A matter of face
Recently chatted with a friend, he learned that he and his wife are divorced, why divorce, in fact, it is also a trivial matter, the key is that both sides do not give in to each other, no one is willing to admit defeat, maybe it is a family problem between them, both sides feel that their conditions are good, or have other ideas, in short, the matter is not very serious, but when the two people have disputes and contradictions, the girl hurriedly returned to her parents' home, and what about the people of her mother's family? Originally, I wanted them to live a good life, but the boy made up his mind to divorce, I don't know why, but later, one day a few months later, when their lovely son called his mother, he could always bring his mother to tears, but it was such a sensible child, in fact, this child was only two years old, but he had to take on the responsibility of matching the feelings between his father and mother, he hoped that his mother could come back every time, but what about his father? Every time I will be moved by the child's words to cry, this child's words can move his father and mother, really a cute naughty and sensible boy, but his father has always felt that he wants this girl to come back by herself, or has other ideas, what about the child's mother? Maybe it's also because she won't come back herself, but what about the boy's father......?
The next thing is that the boy's father couldn't help it, so he found a girlfriend again, but the problem arose, his family didn't say anything at this time that his family was very confident and rich, and began to think that it was good for the child's biological mother to come back, but they still couldn't let go of it, besides, now, it's been almost a year, and there has been no communication and exchange between the two sides, where is it still frozen, what to do, no one knows what will happen in the future, but I feel that this child is suffering, or begging the parents of both sidesI really don't know that such a child is not enough for both parties to give up everything and live together again, what about the man's father? and he is afraid that his son will spend a lot of money if he marries again, I said, doesn't it matter if your family has money or not? Why do you have to feel that your family has money and embarrass this girl? And this girl does not show weakness, it is really such a situation, there were many people who persuaded and called this girl back, but they were still unwilling to give up face. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
And the man's parents are afraid that their grandson will be wronged, they still don't want their son to continue his wife's room, but he hopes that he can still live seriously with the child, but the man's parents feel that after a while, they still hope that their former daughter-in-law can come back, but they just think about it, and no one can put down their son, and what about this boy? Or is he looking for a woman outside, or he wants to find another one to marry, the thing is such a stalemate, I really don't know who to persuade and who to blame? Because this kind of housework is not clear to me, I as a bystander, I just think that in life we still have to tolerate each other, not like at home is a battlefield of life and death, so that both parties are unhappy, sooner or later one day something will happen, I remember those people of our father's generation, they or the times are different, they used to often have conflicts, and it was also the same husband and wife quarreled when they quarreled, but they were able to restore peace afterwards, maybe the times are different, we don't have the patience we used to, and we don't have the willfulness as before, they always dare not divorce in the environment of the times, afraid of being ridiculed by othersBut now that the mind is open, people are free to live, everything is free, and all the ability to tolerate many things is not as good as before, my opinion on this matter is very simple, that is, this southern boy should not look for a woman outside, or find the child's biological mother earlier, but they still don't listen to my persuasion, or still have to fight for this, in fact, the child's feelings are not known? Parents nowadays, I really wish they could have put more energy into their children, in fact, they never think about what their children are like?
Such a child needs too much care in the process of growing up, but when such parents behave in front of my eyes, I really don't know how to believe such a fact. There is still a little thing in my mind that came to mind when I wrote tonight, because I used to cook instant noodles by myself, I don't know if it has expired, it should not be expired, don't think that I am a person who has no concept and will not live, in fact, I also want to throw away this bag of instant noodles, but after thinking about it, it is better to eat it, after all, it is a piece of food, I am in the process of teaching students, sometimes because I get up early in the morning, some students do not eat to go to school, when the first time I saw a classmate put a bun in his place, and a child put the drink on his tableIn such a situation, a strict teacher will definitely let the children throw away these things to eat and drink, and I really don't want them to throw them away this time, so after all, is it the food they bought? My solution is to let these two children eat their food outside the door and then return to class, after all, they don't eat breakfast in the morning, when they don't eat, they must be worrying about their food, when their stomachs are hungry, they will still look at their food, or steal a bite when I don't pay attention, but in my class, I still don't allow the children to be as free and casual as rushing to the street, that will not learn real knowledge, so I just let them eat, maybe they won't bring anything to class next time, and my guess is correctI don't want children to think about other things in class, or I hope they can read and study seriously wholeheartedly, this is my hope for others, why I see that the children of those single-parent families have a special feeling and care, because I am also a single-parent child, so every child is my epitome, I don't want them to have any shortcomings in character, or hope that they live a healthy and happy life, this is my greatest wish.
Judging from today's incident, I still hope that everyone will not take it so seriously, or cherish family, love, and friendship!
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