Chapter 1580: Decision
There are so many family members, and the good and bad are uneven, if you don't beat it and don't let Zhong Shanao change the management method, it will be a shame if something happens in the future.
The Qin clan was in charge of his father at the beginning, and it has been transferred to him in the past two years. It was one of the tasks that his father threw him to practice.
Qin Yu played for a while, and he keenly discovered the mystery here, the first thing to control the family is to see if you actually have the ability, whether you are a strong clan to bow your head, and the second is whether you are ruthless enough.
Let the clansmen be afraid of power and dare not be presumptuous!
If you get too close, it's easy to kick your nose and face.
Zhong Shanao is in this situation now, his previous methods were too gentle, and he has always used gentle methods for blood relatives, so although the family cohesion is good, it also makes him tired and half dead. It's simply not enough.
However, he just said it lightly, and he didn't say it directly, Zhong Shanao had already realized the problem and came up with a solution, so as long as he continued to increase Zhong Shanao's right to speak in their room, he would basically not have to worry about the chores here in the future.
"You still have to tell everyone that when you return to the family, you have to change your surname. The surname Zhong Shan cannot be used. ”
When Zhong Shanao heard this, he finally felt a little heavy.
Change your surname!
When he returned to his house, his daughter-in-law walked up to him with her youngest son in her arms and sat down, "What's the matter?"
She was dressed in a robe and wore beautiful glittering gold ornaments on her hands. Such beautiful gold ornaments are not found in the tribe. But such a beautiful gold ornament is on the elders' side, and it is just a reward for the subordinates to buy.
Alas, she has been following her own man for so many years, and she never thought that there would be such a day.
In the future, I followed my father-in-law to the family, but I am afraid that life will be better.
"Why are you frowning?" asked his daughter-in-law.
"The second uncle said that if you go there, the family will change your surname. Zhong Shan Ao said.
"Should it be the surname Qin? I see that several of the guards on the second uncle's side have this surname, and the guards with this surname have a better attitude towards us. And the second uncle is also surnamed Qin. The woman holding her youngest son said with a smile.
"But you have to change your surname. Zhong Shanao had a pimple in his heart.
"If you don't want to change your surname, we'll stay in the tribe. His daughter-in-law said.
Zhong Shan Ao looked at his daughter-in-law in surprise, "Are you willing to stay in the tribe?"
"I think the second brother is also willing to stay in the tribe, although life in the tribe is hard, but he can live as he wants. It's comfortable. Zhong Shanao's daughter-in-law hugged the child and laughed while coaxing.
"You're right, but it's a pity that I'm the eldest son, so I can't help but go. Zhong Shanao sighed. His father and mother are gone, and the three brothers who raised him are Qin Hui. Raising grace is greater than the sky, and if there was no Qin Hui back then, the three brothers would not grow up, and people can't have no conscience.
He gave Qin Hui a pension, and he should be filial to Qin Hui in the future.
That piece of Qin Hui raised their three brothers at the beginning, but it was just a responsibility and a handy. But people have fulfilled their responsibilities as fathers.
"Then if you really care so much, leave one or more of our sons behind. ”
Zhong Shanao listened to his wife's words, and his heart was a little moved, but in the end he shook his head and said, "We have to have a bowl of water, we are all sons, whoever stays in the tribe will not develop well in the future, which will not only affect himself, but also his children and grandchildren." We'll be resentful when the time comes. ”
Zhong Shanao's wife didn't speak, in fact, she also knew that you were like this. However, if her man is relieved only if he leaves a few sons, she will still support him.
"Then what about the second brother's family who want to stay?" asked Zhong Shanao's wife.
Let his daughter-in-law persuade him, and although he insists on staying now, he will agree to go with his son and daughter-in-law. "Zhong Shanao is too familiar with this younger brother's character. His brother will compromise for the sake of his daughter-in-law and children and grandchildren.
"What did the second uncle say, is there anything wrong with us? I remember you said when you went to the last time I met the second uncle, his attitude was very indifferent. Actually, I didn't feel it, I think his attitude is okay. Zhong Shanao's daughter-in-law asked.
Zhong Shanao was speechless and said that his second uncle saw that a guy in the family had stolen something and secretly put it back.
Zhong Shanao's daughter-in-law immediately said, "I know who it is, it's the fifth grandson of the second brother's family." Alas, that little guy was raised crooked by his mother, and his mother also likes to steal. The last time I went to see my second uncle, I saw her secretly dragging someone's gauze tent ꓹ But the tent was too strong ꓹ She couldn't pull it down no matter how she dragged it. ”
Poof, Zhong Shanao was helpless by his niece and daughter-in-law.
"She has such a bad problem, why does the second brother still allow her to stay at home?"
"The second brother likes her. Besides, even if she has this bad problem, if she is caught, for the sake of her father-in-law and your face, people will not be difficult for her, at most, it will make her lose money. ”
When Zhong Shanao heard this, he remembered what Qin Yu said to him.
If these grandnieces and grandchildren rely on his father to do something with him in the future, it will be really a shame.
He can't keep an eye on so many people by himself, and it seems that it is imperative to change the way he manages the clan.
"Call everyone here tomorrow Let's talk about the return. "Shocks stayed in the tribe, and they didn't have a few relatives left, and those relatives had left them alone after their father and mother were rumored to have died in battle.
Hearing Zhong Shanao say this, his daughter-in-law knew that her man had finally made up his mind to leave. If this were a different man, there would be this condition, and he would have followed his father-in-law. The man is still a little hesitant and can't think about it.
The father-in-law didn't say anything, and the Qin clan didn't reject them, so why couldn't they go. If the Qin people reject them and discriminate against them, it will be fine. There are no one else, and besides, my father-in-law is designated to leave. If the family loses this big backer, can they shelter the entire family by relying on their own man alone?
That's certainly impossible.
Even his man is under the protection of his father-in-law.
From the day she got married, she clearly knew that although her father-in-law didn't care about anything, he was definitely the pillar of the family. If this and the pillar are gone, who will be able to live in peace in the tribe.
As long as his father-in-law leaves, if his own man does not follow, the treatment of the tribe will definitely not drop by a star, and it will be a cliff-like fall.
The people who didn't deal with their father-in-law in the past may have to fall into the ground.
People in the tribe say that they have a simple temperament, but who doesn't pick up soft persimmons and pinch them?