In life, I have always had an indissoluble bond with my students, every time I have different contacts with them, sometimes I feel that many times, we are no longer together, and they were also my students, and I am still teachers, some of them are still studying, and some have gone to society, and I still contact them, not necessarily for any reason, and then I found out that although I am a teacher, I did not put up a teacher's shelf for them.

Today, a student suddenly asked me, we have a class reunion tomorrow, we invite you to participate, in fact, sometimes we find that they sometimes do a lot of things are still very cute, although they are only one or twenty years old young people, although they are still just entering the society, but nothing can wipe out their enthusiasm, enthusiasm for life, enthusiasm for work, enthusiasm for the people around them.

In fact, I also want to get together with those students in the past, and sometimes I find that I don't have the ability to organize such a party, but this time I just had such an opportunity and I also wanted to participate, so I agreed to them, I will go tomorrow, and I will also redeem money in advance, I also took out my money and gave it to them.

Although they said that they didn't want my money, they finally accepted it happily under my persuasion.

Listen to them, today they also invited a few other teachers, but no one replied to them, in fact, I don't know what kind of situation they are, when they were colleagues in the past, they were also very familiar with us, but, after a few years to get together again, they may really be because of the summer vacation, each has their own things, they may also really because of the distance can not come here, in fact, we also knew that there was a teacher, her home is out of town, although she is very good to our colleagues and classmates, but because her home is far away, if she is here at homeI think it will take a lot of time, and that time, her mother also told us that most of the wages they earn are spent on travel expenses, although it is a bit exaggerated, but it may as well reveal the hidden secrets.

At that time, because her child was just born, her mother-in-law came here, that is, to the school, to help take care of the child, because at that time she and her husband were from our school, so when the mother-in-law came to take the child, she also felt that the school was far away from their home every time, so when she took a car, he said something like this, in fact, there is a short distance from the school to their house, and it will take several hours to take the car, so although it is not to say, no, all the money is spent on the road fee, but the money and time spent on the road fee is also a lot。

So at this party, the students didn't invite the teacher, I think it's understandable, because it's summer vacation, she is at home with her family, or there are other kinds of things waiting for her to deal with, all kinds of things, waiting for her to be busy.

However, when students make such an invitation, I can't refuse them, and I think I should still go to their meetings, but I also have various concerns, especially if I go to their meetings as a teacher, they will be a little restrictive.

When participating in activities, I think, I can still play with them, sometimes I find that I am such a teacher, every time I can always be with students, always want to play with them, what kind of mentality should it be, in fact, many people feel that when college graduates participate in work, they can mingle with students, because they have a positive and enthusiastic work, because they are newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, such a mentality！

But then I found out that I have been working for several years, but every time I still want to play with my students, every time I still want to get along with my students, what kind of mentality should this be?

Sometimes, I don't think I'm their teacher, I'm even more of their friend, and in such a reality, some classmates have also contacted me many times, talking about all kinds of problems, and sometimes I have slowly learned about their lives, although they have graduated, they are no longer the students I am teaching, but have entered the society, they will also have all kinds of things, sometimes they will also tell me their hardships or their hearts, I am also slowly enlightening them to develop in a better direction。

In fact, in life, many people feel that there is a big difference between status and no status, especially the dignity of people and people's status, some people will feel that the teacher is the teacher, the student is the student, if the distance is too close, it will not get the respect of the student, in fact, sometimes I found out that it is not necessarily the case, although the student is very close, but slowly they become the best friends after they are sensible, which is also a good choice, and sometimes I will not because I am a teacher and hold up the teacher's shelf and the student has a deep generation gap, which is very bad。

Although this is just my own opinion, but then I also think that being able to get along with students well, being able to be friends with students is a good relationship, and some teachers always feel that teachers should take on the teacher's shelf, should have a little majesty, in fact, I think in front of the students, there should be majesty when there should be majesty, when it is time to be reasonable, we must explain the reason clearly, and can become friends, when we get along, we must get along with students well, this time is my personal opinion, but then I also feel that I can be with students, be able to listen to them, what kind of heart words are said every timeSometimes, although I am also a teacher, but I don't necessarily have my own students who know more knowledge, sometimes I find that students in a few years of social experience, they also slowly understand a lot of truth, but also slowly understand all kinds of realities in society, they will still have a sense of respect for teachers, this is what I feel in the process of getting along with them, and I don't feel that they disrespect me, because slowly they have become adults and understand things, so I will still get along with my students, this is my approach and opinion。