The time of the day passed quickly, although today is a very busy day, in addition to the invigilation or to correct the test papers, but when I am tired, there are still some gains, after the afternoon exam, it is the time for class, and it is not yet the time to get out of school, so everything is as usual, but this class is really special, when I go to class, although half of the class has passed, only a simple 20 minutes, but it is also very different, because it is just after the exam, there are also some students who find that they are not good at the exam, so they cry, at this time, their homeroom teacher has just arrived in the classroom, I comforted them a few words, in fact, it's just an exam, so there's no need to care so much, a failure is nothing, or to cultivate children's ability to resist frustration, this is also a key point of learning, in school, there are generally few such related training, most of the time is learning cultural knowledge, rarely time for personality training, which also caused some students, although the grades are very good, but the ability to resist setbacks and squeeze is not good, we have such students when we are studying, have always been such good students, but when the time comes, there are a lot of people who are stronger than themselvesAt this time, although they are very small, but sometimes, the score is not necessarily more important than everything about you, at least when you get this score, whether it is the improvement of your ability or the improvement of psychological quality, it is a great progress, which is why many students with poor academic performance are so resistant to frustration, because when they are in school, they are often criticized by teachers, and the number of such criticisms is more, and then they become thick-skinnedWhen I was young, in order to improve my academic performance, except for a few parents who didn't care much, just like that, most parents still attached great importance to it, when they were not good at school, they would cooperate with the teacher to educate their children, some of them also looked for the reason, and some of them did not look for the reason, I also know that some parents just used the fight as a means, in addition to hitting or beating, there is no psychological education level at all, so many children's psychological quality is not very good, in addition to being afraid of parents,There are no other characteristics,I also found that this means is not good,But in the countryside there are a lot of such parents,In addition to doing some rough work at work,And then there is little education for children,Very little attention,When you pay attention,It's not good to fight,This is just one of the aspects.,But it's all their education methods.。

When I saw such a scene, I didn't have anything to say, I wanted to teach some knowledge and skills, but some students cried, and some students were infected and cried, and the students who didn't cry were also sad, I think it may be because the questions of this exam are not simple, there are difficulties, so it caused such a situation, I also look at their current appearance, I think it's better to change their plans, although the task of learning is very heavy, and the delay is long, I am really afraid that I will not be able to complete the teaching taskI want to use this time to create a very strong psychology for them, this is my idea, but I think this kind of education is still very necessary, in the face of setbacks, in fact, it is also a good opportunity, such opportunities are not many, we don't want them to experience a lot of such opportunities, so in such an opportunity, I think it is still a very critical opportunity, I really hope that they can do their best, regardless of their academic performanceIn fact, when reading, it is of course good to be able to read good books, but the ability to adapt to other aspects is also very necessary, in such a society, what should you do if you do not have the ability to adapt?

So other abilities are more important, but these children, a bad exam, there will still be some pressure on their own mind, sometimes the pressure will turn into a kind of motivation, so there should still be pressure, but can not easily ignore the impact on the student's mind, in fact, they should be some all-round development people, instead of only staring at their own scores, now it is also a requirement for compound talents, even the characters in the novel are required to have a second career, the current society, really needs compound talents, not just about the score of the examIn fact, when those are studying, they are not very good people, and after graduation, there are many people who are better than those who read well, and there are also some reading that is great, but they are not gregarious and incompatible with the society, and this adaptability is also a big gap, and some students told me that we are very concerned about the score, for fear that their test scores will be low, and the scores will be lowIn the hearts of these children, in fact, every time the exam is not good, except for being beaten by the parents, there is nothing else, how do I think this kind of education is very simple?

It's too simple, in the child's heart, not only what is needed is these, many parents usually don't care much about their children, just care about the grades in school and other issues, sometimes, looking at the child's learning is not good, I feel that everything is like no hope and rush like a downfall, and finally the child does not report a little hope, but for the students who study well?

There will still be some attention. In short, after this exam, I also began to think about some of the education issues around me, although I am not an expert in education, but I still can't help but think, because this is the job I am engaged in, although it is not as good as I imagined, but it is also a long-term adaptation to the existence of myself.