We have a new lotus park here, which I have never been to before, I don't know why, maybe I have never liked to travel, so I have no interest in this kind of play. www.biquge.info A business trip, passing through the gate of this park, many colleagues couldn't help but be curious, so they discussed with the driver, just go down to take a look, will not delay too long, will not let the driver wait too long, so they went to the park gate to look into the park, because they have to pay a ticket to enter, so they just look at it from a distance, a feast on the eyes to be content. At that time, it was just me and the driver sitting in the car waiting for their arrival, the reason was that it was too hot, I felt that it was not worth braving the heat to see the lotus flower, it was noon, I couldn't open my eyes, so I didn't bother to look at it, this may be my character.

This is the first time I passed by the gate of this park, or once, my friend's proposal, said that I want to go to the Lotus Park to see, let me accompany him, I cherish this friend, but I still have no choice but to be lazy, I am really afraid of the sun shining on my body, that feeling is much more uncomfortable than traveling. I had rejected him, citing the weather, but at noon I met a classmate on the way home who had not seen her for a long time, this classmate heard the news, she was very happy, because she is a travel freak, and has a special interest in flowers, grasses, insects and fish, every time she travels she will spend a lot of time to take pictures of these things, in addition to taking pictures or taking pictures, in fact, she may not really care about and enjoy the scenery here in her heart, maybe photography is her greatest happiness, these scenes are just her materials。

I couldn't help her repeated requests, I still reluctantly agreed to play with them, the weather was very hot at that time, the highest temperature at noon was 38 degrees, so we chose to set off at more than 3 o'clock, after all, our road is not far, she and I rode a motorcycle all the way to set off, the smoothest thing along the way is that the road is very smooth, only one bridge is collapsed, we had to slow and slow detour through this bridge, we are not familiar with the road, delayed a lot of time, but the distance is not very far, or arrived after 30 minutes, we agreed to meet at the gate of the park, that my friend, he went by carThere is nothing special in that park, because I have seen many tourist attractions in China that are almost the same, just like all the railway stations in China, except for the sign on the railway station hanging high above the place name, there is still no special place that can make you easily distinguish which city this is, and the tourist attractions are the same, there is nothing special, that is, they are all the same.

There are many antiques sold at the entrance of the tourist attraction, and there are also many snacks sold, perhaps this is the characteristic of the attraction. We bought tickets, tickets are not expensive, but there are many attractions inside, there are still tourist attractions in tourist attractions, and the zoo inside still has to pay tickets, and it is not very cost-effective. Tickets are very interesting, a ticket can be exchanged for a popsicle, because this is the characteristics and care of people in the summer, I deeply feel that such a promotion is very creative, but many of us don't know the big summer, the hottest day is not to eat cold food, because it is not good for the body, this is the truth, but many people, I don't know whether I don't know such common sense or can't help the heat and irritability in my heart, many of us choose popsicles, such old popsicles in the 38 degree high temperature weather, seems to be the best comfort to the soul。

I also know this common sense, but I can't stand the hot weather, so I just eat a popsicle, but I won't get sick now, and I'll talk about it later, I'm very disappointed in my mood, why can't I be tenacious in the face of such temptation, but was conquered by a popsicle in an instant. This is human beings, and when they need it most, the hunger and thirst of their hearts can change the truths and beliefs that they think are most correct.

I looked down on myself a little, leaving only a light smile.

The scenery design there is still good, just enter the door and you can see a magnificent Bodhisattva statue, such a Bodhisattva is sitting on a lotus flower, this design is very creative, and it may also be the landmark building of this scenic spot. So eye-catching, so magnificent, so convincing beauty. A lot of tourists are taking photos here in this Bodhisattva, and I am the same as others, we are all taking photos here in this landmark building, and when we come, we take photos here when we go back, which means saying goodbye, starting with this building, or ending with this building.

All afternoon, the sweat didn't dry, it was really hot, and I was still walking around in such a park, and the few lotus ponds here were still very beautiful, and there were many lotus flowers in them, one by one, clustered, really spiritual, such a long stem, standing upright, rushing to grow on it, so vigorous and energetic. The lotus pond is very large, it is said that the Hong Kong investors at that time invested a lot of money, for this park, so the park built still has a certain appreciation value, the lotus in the pool has ordinary lotus, the lotus blooming season, there are budding flowers, there are already opened like that, there are also blooming failures, and flower buds, I don't know how much time to see, just a flower there, the same flower, also a flower, the flowering period is not a period, they have some early, some late, just like people, the same people, the season of flowering and fruiting is not the same, such as children of the same age What is not as strong as children of the same ageThey don't know that people and flowers are the same, there are early and late flowering periods, even if it is a flower that will not bloom, maybe it is a big tree? How can you force all the flowers to open together? Isn't it difficult for strong people? People are the same, as long as you do your best, there is no need to force yourself to be ahead of others in everything, so sooner or later you will tire yourself to death, as long as you live your own characteristics.

