That night I watched the movie out, the time was still early, we chatted with our classmates at the door of the movie theater, the weather on this day was really very cooperative, the weather was very cool, the wind was blowing, as if it was going to rain, but it still didn't rain, it was very cool, we didn't think it would talk for a long time, just chatting while enjoying the coolness, suddenly a teenager rushed to us, saying that he wanted to borrow a phone, or very eager to say, can you answer your mobile phone to make a call?

He asked for help from my husband at the time, I was next to me, the first concept in my mind was prevention, that kind of defensive psychology I am afraid to think about now, my classmate's expression was also stunned, she didn't say anything, I also know what she was thinking in her heart, I also completely felt that I had a mobile phone in the past, and my husband could not be contacted, when I needed to contact urgently, borrowed someone else's mobile phone, no one lent me at that time, but I didn't think at this time that I borrowed a mobile phone was very difficult to borrow, no one wanted to lend me, if it was really such a thing, I should remember my own scene, I'll sympathize with him, he should be in a hurry, but I don't think so, I still have a lot of messy thoughts, what kind of person is this boy, it's so late, it's already 11:30 in the evening, what is he going to do by borrowing the phone?

Who is the call? What kind of person is the other party? Is the mobile phone number I called a pyramid scheme or a fee-absorbing software, I thought a lot about it, and we were also very surprised how to deal with such a situation, why do I have such a strong defensive mentality?

But I really think like this, when I don't understand others, I still can't judge the character of the other party, and sometimes something happens that can make us unbearable, and it can make us vomit blood, which is unimaginable.

I still hold the idea that more things are better than less things, and I want to refuse for my husband, strangers are close if he has accomplices, so it is difficult to say, but my husband is also kind, and actually agreed, and said, it's okay to call by phone, but I'll call you, you say the phone number.

Husband, he is generally a very safe person, but there are times when the problem is not comprehensive, this is inevitable, who will not have a loophole, I just watched from the side, this boy also agreed, just like that, he at least can't snatch his husband's mobile phone, and then turn around and run, besides, the three of us are together, it shouldn't be.

I didn't remember any of the phone numbers he said, I was still thinking about it in a daze, I didn't know what kind of person the other party was, but when I heard my husband call, no one answered, and my husband said, I'll help you send a message to him, he knew it when he saw the message, at this time, the boy also agreed, at this time I knew what he was going to say was, after he watched the movie, his father said that he was going to pick him up, but after reading it, he didn't see his father's figure, so he made a call, he at this time, we also got along for almost 5 minutes, and there was not so much vigilance against each other, He also told us that his father didn't answer maybe he didn't hear it, he came to see the movie, his father went to KTV to sing, at this time, it was normal not to hear, after sending a message or no response, the little boy left, we still continued to chat, wait for a while, the other party did ask you to call me what to do, etc., asked a lot to know that it was the child looking for him just now, and said to let him pick him up or something, that person seemed to be a little defensive about the unfamiliar mobile phone number just now, and said some nonsense, my husband has been there to explain for a long time before he heard the meaning, saying that he would pick him up immediately。

But we didn't see the boy in a blink of an eye. But after such a phone call, I can indeed be sure that this boy did encounter a problem, out of the door of the movie theater found that he didn't see his father, so he wanted to answer the phone to call his father, in fact, it was such a simple thing, but I thought a lot, I don't know why I think so much, why there are so many subconscious fears and rejections, I am really afraid that I will be deceived, after this incident, I feel that I have such a strong defensive psychology why, I also slowly understand which time before, my mobile phone is out of battery, they dare not lend me the reason for the mobile phoneI'm also afraid that strangers will come into close contact and drug me or something, what about them?

They are also afraid that they can understand their impersonal feelings only after experiencing it themselves.

That time, I bought a mobile phone charger in a mobile phone store, and then discussed it with the salesperson, she was still good, after all, I didn't pose any threat to her, just said that the phone was placed on her counter to charge, and she agreed.

At that time, my husband still complained to me, saying that I didn't charge the battery before going out and so on, and said that I should pay attention to it in the future, and when I went out, the phone was fully charged, so that it was convenient to connect, and I was also deeply taught.

Because many times we can't tell what's true and what's false.

And many times, we don't want to provoke strangers for our own safety, and we even ignore the deepest truth of our hearts, because we don't dare, and what is the reason for this?

There are too many mixed people in this society, what pyramid schemes, what direct sales, what murderers, what robberies, what organ trafficking, these all exist, think about it makes us afraid, we don't dare?

We would rather not do good deeds and not be good people, just to keep our possessions. I said deeply to myself, good people are difficult to do, although we still want to do some good things in many cases, dedicate their love, and help others more, but such strangers we have such a strong defensive psychology, after such a thing, I know how strong my defensive psychology is, I know how tightly my so-called security consciousness wraps itself.

Many of us are not like this, we also want to be good people, do good deeds, do something to help others within our ability, but we just can't afford to take this risk.