Chapter 1295: The Hope of Home (Three Watches)
went to the heart knot, a boulder in his heart was gone, and the man's complexion looked better in an instant.
"The patient looks so much better!"
Xu Junhang was surprised, this is not a medicine yet, just a few words.
Han Lei knew a lot about this, and said slowly: "Heart disease still needs heart medicine, if the human body is regarded as the hardware of the machine, then the human spirit is the system of equipment, and if there is a problem with the system, there will be a problem with the operation." ”
Life is amazing, some people tend to focus only on physical illness, but often ignore the spiritual, yet few people know that mental illness is often more terrible than physical illness.
And many times people's physical ailments are caused by mental and psychological factors.
If a person doesn't want to live anymore, then his body will actually cooperate, and various diseases will follow, and if a person is optimistic, the disease will often stay away.
To explain in a more scientific way, the human immune system is closely related to a person's mood and mental state, a good mental state, a good mentality, immunity is often strong, a bad mentality, a bad spirit, immunity is often poor.
Fang Han didn't ask the man again, but looked at the woman.
"Come on, you come forward, I'll touch the pulse first!"
The woman hurriedly got up, Ye Kai helped move the chair forward, the woman sat down again, and then stretched out her hand and put her wrist on the pulse pillow.
Fang Han touched his pulse and asked, "What is your situation, where is it uncomfortable?"
"Dizziness, headache, general weakness, lack of appetite, heartache ......."
The woman talks about her symptoms, and there are quite a few symptoms.
The man hurriedly said: "My wife has been sick for a while, almost three months, my father was sick soon after the funeral, I have seen many hospitals, I have seen many doctors, take medicine, hang bottles, but there is no improvement, so I want to come to the provincial capital to see Chinese medicine, but I haven't .......registered yet."
Fang Han didn't say a word, let the woman change an arm, and continued to touch the pulse, while observing the woman's complexion.
Don't look at the woman's symptoms, but whether it is from the pulse or complexion, the woman actually has no serious illness, this is still a heart disease.......
"Did the two of them quarrel before they got sick?" Fang Han tried to ask.
"No, I had a fight with my son!" the man sighed.
The young man's eyes flickered subconsciously.
"Can you elaborate?" Fang Han asked.
The man sighed again and said: "Hey, my son is twenty-five years old this year, it has actually been a year since he graduated, he has changed several units in a year, he didn't earn a penny, and he asked for a lot from his family, more than half a year ago, my father was sick and hospitalized, and he spent a lot of money, and the old man passed away, and the family saw a doctor, held a funeral, spent a lot of money, and owed a lot of debt, but he ......."
Saying that, the man glanced at his son, and his chest rose and fell angrily: "But he still doesn't go out to work hard, and he still asks his mother for money, but her mother doesn't give it, and he beats her mother........"
"I was on top at the time, I didn't control it, and besides, I didn't hit .......," the young man hurriedly defended.
"Regardless of whether you hit it or not, if you make that move, you will be a son of man in vain!" Han Lei couldn't help but scold.
The young man looked like a dog, but he didn't expect to beat his mother, even his own mother, it was really worse than a pig and a dog.
Men's family background is not good, and it is said that the children of poor families are in charge of the family early, but sometimes the children of poor families are not necessarily much better than the children of rich families, and even more so.
If a rich family has a loser, it will be a failure, and the defeat is the family property, but if the poor family has a loser, it will be the life of the parents.
It is said that there are parents all over the world, although this is true, but when children beat their parents, it is really intolerable by heaven and earth.
There is a sentence in the disciple rules, Han Lei has always been regarded as a classic, dear to me, filial piety is not difficult, dear to hate me, filial piety Fangxian!
What does that mean?
If my parents love me and love me, filial piety to my parents is very simple and natural, if my parents hate me and treat me badly, I am still filial, that is the real filial piety, which is rare.
However, in fact, not to mention "dear to me" and "dear to me", how many filial sons and grandchildren can be raised?
This kind of person who can even beat his own parents with his own hands, how much can you expect him to look at other people?
The young man was silent.
Fang Han glanced at the young man, let go of his wrist, and groaned slightly.
This disease is also a heart disease, the mother was beaten by her son, whether she was hit or not, this heart is hurt, it is precisely because of the heartache, coupled with the fact that there are many things in the family, that this is depressed and sick.
General weakness, headache, dizziness, heartache....... All these symptoms are actually caused by heart disease.
The knot in my heart cannot be untied, and no matter how many doctors I see for this disease, it will not help.
Many times, patients will blame the doctor for seeing a doctor, I spent so much money, and I didn't see the disease well, or you can't see it well when I have a minor illness.
However, in fact, many diseases are beyond the control of doctors.
"Doctor, there's nothing wrong with my family's illness, right?" the man asked with concern.