There are also water lilies, such water lilies are more delicate than ordinary lotuses, more green, but they are indeed a piece of green, one by one, such a large piece looks very vibrant, but there are no flowers, not even the flower bones I want to see, but their leaves are extraordinarily special, only in such a pool can we see the eternal green, that kind of vigorous momentum, is the realm and spirit that I yearn for and worship, but when I took it down and wrote it on my WeChat, ready to save it for a lifetime, just sent it to WeChat, a friend of mine accidentally changed his WeChat avatar, I was just the second monk at all, I didn't know what was going on, and then I figured out that her head was a lotus, this behavior seemed to offend her, and later I found out that I was wrong, but it was too late, I didn't even have a chance to apologize, some things are like this, wrong is wrong, but when we know that we are wrong, God may not give us the opportunity to explain, not to mention what can we explain? So in many cases, some of our unintentional words and actions will hurt others, although we know that we don't mean to, but when others are sad, we don't also feel sad, in fact, such things are not necessary, and they are unpreventable, in the days to come, I still learned to talk as little as possible, try not to hurt others because of some small things, so that I can live happily.

Life is like this, there are a lot of thoughts between people, and what we don't think of doesn't mean that others won't think like that, so what we can do is to abide by our hearts and behaviors, but to be tolerant of others, just like Confucius said, that kind of proverb is always the truth.

After seeing a large lotus pond, what I felt the most was that the lotus flowers there were really beautiful, but the only fly in the ointment was that there were a lot of mineral water bottles in the lotus pond, which made me think that people's quality has really declined, the city has developed, and the material culture of the Chinese has developed greatly, but the spiritual world of the Chinese is very lacking, they have not noticed that even their spiritual level has been improved while developing the economy, this situation makes me very worried, such a big country, why people do not pay attention to their own cultivation and quality at allBesides, such cultivation and quality are also the basic qualities necessary for a nation, and without such basic qualities, even if the building is noble, in the end, what will be left to others can only be naked ridicule of us, and an outcome that even we dare not think of will appear in front of the people sooner or later.

In a country like China, our world is developing rapidly, but in the land where we are located, few people are really reading, they never want to know how deep their knowledge is, they only pay attention to whether they are richer than others, this ideology does not know when it was formed, but we can not change the belief that money is the most important bargaining chip in our lives, no knowledge can, but no money means that we are nothing, we feel that we have no money, we can't hold our heads up in front of others, not to mention how others can look up to usThe trend caused by such psychology is that we are all tired on our faces, we are all working hard for money, we are all working hard for interests, so that I can't be worse than others, and I can stand on my own. Such thoughts are increasingly taking a serious toll on our lives.

For money, a lot of unexpected things happen, a lot of people, unscrupulous means are just for money, in fact, I think there is no need at all, our inner voice will tell us what is the most correct choice, our love, friendship, family affection? When one day, you are lost under the red of the city, you know what you should cherish the most, what we should not pursue in our lives has become the theme of our lives and the object of pursuit, such ideas and social reality do not know how terrible it is for us.

In that kind of lotus pond, I seem to see human nature, see such a soul that does not pay attention to the protection of the environment, maybe you will quibble, we are paid to buy tickets, just like buying things in the mall, we pay for the uncle, we have to buy our own satisfactory goods, we can do what we want, a pair of uncles and sons who others can't control, as well as their most narcissistic miss, here can reflect their own value, but really, it seems that everyone has accepted this concept, if you really throw away the garbage, no one will say you, no one blames you, and no one reminds you, afraid of destroying your good mood of travel, in this case, a person thrown, no one said, everyone behind for the convenience of drinking water casually put the bottle in the lotus pond, such a pool, floating is the holy lotus, but also floating a mineral water bottle, with such a colorful embellishment, there is also an ugly symbol, when we walk from here, I don't know if I want to see such a flower, but by such a few inconspicuous mineral water bottles to get no interest at all.

