngest generation of children received the New Year's money, and the children who were all kinds of naughty and mischievous knelt in front of the two old people, and the grandfather shouted to receive the red envelope, and after taking the red envelope, he slipped away and killed the small shop.

Yang Dongxu and Zhou Ya have a big red envelope this year, because they just got married, and after they have a child, the red envelope is a child, and they have nothing to do.

In addition to the New Year's money given by the parents, in fact, under normal circumstances, when the age of sixteen or seventeen goes to relatives, the elders will not give the New Year's money, one is that the child is already older and does not need to give it, and the other is naturally an adult who is embarrassed to ask for it.

The hustle and bustle ended after going to the grave, the better the time, these cousins and cousins went to Yang's house together on the sixth day of junior high school, and then the adults grabbed the children who were here and didn't want to go home and stuffed them in the car.

Yang Dongxu, who came down to drink from a circle of relatives, had a big head, and felt like the world was spinning every day, and he wanted Zhou Ya not to drink and be able to drive. Otherwise, it would be embarrassing to be sent back for drinking.

Such days lasted until the tenth day of the Lunar New Year, and then Yang Dongxu and Zhou Ya began to pack their bags and prepare to return to Yanjing to start the second wedding banquet of their wedding.

Yang's mother originally thought that since it was a wedding banquet, it would be too shabby and impolite if there were no elders present, but when she heard Yang Dongxu say that she didn't have to worry so much about inviting friends to dinner, the two of them probably wouldn't even wear dresses at that time, and it was a simple party before they were relieved.

Zhou Yiren was left in Yangjia Village by Yang Dongxu to be the companion of the old man Xuan, this old man who has been busy and can't stop, after hearing that his daughter is pregnant, he can see his little grandson or granddaughter in the second half of this year.

I finally felt that there seemed to be some small problems with my body bones, and I might not be able to bear the noise of children at that time, so I agreed to stay in Yangjia Village to regulate my body.

As for the handover of work, in fact, it has been handed over almost a year ago, and the rest of the trivial matters are the same whether they are handed over or not. In order to prevent his father-in-law from being unable to get away as soon as he returned to Yanjing, the things that really needed to be handed over were handed over on the phone.

"Is it really going to take that long?" After more than half a month of decadence, Zhou Ya, who was on the plane, seemed to have found the working status of the strong woman in the past few years in an instant, watching Yang Dongxu snatch all kinds of documents in his hand and throw them aside, Zhou Ya pursed her lips and wanted to relax, but she couldn't relax.

"It's been so long, and Sun Lao has said that the first two months of pregnancy are the most likely to have accidents. So you must not be too tired in these two months, I will deal with the matter, you follow me, you can guide you if there is anything that is not handled well, so that you don't have to be too tired, and you can rest assured that you are next to many things, so as not to affect your mood. ”

What's it like to be a dad for the first time?

First the surprise was a little incredible, and then the next thing was not as overwhelmed as I imagined, or I couldn't help myself. Maybe this is because the child was not born, and it is estimated that Zhou Ya is only a fertilized egg that has just begun to develop in her belly, and she does not have a very clear sense of blood, so Yang Dongxu's mentality is quite stable.

"But there are so many things abroad...... Zhou Ya still can't let go.

But before she could finish speaking, Yang Dongxu interrupted: "Haven't you already hired a lot of professional managers? Since they have given such a high salary, they have to show the corresponding ability."

At present, the situation in the country is quite stable, and the economic environment is not too turbulent. In such an environment, they can't handle the company's affairs well, so they should just get out early. If this batch doesn't work, it will be dismissed and replaced, anyway, as long as the general direction is good, it doesn't hurt to occasionally have a little business fluctuation. ”

Although the mentality is quite calm because the child has not yet been born, it is not too cautious to be cautious in the face of Zhou Ya, who is her first pregnant. If it weren't for Zhou Ya's disagreement, Yang Dongxu would have been eager to let Aunt Hua or Cui Ma watch him twenty-four hours a day, and protect him in a way that is higher than the protection level of the national treasure panda.

Even if it is wrong to do this in my heart, I understand that pregnant women are not as delicate as they imagined. But I always can't help but want to do this, walking on the road and seeing a stone kicked away directly for fear of tripping, and when I see the steps, I will think about whether Zhou Ya will slip and fall when I step on it.

This also thought that he knew that it was because of the nervous too nervousness, at this time, not only the pregnant Zhou Ya had to maintain a stable mentality, but he also needed to maintain a stable mentality, but he couldn't control it, what could he do?