Chapter 1003 Can't Respond to People
As soon as Xue'er's father mentioned Sun Xiaodong, he said angrily: "I didn't agree from the beginning, because you had to be willing, and we could only let you! When you got married, didn't your grandfather always oppose it? What did you say at that time? Our family didn't want to? But what is your attitude? I remember that you made a fuss with us at the time, and now it's like this, who do you blame?"
Xue'er's face became ugly, in fact, she didn't make much trouble at that time, and she felt that her family didn't stop her helplessly, and said: "At that time, Sun Xiaodong was very good to me, when we first met, the monthly salary was only four or five hundred yuan, and all the money he earned was handed over to me, and he bought whatever I wanted, and he never asked! He didn't have too high requirements for me! But now people's hearts will change, how can they be like Dad and you have been consistent for decades! It's really difficult for people to maintain their hearts!"
Xue'er's father smiled helplessly when he heard this: "Actually, I saw that Sun Xiaodong didn't have you in his eyes at all, but you were everywhere in your eyes, so this is why Dad was reluctant in the first place, because I know you too well, you can put out the fire for his moths, but Sun Xiaodong may not give up everything for you! No matter how we oppose it at the time, we will be opposed by you! The more we oppose it, the more you will resist! We are afraid of what we will do if we hurt you, and in the end we can only let you go!"
Xue'er's mother heard this and said: "Now it seems that our opposition at that time was right, but you only had Sun Xiaodong in your heart at that time, and we were afraid of hurting you, so we could only let you... It's just that now you don't want to get married or have children, what do you want to do? Do you want to be a god?"
Xue'er's beautiful face was covered with black lines and she said angrily: "Afraid of hurting me? Isn't it hurting me now? How do I go home, why are you all in this tone and tone, can't you say something else? I think it's good to live alone, I buy myself an insurance, and then it's not bad to go to a nursing home when I'm old, and I save more money now to provide for my own retirement, and getting married will only make me more tired!"
Xue'er's father sighed and said helplessly when he heard this: "Daughter, you are still young and ignore our worries, and when I am old, I will still have you by my side to serve, you think that when I am old, a few of your sisters will pour tea and water in front of me, how happy I am! At least there is someone around you, and you think that when you are old, you are only surrounded by those nurses who work for money, can they treat you sincerely? Can they sincerely care about you? Can they take care of you with confidence and consideration like children, hmph! Don't even think about it!"
Xue'er also knew that her parents were also a little impatient and puffed up and said, "Heh, what if I give birth to a son and not a daughter, after the son gets married, he only cares about his own small family, how can he take care of the old one?"
Xue'er's mother was annoyed and said, "Xue'er, what do you mean by this? Why don't you know what your father does when you are not often at home? Your father has to go to your grandparents' place almost every day, and sometimes he will stay with your grandparents for a day or two, and your father will not go to your other uncles and uncles! Anyway, there must be no shortage of people at your grandparents' place every night, after all, you are old, and you are afraid that your grandparents will have three longs and two shorts! This is also the mood of children! Think about it, if you don't have children, who will ask you if you die at home, and say that your son is useless, I think my son is better than my daughter! There is no need to worry about anything, the son has the benefits of his son, and the daughter has the benefits of his daughter!"
Xue'er's mother looked at Xue'er silently and said lightly, "Daughter, what do you think happiness is?"
After hearing this, Xue'er said lightly: "We are used to understanding happiness as "having", having a car and a house, and having money and power. In fact, happiness should be "nothing". No worries, no illnesses, no worries! What do you say! Dad!"
Xue'er's father was confused by Xue'er's words, but he still responded, "What you said is the same, but I think happiness has a lot to do with having children, and having children can lead a carefree life, which is the happiness of life, you don't have a son and a half daughter in your life, that's the regret of life, isn't it?"
After hearing this, Xue'er's mother smiled helplessly and said: "I won't tell you, do you know what your father and mother's biggest regret is? That is, why are you not a boy? If you are a boy, your parents and I have no regrets, you still have to think about how to get married and have children, and live the ideal that a normal person should have! By the way, you don't know what your good sisters are?"
Xue'er didn't want to say that it was too good, she was afraid that her parents would continue to force her to get married, but she couldn't say it too badly, so she didn't want to say lightly to her sisters: "Good sisters are doing well, Jiajia now has children and her husband loves and is happy, but being forced by her mother-in-law to have a second child is annoying, Allure now has another baby, and it is still in the belly, which can be regarded as very affectionate, but it is very hard for no one to look at the child!"
