I heard a friend say that it costs hundreds of thousands of dollars when you get married, and I didn't believe it much at first, but later, I really couldn't help but believe it, and my mother watched it every time called "People's Adjustment" The program, there are a lot of disputes above, which need to be adjusted by the staff, but the general disclosure of marriage information above is also hundreds of thousands, and if it is less, it will be hundreds of thousands, for example, a friend told me that if you get married now, you want to buy a house, a house is hundreds of thousands, most of the families are not very rich, they all pay a down payment first, and then take a mortgage, and slowly start to repay, in addition to the down payment, it is normal to owe more than 200,000 yuan to the bank, which is still in our underdeveloped places, in those first-tier cities, I think the housing prices are even higher and amazingIn Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, according to statistics, no matter how difficult your life is, but if you have a house, it is the top 20% The ranks of the rich, because the money of a house is your fixed asset, so this pressure is also conceivable, in our place, although the house price is not very low, in people's opinion, but compared with Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, I still can't help laughing out loud, and then when I get married, I want 100,000 yuan for the woman's family, which is very normal, and some take 60,000 or 70,000 yuan, people are very happy, saying that the bride price of the woman is not much, it seems that people are still very content.

In addition, the money for marriage, the messy spending, is also a lot of money, all of them are calculated, it should almost be 500,000, so it is very difficult to get married, some children in the city are not in good condition, they can go to the countryside to find rural girls, but many of those rural boys can not find the right one, there are also some rural boys, at the right time can find a partner, and now the status quo of more men and fewer women has been affecting this status quo, those boys with poor conditions, and in the countryside, they also want to be single, now they are much better, go to the village to see, There are a lot of rural boys who have been single, they are not not not working hard, it is not that their parents do not work hard, the key is that they can't find the right one, and after this, there is also a rumor that girls get married and divorced, and then get married, so that they can struggle for ten years less, although it is unscientific, but it also reflects some problems, in such a rural area, it is very difficult to find an object, so when you find an object, it is very cherished, for fear of any accidents.

There are also some people who have no money and pretend to be very tall, and then because of some trivial things, they are just a few days, and they get divorced, and as a result, after the divorce, the girl is gone, and the boy starts a long search alone, and it is difficult for a handsome young man who has never been married to find a partner?

Not to mention divorced people, so just like this again and again, time continues to pass, and in the end you can only live a lonely life, but seriously, many marriages are one-off, but such a statement is not absolute, some people get married, divorce again, and then when they go to find the object again, they will always think about whether the other party is good to their children and so on, children are also a very critical factor, this is not a kitten and a puppy, how to deal with it, this is a life, this is a human child, so in this process, I also saw it, after those divorcesWhen looking for a partner again, there are many factors to consider, which is much lower than the previous standard, and it is necessary to be good for one's own children, and so on A series of problems, so in such a marriage and divorce has become a very cumbersome process.

And some people are different, people are rich, at least life is rich, this is an advantage, after people get married, they don't want to live, they divorce, and then get married again, I have also seen some such people, a person next to me, everyone has been married 5 times, what is this for, look at this number, do you think marriage is a game or a child's house, can get married 5 times, and there are more times, what is this, did you not think about it when you got married?

is still young, not to say that he has been married 5 times when he is old, he is only in his 30s now, and he has been married 5 times before he is 40 years old, and no one knows if he can grow old together this time?

Who dares to say it, because there are still decades left in the future life, only to find out that in fact, people are rich, and people are willful.

The conditions that the girl wants can be met by everyone, you say you want a house, okay, what house do you like, that location, buy it back immediately, so get married 5 times, and there are a lot of other people's houses, what are you playing?

Buying a house is as casual as buying a bottle of mineral water, and changing women is also so casual, and I am also drunk.

That's it, people want to get married, they want to divorce, they want to divorce, they have been living freely like this, and those who are poor are different, the economic pressure makes you have no additional ambitions, of course, I mean, there are some people who exist for the so-called good and strong, even if I don't want a wife, I want to divorce those people are exceptions, people want to live alone, and as a result, such a person is lonely and old, there are also some, but many people are after getting married, do not want to divorce, because when they get married, many people are borrowing money from relatives and friends, and some repay loans to get married, people always say, money can be loaned, can be borrowed, But how to borrow the wife, how to borrow the child, so people will have some foreign debts when they get married like this, but the foreign debts of this marriage have not been paid off, and when you get married again, you still have to meet the woman's conditions, and this time you also need to spend money？

That is, it will be a debt of 400,000 yuan, this is still a person who has some savings in his own hands, if there is nothing, hundreds of thousands of foreign debts, how do you pay back, we are rural, many people's wages are 3,000 yuan or 4,000 yuan or 5,000 yuan a month, this is a very normal wage standard, but it is not comparable to the big city is tens of thousands of dollars a month, the salary is not high, after marriage, you still have to support your wife and children, such a back and forth, the parents are also old, need to provide for the elderly, medical care or something, in the countryside, many parents are no income, no salary, not much pensionOnly after the age of 60, each person will be sent dozens of yuan per month for living expenses, think about these, you will really feel that it is not easy to get married, divorce is not the right of us ordinary people, and what kind of life we have chosen, to live like this desperately, this is the reality, or live a good life, do your best.