At that time, I really wished I was a staff member of this park, and from now on, maybe from the moment I realized the problem, to take action, to tell people to protect such beauty, I counted the mineral water bottles one by one, which seemed to be more energetic than I counted the lotus flowers like that, I reached out and probed, and I couldn't even reach the nearest water bottle, they were so far away from me, I don't know why, I suddenly felt that I was so useless, why I couldn't do anything.

I endured the discomfort in my heart, so that I pretended to be happy and continued to enjoy the flowers with my friends, where the lotus flowers passed and there were a lot of children's playgrounds and toys, perhaps to attract tourists, many tourists are bringing their own princes or princesses to come, on such holidays, to give their children a little chance to relax. But the design and layout of the park I saw, a large area there is a children's play area, so I have more casinos, and the lotus flowers are so inconspicuous. I'm really sorry for the name, but now it occurred to me that in order to generate revenue, people still have a focus.

I am deeply confused and uncomfortable with such a layout, I do not dare to be dissatisfied with such a building, because after all, people are paying for it, for economic interests, of course, in order to create the greatest cost performance, not simply to plant some lotus flowers for others to see, people are not doing public welfare, nor are they engaged in the hope project, such a large investment in a not very developed area like ours, it is simply a luxury, for us has been precious, what else can we desire? It is better to be content and happy, so that you can feel the joy of nature and life.

But seeing such a park, seeing the scenery in front of me I still like the more natural lotus, those flowers buried deep in the water called lotus, is edible, a long time ago, maybe when we were young, we always had some wild lotus roots by the river, I myself didn't figure out where the original seeds came from, whether people deliberately sprinkled there, or where people accidentally fell where, no one knows, or wild, the standard of living at that time was not good, we had a lot of times without vegetables to eat, at night is a bowl of porridge plus a steamed bun to solve the food and clothing of a mealAt that time, we could only eat valuable dishes at noon lunch, or expensive dishes could not be eaten, we could only eat some of the cheapest dishes in the market, at that time everyone was generally poor, I clearly remember, there was an old lady in our village here every time she saw the cabbage seller, she looked around, of course she had no money to sell vegetables, she was waiting for the vegetable seller to peel off the rotten vegetable leaves, said that she went back to feed the pigs, in fact, when she went back, she tore off the bad leaves, and the other parts could still be made do with the stir-fried vegetables, and the taste of some spices covered those rotten tastes, which were enough for a family mealThis is perhaps the happiest thing for a family, after all, it is much better than no food. I was the same at the time, but I was very resistant to such behavior, and we were stubborn that we would rather not have food to eat than do such an undignified thing.

At that time, our main dish was wild vegetables, always digging some wild wild vegetables in the field, eating or relishing, at that time I don't know if we were still young, or what the reason, we struggled between life and death, struggling between food, clothing and hunger, but we were very content, I remember clearly, at that time we had wild lotus roots here at all no one wanted, we always waited for the lotus flowers to bloom and failed, and waited for the water in the pool to dry up, before digging lotus roots, many people in the village went to dig, and I didn't know how many such ingredients and delicious foods there were, I was still young at that time, my mother never took me there, always they adults went together, Our children are playing in groups at the door of the house, everyone's dinner at night should be the same, boil such a lotus root with boiling water, and then adjust it with oil and seasonings, it seems to be a cold dish, we all like such dishes, everyone is such a meal at night, but no matter what kind of meal there is enough time, about 4/ After 5 days of hard work, I don't like to eat such lotus roots, just like now, we don't even like to eat meat, we complain every time about how bad life is now, in fact, we look back and think about it, when we don't have food and are hungry, we know that we are so lucky to have food to eat; when we have food to eat, we seem to be tired of a lot of food, when we eat meat every day, but we still feel that life is still not good, do we have to go through the life of suffering again before we will cherish the beauty of the presentMany people say that we used to live very hard, but we are all happy, because we are all the same poor, now we are very rich, we have cars, but we are not as happy as before, because the distance between us is getting bigger and bigger, we are afraid that we are backward, we are afraid that we are not as good as others, this kind of life belief makes us very tired, very hard, but the result does not know what will happen, maybe not ideal, because most of us are the same, China has gradually evolved into a social form like Japan, that is, an M-shaped society, we work hard, but we may not be able to succeed, this is largely not our own decision, but reality is destined, don't complain, don't be discouraged, don't be disappointed, don't be sad, live in the moment, just work hard, just do your best. We are often lost in our greed, forgetting what we used to be, maybe any kind of life is life, the key is how we treat life and our life, there is no need to set ourselves in our own limited cage, the trap we set for ourselves.

