Something happened again a few days ago, a text in the circle of friends, saying that a boss owes a lot of debts, about more than two million, and his wife decisively divorced him, at this time, we always think how can this woman be like this?

You should bear the debt with this man and pay it off together, but some people think that this practice of the wife is excusable, after all, people are very selfish, and everything they do for themselves is understandable.

It was only later that I felt that this practice of women was understandable, and I don't know why I thought of this, it may be that I also experienced some people's things around me later, and many of them also encountered these very troublesome things, and decisively chose to leave, but after careful observation, some people cowered and cowered for a lifetime, and they couldn't make a few dollars in their lives, and they always felt that there was a risk, and there were risks, but people were living a very stable life, why is this?

That's because many women hope that they can live a stable life, without strong winds and waves, and they have been very calm like this, although they can't make a few dollars, although the husband they married can give them a very ordinary life, life is not very rich, and they still have to live frugally, but they live like this, there are no big requirements to live, they also know that they don't want to experience those winds and waves, for those who can do big things, they are making money every day, and they may even become poor overnight, maybe they will get rich overnight, but what does this have to do with them？

Perhaps these are far away from their lives, out of reach. For the above example, when men owe a lot of money to others, they choose to leave, because they just want to live a stable life, before, maybe you are very rich, so it is very attractive to others, but when you have no money, you become a poor egg, this time is the most testing moment, but at this time, many women will not choose to share the joys and sorrows with you, and even worse than those men who have always been poor, before they were also very poor, and then they still chose to live frugally, but you have experienced the wind and waves, they can only bear what you can do when you are beautiful, and when the boat capsizes, how can they bear it, they will leave, all they want is a peaceful day, but everyone knows that the bigger the business, the more danger there will be, this is certain, but when encountering danger, who will face it calmly?

Maybe you will blame their snobbery, maybe you will blame their ruthlessness, maybe you will blame their selfishness, but this is already a fact, all they want is a stable life, but can you give it?

The moment you are in debt, they are already disappointed, they have already decided to leave, no matter what you think, no matter what you think, no matter what you plan to do, the rest of your life may just be your own war.