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"Toughness", these two words, Baidu entry is like this: 1. When the object is subjected to external force, it produces the property of deformation and not easy to break.

2. Refers to the tenacious and lasting spirit: the more arduous the task, the more needed~. But I understand it like that, maybe, I should have my thoughts.

My idea is this, resilience, that is, no matter what happens, you still have to be able to solve it well, even if you encounter setbacks, you will not be discouraged, you will not bend, you will not bend, and you will be resilient.

Doing things without fishing for three days and drying nets for two days, this is my understanding. To give a very simple example, when we were young, it was common to go to work in the farmland, on the one hand, to help the family to do what they could, and the most important point is that they, that is, the parents, hope that through the work of the farm, we will cause some exercise, so that we feel that the work of the farmland is very tired, and study hard, maybe it is the experience of life, which is what it means.

But what about after that? We always feel that we are not as powerful as our parents, and we also feel that we are not bored after a while, but our parents, they are much better than us, we can only do it for a while, and they can do the whole morning or the whole afternoon of farm work, when I grow up to participate in the work is the same, at the beginning, I feel that a lot of things, I can't do it, because I can't bear it, a little thing, will cause emotional fluctuations, cause the idea of resignation, and the terrible thing is that once such a thought arises, it will immediately become a reality, not like some people, after having some ideas, can endureAfter having social experience, I feel that a lot of things, in doing it, can still be done for a longer time, can have a better result, just because I think the process of human growth is also a process of increasing resilience, when facing things, we change from the initial fragility to the strong, which really makes us feel our own growth, feel the progress of our hearts.

However, people should have resilience, this is not only a statement, but also a difficult thing to put into action, if people can be as resilient as a spring, can stretch, can compress, do not break, can always be used like this, can fully have some tolerance in life, can endure more things, can be on the way forward with weight, more progress, is the best result.