Although they have been to many hospitals and seen many doctors, many doctors say that this disease is not a big problem, but it is always bad, almost three months, even if it is a heart disease, for so long, the woman's body is actually quite poor.
There's a word called depressed and ended!
A person is depressed, the knot is not loose, it will be life-threatening for a long time, a woman has been sick for so long, if this knot cannot be untied, the more serious the situation will be in the future.
"Arrange a bed for the patient and go to the hospital first. ”
Fang Han said to Ye Kai, and then said to the man and the young man, "The patient's family stays for a while." ”
The woman glanced at Fang Han and then at her husband, a little reluctant to leave.
Often doctors say this, which means that the condition is not optimistic, even if people who don't understand medicine have watched too many TV dramas, some common sense can also understand some of it, and in various medical dramas, it is not a good thing for doctors to communicate with patients and patients' families behind their backs.
"You go first, don't worry, it's going to be fine!"
The man smiled at the woman.
After a while, the man's condition looked much better.
As the pillar of the family, the man must hold on, with a sick wife on one side and an unfilial son on the other, the pressure on the shoulders of a man is much heavier than that of a woman.
Ye Kai took the woman and left first, Fang Han motioned for the young man to sit down on the chair that the woman was sitting on just now, and then said solemnly: "Your mother's situation is very bad, and if it goes on like this, it may not last for half a year!"
Fang Han's words were not to scare, but to seek truth from facts.
This situation of women is indeed very bad, and if it continues like this, it will be difficult to say for half a year.
The young man's face changed slightly, and the man was also anxious: "Doctor, what kind of illness is this!"
"Heart disease!"
Fang Han said something, and said: "This disease is angry, the situation at home is not good, my son started beating himself, his heart is broken, there is a saying that mourning is greater than heart death........
From beginning to end, the woman was silent, at that time the man vomited blood, and when Fang Han passed, he only saw despair and helplessness in the eyes of the woman, from that time until now, the woman was silent, and when Fang Han asked about the symptoms, she whispered a few words.
This is the manifestation of mourning more than death.
In their fifties, for people of this age, eight or nine out of ten people pin their hopes on their children, it can be said that they live for their children, struggle, make money, are full of energy, dare not get sick, dare not rest, dare not shout tired, all for the sake of their children.
Children have to go to school, food, clothing, housing and transportation, and when their sons grow up, they have to start a family, they have to get married and marry their daughters-in-law, and they have to buy a house and a car, which is a big burden.
But no matter how heavy the burden is, as long as the children are sensible, there is always hope for parents no matter how hard and tired they are.
However, the actions of the young man are tantamount to extinguishing the hope of the woman.
Although there are some things that Fang Han didn't ask, he can probably still guess.
The mother loses many children, the son loses, dares to beat the mother, and the mother's education is inseparable, the man's family is not good, but he will still raise a loser, it must be a woman who loves her son very much, even if she is poor, she will not let her son suffer the slightest grievance, and over time he will develop the habit of his son's lavish spending, no matter how poor the family is, the mother always gives what he wants, and the son has no such concept.
A twenty-five-year-old young man and his father accompanied his mother to the hospital to see a doctor, but the money was on his father, which can actually be seen from this point, the father is very clear about his son's virtue, and he does not dare to let his son take this money, even if it is the mother's money for medical treatment.
At the beginning of human beings, nature is good, there are no inherently bad people in this world, there are no innate losers, and children's growth and family education are inseparable.
It is precisely because the mother dotes on her son and her son beats people that the mother is even more sad.
The depth of love is the responsibility of responsibility!
I love my son so much, I love my son so much, I am afraid that he will be wronged at all, but he beats himself, at that moment, the woman's heart is broken, desperate, and has no nostalgia for life.
The woman herself is desperate, feeling that life is boring, and her body will naturally collapse, and the consequences can be imagined.
Fang Han organized the language, roughly explained the situation, and said: "Your mother's current situation is like this, if you want to cure her illness, you must first arouse her hope, otherwise, no matter how much medicine you take, no matter how much money you spend, it will not help." ”
"Brute!"
The man suddenly got up and slapped his son in the face.
"Smack!"
A crisp voice sounded in the consultation room, and the young man was beaten and almost fell off the chair, but subconsciously stood up.......
"What, are you still going to hit me?"
The man looked at his son, with despair and anger in his eyes: "Come on, fight, your mother doesn't want to live anymore, it's actually not interesting for me to live, let's fight." ”
The young man sat back in his chair in a dejected manner.........
Fang Han didn't say anything, Han Lei and the others didn't say anything, everyone just watched quietly, the key to this disease is the youth, if the young man can still turn back, then the family will still be saved, if the young man does not have the slightest remorse, then this family will be finished, even Fang Han can't help it.
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