☆、06072-win-win, long-term

Me: "From controlling the rules of the Yunxia Sect through the precepts, to using me as a springboard to control the cultivation realm around me, when I was making trouble in the Sand Alliance, you also controlled the movement trend of the Sand Alliance by the way. Wow, clear thinking to control the steps of the world, the steps are really stable. ”

Dad: "The point I want to make is that I protect you and you are protected by me, and it's a mutually beneficial thing for both of us. ”

Me: "I've always believed that. Although I didn't quite understand what you got out of it before – and now I still understand it partially, even if you say something about it, I have always believed, or I believe in your teachings, that a win-win relationship lasts. For the sake of a long-term good relationship between our father and son, you will not let me and you become a one-way flow of interests. ”

Dad: "Blood ties are wonderful, and the accumulation of biological nature and social inertia has created a close relationship that cannot be overstated. Most of the time, it is difficult for the monk to understand that a person is sacrificing for another person, but if it is a parent who is sacrificing for a child, or a child is sacrificing for a parent, then most monks will at least give a verbal realization, and say, 'This sacrifice makes sense.'" ”

Daddy: "There are no other strings attached, just because they are blood relatives, outsiders can understand that they are protecting each other." ”

Dad: "With the decline of the Xiuzhen family and the prosperity of the sect, the Xiuzhen world's understanding of blood ties has expanded to the same sect. Two people are in the same door, so even if they are still beating each other one moment, the next moment they can hand over their backs to each other to the outside world, and there is no need for more explanations, the word 'same door' is like the word 'relatives', which contains all the 'should be so'. ”

Daddy: "This kind of trust is so natural, and sometimes it brings some constraints that people want to escape. Through the strict elimination of disciples at the stage of selecting disciples, the sect tries to avoid unpleasant constraints, and hopes that all disciples can enjoy trust happily. Relatives are usually unable to carry out such elimination and screening, but when the cultivation level is high to a certain level and supplemented by a specific way, in the formation stage of their children's souls, they can carry out multiple rounds of selection of the soul factors that construct the children's souls, just like the entrance exam. ”

☆、06073 - another form of survival

I digested it for a while and decided to ask a question that was not the point, but was important to me: "Were you very satisfied with my son before I was born?" Alas, this is a broken problem that has been repeatedly taught to first set a number of problems and then immediately overturn.

Daddy: "Including the Qi cultivation period, the pregnancy of any two human monks is not a matter of one person, and it is impossible for one party to hand over the rest of the work to the other after providing a sperm. The higher the cultivation, the closer the bond between the two when they are pregnant. One of the important bases for the theory that Taoist couples promote fertility is this: Taoist couples are more likely to bond closely with each other, and if they meet the needs of pregnancy, then they are more likely to get pregnant. ”

Me: "What does the death of a Taoist priest mean to the person who remains, does it have anything to do with the cultivation of the ceiling?"

Daddy: "In my experience, whether or not it will become a ceiling has to do with the situation when the Taoist couple dies. If a Taoist priest dies with a desire to accompany him—not necessarily with malice, but perhaps just reluctance—then the convenience of death may become the ceiling for the one who lives. If there is an emotional rift between the Taoist couple and the party who is still alive when he dies, or even hates the party who is still alive, then it may also become a ceiling. ”

Me: "Only if the one who is alive can continue to live with his dead share, cultivate well, and have a bright future, will there be no ceiling?"

Daddy: "Sounds harsh? Dao couples are already as close as one person, and even if one person dies, the Tao of that party may continue in the cultivation of the other party, which is to achieve another kind of existence. Generally, you don't want to die when you're partially dead and partly still alive. Even if the part that has life will be seriously injured and painful for a while because of the part that dies, the injury will heal and the future can be better. ”

Me: "What if you're worried that the wound won't heal, will it be easier to drag the living person to die with you?"

Dad: "This kind of worry means that I and my Taoist companion are weak and have no development potential. Do you think I will doubt my future? Do you think that people who have become Taoist companions with me like this will doubt their future? Even Sun Lijiao, who was troubled by the disadvantage of her spiritual root, if it wasn't for the outbreak of her injuries, she might not be able to walk slowly and steadily with the qualifications of the four spiritual roots. ”

Dad: "It's like Duan Yanzhou has become more and more convinced of his future. ”

Me: "When you first joined the Yunxia Sect, you really didn't doubt your future development?"

Daddy: "Definitely not when you got married." If you don't have confidence in yourself, you can't build your own Tao, and there will be no Taoist couples. ”

☆、06074-casually

Me: "Wait a while, at least a prototype of my own Dao must be built before there can be a Daoist?"

Daddy: "Otherwise, why are you called a Taoist couple? Many people can actually only be regarded as lovers when they hold a Taoist couple's ceremony, but after nominally becoming a Taoist couple, they practice together, build their own Tao together, and the two of them have a harmonious Taoist relationship, and then they become real Taoist couples." ”

Me: "Is the ceremony of the conclusion of the Taoist couple so casual? Isn't it the Taoist couple's certificate that is also issued?"

