Don't give too much for something that isn't worth it (1)
When I wrote this topic, I also don't know what should be paid, what is not worth paying, sometimes in our life I feel that a thing is worth it for myself, but in the end it is very disappointed to myself, sometimes I feel that such a thing has little to do with myself, but it brings me some unexpected surprises, which is also the normal state of life, so there are always people who will say that the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, so in the face of all the gains and losses, it is more important to maintain a good attitude than anything else, but it is easy to say, but it is also difficult to doWhen you really pay with your heart, although you always say, no matter what the final result looks like, you have no regrets, and say a lot of comforting words, in fact, it is just a psychological anesthesia, and when you really pay a lot for a thing, the final disappointment and loss will make you feel sad, this is what we often feel, but those things we have not paid for, our disappointment will be very few, in the past, I also found why the more I care about things, the more difficult it is to grasp, the more I don't care about things, but it can accompany myself for a long time, ever, I have also seen some couples, they are very emotional, and they get along very well, but because they care too much, and there are many things that have to be separated, this is why, because when you care too much, it is too easy to calculate, and the pressure is too great, people still like to find things that can make them happy, if you like something again, like it from the heart, but he can't give you happiness, such people or other things, sooner or later you will give up, it's just a matter of time.
Last Friday, I was going to buy a water dispenser, and a bucket for the water dispenser, in fact, this was not a big deal, but I was on the Internet to watch, watched for a day, Saturday, I felt that I obviously couldn't control it, I still want to see, so I have been looking at the webpage, on Taobao, after a long time, I still want to find some products with high praise rates to buy, and too expensive I don't want to buy, so just look at them one by one, but when it's time to do their own things, I still don't want to do it, I always feel that I look at it for a while, and I just stumble again and againOn Sunday, I wanted to buy a shirt for my nephew, but when I went to the mall, I didn't find a suitable one, and I didn't know what was going on, so I put my eyes on the Internet again, just because of these two things, I didn't read a book on Sunday, I really don't know how the time passed, the whole day, I didn't do anything, I kept staring at my phone, and when I saw twelve o'clock in the evening, when the clock on my phone pointed to 12 o'clock, I was also very surprised, it was 12 o'clock,But my neck hurts.,It's not a lie.,So I had to end a day's search.,And then start sleeping.,It took three days like this.,Didn't do anything.,Because the computer broke.,There's no writing.,It's really like an idler.,Every day except for eating and drinking is going to the mall.,There's nothing else.,But I'm not easy.,It's still very tired.,But there's nothing to gain.,I reflected on myself.,I found that I really spent a lot of time on some useless things.,For example,I want to buy a water dispenser.,I was on Monday. ,Still look at it like this,And then I deleted the Taobao software on my phone.,But I still go to Alipay to find goods like this.,What kind of habit is this?,I'm also deeply dissatisfied with my time-wasting habits.,But when I really want to find a thing,It's so persistent.,So I can't understand my own behavior.,I really can't stop.,But I always have to find a way to stop myself.,So on Monday,I also found a lot of other ways.,At this time, I decided to buy a water dispenser and bucket anyway. ,Because I can't continue to look for it like this.,On Monday,I also found that the things I used to collect on Taobao that I thought were good have been taken off the shelves.,This is the product I spent an afternoon finding.,It's all the goods that sell well.,And it's a very good product.,It's such a product.,Let me really have an indescribable feeling.,So I still want to save like this.,When I got the right opportunity to buy it back.,But when I went to see it.,It's gone.,Off the shelves.,It's really sad.,This is my one afternoon.,Even a day's results.,I'm also very annoyed. But who is to blame for this?
I can only remove this product from my favorites, and then this afternoon's work is all delayed, so now I will still learn to be smarter, but still not very smart, everything has to have a process, this Sunday three days, idle, for some unnecessary things and wasted their time, when I really realize the existence of the problem, I still feel that it is corrected as soon as possible, although there are still some other ways needed, but I still think it is good as soon as possible, but sometimes people's problems are not developed in a while,I didn't develop such a problem for a while.,I made such a mistake just now.,Sometimes it's like this in the past.,Sometimes it's telling yourself to read.,But holding the book or thinking of somewhere else.,I don't even know what I'm reading.,It's just a posture.,What's the point of that?
But I still found my own shortcomings in listening to the song, I thought, anyway, it's already such a state, what I want, I've been looking for it there, if I haven't bought it, I'll remember to look through some goods like this, or forget it, just buy it directly, I just bought a water dispenser and a bucket, and then it was quiet for a few days, but the human brain will still keep thinking, I'm like this, I've been thinking like this, so when I encounter things, I'll still think like this, I've been thinking, tonight, I'm also in the previous time, when he tutored his nephew in his homework, when he came, it was really classic.