Find your most essential thing

I went to watch the film when I had nothing to do in the evening, and it turned out that tonight's film was "Return to the Wolves", I took a cursory look at the introduction, it was not a thriller, such a thriller is about the beautiful painter Li Weiyi who accidentally adopted the orphan of the wolf king in a grassland collection, named it Green, and brought back the CD to feed.

But the bustling city could not accommodate a wild steppe wolf, Li Weiyi took Green back to the grassland, followed the traces of the wolves all the way, and finally watched it successfully return to the wolves after severe cold and snow.

Although the plot of such a film is very simple, but it gives me a lot of insights, first of all, it is a wolf, in the process of living with people, gradually changing its most essential things, whether it is other creatures or people, I have heard of wolf children before, if a child lives with wolves since childhood, there will be some wolf characteristics, and those wolves always live with people, there will be human characteristics, this is normal, but after a long time, the hero and heroine in the film want to return the wolf to the wolf pack, because such a wolf has no nature at all, and gradually learned to bark, learned the characteristics of some other creatures, no matter what kind of creature it is, it should have its own nature, this is the protagonist's point of view, so she tried her best to send Green away, in fact, she saw that the relationship between Green and the heroine in the film was really good, the heroine has always called Green son, healed it when Green was injured, and Green had many intimate behaviors, but in the end she still let Green go to Wolf Mountain to live, such a wolf, it is really worrying to become not afraid of people, its relationship with people is too close.

In the past, I always thought that humans and wolves were a pair of creatures that could not be harmonious at all, but in the film, I found that in fact, as long as it is a living thing, it has feelings, if you are good to others, others will be good to you, it can be exchanged like this, only a few of them are the stories of farmers and snakes, but there are very few such stories.

I've been thinking that she loves Green so much, that's why she wants to send it away and let it go back to its true nature, to find its most essential thing, instead of living like a human being, which is terrible.

Green slowly learned to howl wolves, learn to forget the barking of dogs, I want to say that people are the same, in many environments can learn a lot of skills, but those are the skills and specialties that belong to others, even if we learn, it can only be four different, nothing, you say, you are a wolf, even if you bark well, then like a dog, but you are still not a dog, this is an essential difference, and your most essential is the wolf howl, why not?

Because this wolf lived with people when he was young, he learned a lot of feelings and tenderness for people, but it is still not its most essential thing.

What is the use of what it learns? If it really learns well, a pack of dogs walking together, with a wolf in the middle, what is it like?

It's too illogical, things gather like people and divide them into groups. What it should be is what it is, just like us human beings, some people are originally very arrogant, but sometimes they don't pay attention to what they say, they will say some incredible words, and then they are ridiculed by others or different from others, they feel that they are wrong, so they hurry up to correct it, and there are some people, who are originally very gentle and kind people, but they feel that society is very complicated, so they are afraid that they will be deceived, and then they begin to learn not to be kind, and start to learn from others, this is to integrate into society, we are afraid that we are isolated, but can we not forget our most essential thingsWhat kind of person are you, what kind of person are you?

As long as your heart is good and your intentions are good, who will accuse you? Even if you are accused, it is good to have a clear conscience, there is no need to change yourself from head to toe, just to adapt to others, this is too difficult for yourself.

In fact, even if we are all the same kind and human, there are differences, and I have been watching "Ode to Joy 2" recently , Qu Xiaoxuan and Dr. Zhao broke up, the reason for the breakup is very simple, it's not that the two don't love each other, but Qu Xiaoxuan doesn't want Dr. Zhao to change himself, Dr. Zhao and Qu Xiaoxuan are people with different personalities, but they don't tolerate it all the time, if it goes on like this, Qu Xiaoxuan is really afraid that Dr. Zhao will not change the original Dr. Zhao, not the appearance that Qu Xiaoxuan likes, in fact, it is true, what is the essence of a person is what it is, and after being with someone for a long time, he will change himself to adapt to each other, because for the sake of feelings, for the sake of two people getting along, but if the other party is really for your good, It will make you find your most essential thing, I suddenly feel that there are some slight similarities between these two films, it is such a story, Qu Xiaoxuan gave up her feelings for Dr. Zhao, which is actually very touching, just like "Return to the Wolves" The heroine of the film on the film separated from Green for Green, and let Green return to the wolf pack, she was also afraid that the other party would change her nature for herself, so she let it go back, teach it wolf howl, let it and the wolf pack signal, and so on A lot of details are moving us all the time, for each other, and give up their feelings, it is really a greatness, when she saw those wolf teeth, she still realized that there were a lot of people fighting wolves, encircling wolves, at this time her kind of worry, it was enough to show her feelings, she had feelings for Green, or wanted to see if Green was still alive, and deliberately told GreenWhen you meet someone, you have to run hard, don't look back, because you are afraid of death, or hope that Green can live well, this is really a great love, compared to those who bind each other for the sake of feelings, it is really a different kind of life.

Let's talk about the sensitive words

"Leftover women", such a word I have heard many times before, but when I read a book at night, I found that in the book "Not Afraid of the Future and Not Remembering the Past" written by Twelve, I saw such a word, and I made a new discovery

"Leftover women" arrived

"Shengnu" actually needs a process, in such a process, there are some people who want to live a good life by themselves, and those women who buy cars and houses with their own ability can also buy brands for themselves, but they are using their own bonuses.

But they can't resist the worldly concept, many people will think so big, afraid of other people's strange eyes and give up being single, choose to be a good wife and mother, ask their hearts, can they really be such a good wife and mother?

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"Leftover women" arrived

On the road of "winning girl", you have changed your original intention? People have their own original intentions and essences, or find their own most essential things, but the Bole that can prompt you to always exist in the essence of your heart?