Before, I always thought that people who understand you don't need to explain, people who don't understand you, it's useless to explain, this is a sentence I saw on the Internet, I think a lot of people think it's very reasonable, I also think it's very reasonable, so for a long time, I always don't want to explain too much, I want to be a down-to-earth person, do things in a down-to-earth way, don't want to explain too much, don't want to talk too much, so after a long time, I have developed this habit, and when sometimes, you don't explain, if the other party never knows the reason, I think you may miss some friends because of some misunderstandings, Maybe some people will think that it is not a friend who is missing, if you don't have fate, even if there is no misunderstanding, some other things will separate you, but what?

If it is explained, maybe there will be more opportunities to cherish some people! It was also some time ago, I agreed on something with others, and I didn't wait for the other party for a long time, the emotions at that time were really indescribable, and I didn't know how to comfort myself, I always felt that others didn't take themselves seriously, but when the other party came, at that time, although I didn't say anything, I also kept suppressing my emotions, so that my emotions didn't explode, so that I didn't say ugly things, but when the other party explained, I knew that he (she) really had other things at that time, or something more important than what I agreed on, I also said to myself, if I empathize, if it was me, I would also choose other things to do, Because the other thing is more urgent, I was not angry in an instant, and I didn't get angry, I understood the other party, and I also told myself, this is after listening to other people's explanations, I am not angry, if I never know why the other party broke the appointment, I think I will always be haunted, and after knowing, our friendship is still there, if not?

I really don't know what the consequences will be, do you just think that the other party doesn't value you and leave?

It's really hard to say, so, when explaining, you still have to explain, not everything needs to be explained, but at a certain time, in front of the people you care about, if the explanation can keep you from breaking up, if the explanation can make a relationship exist, if the explanation can resolve the contradiction, I think it's better to explain, if you don't explain, nothing will matter, then you don't need to explain, if you explain, it can have more effect, when it is necessary to explain, then explain it.