The relationship between people is very delicate, the relationship between you and others is far away, people will because the relationship between you and others is not good, or even very distant relationship, when you really have something to ask others for help, people may think that the relationship between you and him is not to that extent, but the relationship is too intimate, you and others are to help each other, the relationship between people is really a relationship of mutual exchange, maybe equivalent, maybe not equivalent, but it is like this, although it is a little ugly, but it is true, you take advantage of others, others also take advantage of you。

It's naked, and it's very ugly, but that's exactly what I feel, you help others, in fact, you're helping yourself, and when you have something, others will also help you, but in life, people are not sages, they only help others, they don't need the help of others, but if you encounter something, you want others to help you, you have to ask others to help you when you encounter things, and others help you more times, people will feel that you owe something to others, people will take it for granted, when someone has something, they will also let you help him (her), and sometimes some things, you just can help othersIt's okay, you can do it, but there are things that are obviously not allowed by your ability, maybe these things are clearly known to be illegal, you can't do it yourself, and doing it is illegal, would you take such a risk and risk implicating yourself to do it?

But the other party thinks that you can do this thing successfully, so please help, refuse, I'm not embarrassed, but don't refuse, I can't do it, and the difficulty can be imagined.

Therefore, in life, you have to do your own things, which is really beyond your ability and must be done, when you need to ask others for help, then ask others for help, and we must also learn to be grateful, don't owe others too much, because you owe others a lot of favors, and when you can't pay it back, how should you deal with yourself?

People are very social animals, no matter how strong a person's ability is, he can't resist the gossip of others, no matter how good a person's heart is, it can't withstand other people's rhetoric, in fact, people just need to be able to have no complaints and no regrets, but I have already given an example, can you really have no regrets about this?

Others help you a lot, but you don't help others, but the result is the opposite, and the result is probably not the result that the other party and yourself want.

Therefore, in many cases, do your own things, you don't owe much to others, just once in a while, so it's nothing at all, and you can't fall behind the tongue of others, and you will take care of your own life and reputation, and those who are always used to taking advantage of others, we still have to stay away from these people as soon as possible, everyone is a single individual, everyone's life is also busy, in your life, how many things should be done to help others, and how much time is left for yourself and your family, so you have to do what you can。

And people, as a human being, still have to learn to reject others and be kind to themselves.