58. Visible and Invisible Great Pressure (1)

"Mom, don't go to the court for everything to be seen by others. ”

"Okay, I want to go to the court now, but I can't do it, but it's all mixed up by this surnamed Han. She muttered, she didn't have time to talk to Qin He, so she locked the door before he reacted, and went out again.

Qin He felt that he couldn't talk about his mother, but he didn't think about him calling "Mom" with his mouth open and closed, on the surface he was helpless, but in fact, he felt a sense of relaxation in his heart. It's the kind of relaxation that you really should do something, but you don't know how to do it, and someone happens to do it for you, although you know that your mother is not enough to succeed and more than she can lose.

To this day, he still thinks that with his physical condition, the best way to express his love for Shen Xi is to leave her as soon as possible, don't drag her down, the sooner the better. With his understanding of Shen Xi, Shen Xi will not ask for money, she is a high-minded and self-loving girl, like a gardenia blooming in the alley in summer, delicate and pure, and will never be dusted by vulgarity, talking about money with her is a blasphemy against her.

How could Qin He understand the difficulty of people being trapped in vulgarity.

After graduating, his career developed smoothly, and even the money squeezed out of his teeth could meet Xiaohe's daily expenses. Because the family has real estate, there is no pressure to repay the loan, the two-story small western-style building is comparable to a villa, so I never blush at the fact that others live in a big house, I can afford to buy what I want to buy, and it doesn't matter if I can't afford it, I spend my money as I want, and I don't value money.

He has never suffered from having no money. He has romantic feelings for marriage and family, and he uses his own views to atone for the "sins" he has committed, and he is locked here, to a certain extent, he is liberated.

Li Po complained in front of Shi Changxin that she didn't make enough, and ran to the kindergarten to make trouble, but she was still like that, and she cried when she met someone. From hoping that the court would come up with a material to shock Shen Xi, to writing anonymous letters, to Mingren not doing dark things, and generously accusing Shen Xi, the means are getting worse and worse, and her control psychology is getting stronger and stronger.

She is not the kind of person who can restrain her temper for the sake of the purpose, anyway, she tore her face and simply let it go.

She didn't feel that what she was doing was inappropriate at all, she thought that she was starting an important "family defense war", and if she couldn't control Shen Xi by other methods, she would use "administrative means" to find a leader!

"Teacher Shen, are you tired?" asked Teacher Xue in the same office. During the children's lunch break, Shen Xi told her aunt to watch, went back to the office, and perfected the courseware of the sex education course that was rushed out overnight. That is, this Teacher Xue often says that Zhao Xin is optimistic about Shen Xi, and the relationship between Teacher Xue and his in-laws is also tense, especially with his father-in-law, so he understands Shen Xi's situation and will not talk about family conflicts.

Shen Xi raised his head and held his cheeks and smiled dryly.

"Hey, Mr. Shen, has your Xiaohe attended an English training class?"

"Nope. ”

Because of the convenience of work, Xiaohe went to this bilingual kindergarten, and her English was good since she was a child, and her exam results were acceptable after she went to primary school, and Shen Xi never had the idea of sending her to an English training class.

"Xiaohe is in the third grade, right?"

"Hmm. ”

"Third grade is a hurdle. ”

Shen Xi looked confused: "The third grade is a hurdle?"

Teacher Xue was even more surprised than her, and picked up the teacup and said: "In the third grade, the difficulty and pressure of learning are gradually increasing, we must cultivate the child's learning self-control before the third grade, and we must not let him have inertia, and the older the child, the stronger the rebellious mentality, and then it is too difficult to adjust bad habits." The first and second grades can still rely on rote memorization, and the third grade will not work after this set, and the gap between students with good habits and those without good habits will become bigger and bigger, you don't believe it and wait for the unit test, some children can score more than 90 points in the first and second grades, and can only score more than 80 points in the third grade, 70 points, and they are likely to fail in the fifth or sixth grade. ”

"Huh, is it so serious?"

Teacher Xue glanced at her computer: "You are also busy with work during your breaks? This is not good, educating children is a woman's lifelong career, you put all your energy into work, whether you do well or not is not the leader's final say, but educating children is different, no hard work is a harvest." ”

Shen Xi comprehended the meeting and found that her words made sense, she was not sleepy all of a sudden, not for Xiaohe, how could she have the will to sit here after suffering the blow in the morning.

"You don't want Xiaohe to go to English training classes now, when will it be, it's too late to wait for junior high school, the school next to your house is okay, but you don't want Xiaohe to participate in school selection and go to a better junior high school?

"What is the unified exam? I don't know. ”

"Your mother is too incompetent, the results of the English unified test are very important in choosing a school, and the registration places are all grabbed, which one is not a second, I grabbed it several times to grab it. ”

No wonder, Shen Xi suddenly remembered that Teacher Xue had always borrowed their computers before, and flew around in front of several computers with a nervous expression.

"When my daughter was in kindergarten, I enrolled her in an English training class, and I added a main course training every year, step by step, she didn't feel particularly stressed, and now I can easily hold a few training courses!"

"Ahh

Tian Tian is Teacher Xue's daughter, Shen Xi blames herself very much at the moment, not only is she not good at being a wife and daughter-in-law, but even her mother is not good at doing well.

"There are foreign teachers, objectively speaking, the English level of foreign teachers will not be worse than the teachers in the training class, but have you ever thought that there are hard indicators for teaching English in our kindergarten? But the training institution is different, you can pay as much tuition as you want to meet what kind of requirements, the contract is written in black on a white background, and there is no full refund from the church. My daughter studied English at White Swan for three years, and after graduating from kindergarten, she learned all the texts before the third grade of primary school. ”

"It's too early to learn so much ahead. ”

"It's still early, my friend's child has just turned 25 months, and he is ready to go to English training, so I just asked if you want to go together, three people can get a 20% discount in a group, and the white swan is affected by the yearning for his mother, and the recent activity discount is quite large. ”

25 months? Shen Xi thought that Xiaohe was not good at speaking Chinese when she was 25 months old, and what she worried about every day was nothing more than whether Xiaohe ate well and whether she was dressed warmly, so in contrast, because her educational philosophy could not keep up with the "times", it seemed that her child had lost at the starting line.