Everyone may have heard that most of the white-collar workers in the metropolis are capable people, and most of them are people who don't want to get married, on the one hand, they also know the inconvenience of getting married, that is, it is a waste of their time, especially those who do business, why they don't want to get married is also for a reason, when I really get married, I also know the bad things about getting married, so I envy those white-collar workers who are not married, these people not only have strong executive ability, but also have a strong ability to be alone。

Some people, they are born with the ability to be alone, I have also seen such people, they don't like the tediousness of two people together, they don't like to get married, in fact, when I experience it myself, I know that two people together, in addition to being able to relieve the sadness in their hearts, and the loneliness in their hearts, there is nothing else, two people chat together, and even for both parties to be a companion, but those who are alone, they have a strong ability to be alone, they are not afraid of the loneliness of a person's time alone, nor are they afraid of the emptiness of a person's time alone, in this alone time, although two people can't be together to relieve each other's inner loneliness, but what about after that?

During the time they were alone, they slowly developed a habit of independence, and slowly achieved their own abilities and increased their bargaining chips in their careers.

I have also observed a lot of people, when two people are together, most of their time is wasted on eating, drinking and having fun, when they have children, not to mention, as if all this is destined to be a symbol of mediocrity, in fact, there are also some people whose families are very happy, the family is very warm together, and the career is also prosperous, after all, such people are a minority, those who can be in a high position, most of them have a strong ability to be alone, can silently endure loneliness, can be in a lonely moment, at the beginning, they may not be able to bear, but have experienced many times of pain and loneliness and even loneliness to the bones of the washingAfter a long time, they will slowly get used to the days of being alone, and in the days of being alone, they will have more time to focus on what they want to do, and their special ability to be alone is also the result of cultivation for a long period of time.

And we ordinary people, we are all in line with our hearts, lonely, just get together with friends, we don't have more time to be alone, no more time to cultivate ourselves, in a lot of time, what are we doing, we are immersed in supermarkets, bars, KTV, shopping malls, and even after husband and wife are together, those gossip life, in such a time, time keeps passing, year by year, slowly time passes like this, we are also aging like this, and those who have concentration will be in the time alone, cultivate their own quality, cultivate their own ability, so, I thinkPeople who are alone will have a greater chance of success, and those white-collar workers in big cities, they don't get married, and they don't have those trivial things between families, just a person, just a space for their own solitude, so I think people like them, single, unmarried people, have a strong ability to be alone, in such a solitary time, slowly become stronger, become successful, and all this has become a reality in our unconsciously, and we, ordinary people, are destined to be ordinary for a lifetime, so the result is that what is chosen, what is doomed。