Daddy: "When Xie Qinwei and Yuan Jing build the foundation period, if the two of them apply, they can also hold a Taoist couple conclusion ceremony for them." But you and Min Lun, if you apply, you will be rejected immediately, without a second of delay. ”

Me: "...... After receiving the application, at least you have to report it and go through the process?"

Daddy: "Do you know how this ceremony was applied?"

Me: "Xie Qinwei asked his master, and then his master replied that he would help him deal with it, and he just had to wait for marriage." However, Yan Gui and Duan Zhe seem to have applied to the Discipline Department? Is there a professional department in this?"

Dad: "A hundred years may not be a pair of things, set up a professional department?"

Me: "Haven't there been two pairs in the last 100 years......?"

Daddy: "Do you think there will be a third pair?"

Xiaodou and Xiaoxing?funeral are more likely. Or Xiaodou casually dug a well-dressed grave for Xiaoxing.

Daddy: "The elders and stewards of the sect who hope to become enlightened couples have a list in their hands, or in other words, the disciples of the whole sect can see which people have been in a stable relationship for a long time, and as long as these people apply, no matter which steward or elder they apply to, they will immediately give them approval and perform ceremonies." The result of the approval was decided a long time ago, so any steward or department could reply, and the ceremony was, of course, to notify the material department and other professional departments to prepare. Other people who are not on the preliminary list of Taoist priests apply and are immediately rejected. ”

Me: "Isn't this application process a bit of a passing? Like, let's say, if I talk to ...... Senior brother is on the preliminary list of Taoist couples, and then I accidentally told you that I want to hold a Taoist ceremony, but in fact, I didn't take it seriously, and you really went to inform me to arrange the ceremony, isn't it good?"

Daddy: "Do you think I can't tell if you're sincere or nonsense? And why do you think that if you and Jiang Weixiao want to hold a ceremony, you will apply?"

...... Isn't it a bit dangerous for Na Min Lun to be an example. You are sure that what you say to you will not be heard by people you don't want to hear, but I am not sure that what I say will be said, even if we are talking face to face in the same place.

Me: "If you use me and my brother as an example...... Oh, still no, both of them are apprentices who are transparent to you, and there is no misunderstanding. ”

Dad: "The point of this matter is actually that the ceremony is unnecessary for the Taoist couple, that is, it is unnecessary for the sect, so the sect does not need to set up a professional department for the Taoist ceremony. When a small number of disciples who are expected to become true Taoist couples want to have a ceremony, the sect can help arrange it, which is equivalent to a commission, and on the premise that the client's conditions are qualified, say that the request and payment are made, and the commission will be established. ”

☆、06075-proportional

Daddy: "In the past, there were indeed Taoist couples who didn't know which department to apply to for the ceremony, and thought that it was just their own business, so they went to the mission office to entrust them and asked someone who was willing to help them hold a beautiful wedding. The task office took over, and then the materials department prepared the celebratory gifts, and the layout of the ceremony venue was mainly handled by the admissions office......"

Me: "Admissions?"

Dad: "Because the admissions office is the most experienced in setting up the venue. Although the experience of arranging the venue of the Taoist ceremony is far less than that of the admissions test, compared with other departments, the admissions office is already the top professional of this sect. ”

Me: "...... Also, 'enrollment' can be interpreted both as recruiting new students and as conjuring new lives. ”

Me: "Can I see a list of the current couples in this sect, which are the recognized couples?"

Daddy: "To experience jealousy?"

Me: "I'm not interested in relationships, not as much as sex, and now I'm not even ...... sex Is there a large proportion in the middle of the Mahayana period?"

Daddy: "You can ask if there is one." ”

Me: "...... Isn't it? Not one? Really? The Hehuan Sect said that except for his disciples, other monks don't necessarily have to be experiential in order to enter the higher cultivation. ”

Dad: "What you are asking about is the proportion of the Mahayana period of the gods, and the Hehuan Sect has the Mahayana period of the gods?"

Me: "...... Do you really have to go through it?"

Daddy: "Why are you so resistant? Don't you like the public's assumption that you will be bound to live your whole life? Don't you often ponder to overturn this conclusion?"

Me: "I don't think about it often, and I don't like it when I get used to it." Although their attitude was so consistent that I was prone to rebellion, at the end of the day, they were just discussing it on their own and didn't really interfere with my behavior. If I do it with anyone, they won't really stop me, so the key is always in my own mentality. ”

Me: "And my state of mind ...... Why do I use 'ruthlessness' to match 'do with people'? My psychological defense line is so high that it has become a problem. The people I was close to and trusted, who I could relax, who I thought were family, and having relationships with them made me feel incestuous and not at all the point where I was willing to have sex with anyone else. It's a dead end. ”

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