Playing in such a park, I think a lot, people are thoughtful, conscious, I can't stop my thoughts and ideas, of course, the brain is born to think, when there are no ideas, we don't know what we will be like, we don't know who we are in the future, we don't know ourselves, we don't know ourselves, don't blame others for not understanding ourselves. There are a lot of children's paradises in this garden, there are also the best places to rest, there are leisure benches, a few of our friends sat there to rest for a while, I am still complacent about my little cleverness, the weather is too hot, a few of us are almost sweaty for an hour, and so on at 5 o'clock almost 6 o'clock, the day is gradually not so hot, a few of us began to set off again, continue the journey below, at this time a few of our itinerary is still not even half, the scenery on the ticket has 4 like that, because it is not night, our tickets did not see anything, 10 yuan just into the door fee, but the current money of 10 is not so unacceptably sky-high.

The happiest thing is that the three of us took a yacht, not because of how attractive the yacht is, the key is that we are three adults and we don't know what kind of things are suitable for us, children play mostly, adults can only play the Ferris wheel, Roller coaster, but because we are all in our 30s, it seems that the guts decline inversely with age, we really don't dare to try that kind of dangerous and exciting game, although I used to be a very adventurous and special person, I was impressed by such amusement projects in front of me, in fact, people will change, feelings will change, interests and preferences will also change, not convinced, so when we believe that everything is not the way it used to be, we don't have to be deliberately sad, gladly accept it, whether it is feelings or other things, change is changed, what can be left is life, is the true love of the world。

When taking the yacht, the three of us together, originally this yacht should be a seat for 4 people, this is the smallest yacht, but there are only three of us, so we have to sit like this, we are going to pedal walking, the three of us don't know how to divide the labor, so in order to protect the weak, many times we have the urge to protect the weak, this time is no exception, one of the three of us is very thin, so we let her, did not let her do manual work, but we pedaled away, she sat on it, at that time I also jokingly said: "The owner was on the boat and we served the owner. ”

Such a noble lady is what we respect, in fact, we are friends, I am just talking. Who knew that everyone liked to listen to good and obedient words, she was happy, and we laughed for this joke of mine. Whether it's with someone you're familiar with, or with someone you're not familiar with, don't spoil someone else's good mood, don't destroy someone's fun and self-esteem, that would be a happy thing, sometimes we want to say something practical, tell the truth to others, but often in many times do not necessarily get that kind of benefit, many people don't like to listen to that, even if it is between friends, a lot of friendship may be ruined in one sentence, such a situation is not uncommon. So we still respect others and don't spoil their good mood.

On the boat, we saw the green aquatic plants, although the water in the pool is not clear, but we can still see the underwater world, such aquatic plants are erected, there seems to be a fish in it, I tried to catch a fish out, but after a long time, it still did not succeed, such a thing seems to have some difficulties. So in the end, I gave up, and sometimes we really can't reach that level of what we think about ourselves, and all that is left for me is helplessness.

It was starting to get dark, and I wanted them to stay and watch the water screen movie together, and it happened to be the preliminary round of the music festival that day, but because of home, what about a friend? He also has to go to Shenyang on a business trip, we are afraid that he will not be able to catch the train in Shenyang, or send him away as soon as possible, we also set out to start going home, but the luck is not very good, when I was just going home, I don't know what happened, my motorcycle was unexpectedly unable to start, which made me anxious, I was really anxious, I didn't know what to do, when I came it was obviously good, but when I went back, it was an accident that went wrong, it was a vendor who set up a stall to help me see the car, I gave him a tip, although not much, but it was still worthy of his labor, but the accident of the car went wrong, and then he was unexpectedly trying to escapeHe didn't want to be responsible for the car, and I really regretted it at that time, I couldn't believe such a peddler, let alone someone I didn't know?

Fortunately, my friend knew a little bit about the engine, he slowly groped for a while, and made such a machine well, we went home as fast as possible, the road was dark, it was also a rural road, although it was an asphalt road, but there was still no street light, we had to borrow the light of the motorcycle to coil on such a small road, 9:30 p.m. Kung Fu finally arrived home, a tiring day, but not very happy.

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