Hearing this, Xue'er's father sighed helplessly and said: "Yes, you see how good it is for people to have one child after another, but what about you? Although he is tired now, you think that he will be very comfortable after his current sin when he reaches our age, and he can enjoy the blessings of his children, right?"
Xue'er's mother deliberately joked and said: "Well, look at the time you come back, don't you buy this and that for me and your father, you have done a lot of work at home, this is the benefit of children, if there is no you, I want our old couple to estimate the situation by ourselves, if you think about it, we have no children, when we are old and lying on the hospital bed, we can take care of each other, but if one of us dies first, what will we do if the other is lying on the bed?
Xue'er was very helpless about her parents' opinion and said angrily: "Now even if you have children who ask a nurse to take care of them, besides, they also have work to do, how can they serve you every day?"
Xue'er's father and Xue'er's mother were still helpless about Xue'er's cognition at this moment, and said with a smile indifferently: "Yes, you say so, it is true that children are busy with work, but if it really comes to the moment when parents are lying in bed and can't move, and there is no one around to take care of them, how can you rest assured that the nurse will take care of them, register, pay the physical condition of the elderly, do you want the caregiver to do it? Can you trouble others with these things? If you don't listen to the old man, you have already suffered a loss, do you have to suffer another loss?"
Xue'er's face became ugly when she heard this, and her tone became melancholy, and she said lightly: "Mom and Dad, you don't understand what I've been through all these years? Do you know what Sun Xiaodong did to me before his divorce? Dad, I also told you that he cheated, but you also came to talk to him for a long time at that time, don't you know what his attitude is?"
Xue'er's father said helplessly: "At that time, people just said that they would break off with that woman, and then live a good life with you, but what about you, you can't rub sand in your eyes, you have to divorce, what do you want to do after this marriage is divorced?"
Xue'er's pretty face was covered with black lines, and her tone was also desolate and indifferent and said with a wry smile: "Dad, do you know why I have to divorce? It's because I found out that Sun Xiaodong and that woman didn't break off contact at all! At that time, I was at work, I forgot to take something, and when I went home, I saw them together, I was very angry at that time, and slapped the woman in a fit of anger, but Sun Xiaodong directly gave me a slap, this is a matter between two women, Sun Xiaodong can choose neutrality!" He did something wrong and did this to me, tell me what kind of attitude I had at that time? Do I want to continue to be with him? I can't do it? Don't you think about how I have to feel good? How do you think I can live with such a person?"
Xue'er's mother was very unhappy when she heard this, and said angrily: "This marriage must be divorced, and my daughter has suffered such a big grievance, why didn't you just beat that kid and cripple it at that time?"
Xue'er's father was also confused and said, "Xue'er didn't tell me at the time, and I didn't know that they were so stiff... I also knew that Sun Xiaodong had done such an excessive thing, if that was the case, I had to break that stinky boy's leg at that time, and it would be too late to say anything now!"
Xue'er was afraid of her father's violent law enforcement at that time, and at that time, she also had Sun Xiaodong in her heart, so she chose to hide it, and at this time, her parents always questioned and blamed themselves, and they had to tell the truth as a last resort!
Xue'er looked at her parents and was very annoyed and said lightly: "Don't mention the past, don't I Weibo!"
Xue'er's mother was embarrassed and said: "You can not mention things in the past, but you tell your mother, what do you want to do? During this time, we heard that you have been on a blind date a lot, and your godfather also introduced one, so you broke up for some reason? What do you want to do?"
Xue'er smiled indifferently and said with a very ugly face: "Parents, I also want to find someone to live in peace, but God is teasing people, I can't find the right one to be disappointed again and again, my godfather introduces me to listen to my mother for everything, and my mother is particularly disgusted with divorced women, and has deep-rooted prejudices, such a home, I really passed it is naturally not good, and he always listens to his mother, so I would rather be arrogant and single now than go to the days when I am going to find someone to settle with!"
Xue'er's mother also turned ugly when she heard this, and said lightly: "What does that man do to you, if he really likes you, his parents are not worth mentioning, but why do you want to break up?
Xue'er said with a wry smile on her face: "Yes, I listen to my mother for everything, saying that I have me in my heart, and that's not wholeheartedly, if I want to find someone who has me wholeheartedly, but the appearance must also be passed, you can't look at the diaphragm!"