All along, this problem is not only what I have to face, but also a lot of people have to face, there are also a lot of people, we all know, when they are in front of you, they will not say anything, but when you don't know, feel free to say that you can do anything, I also gradually found out, I really don't like these people, although sometimes, when people are fine, it is normal for them to talk to other people's gossip together, and there are also some people, when they are fine, they will also go to talk to others, talk to others, and inevitably say bad things about others, talk nonsense, which is why I don't like to chat with others。

Chat is chatting, in fact, there is nothing wrong with chatting itself, every time you chat with others, don't talk about those things that are short of the east and west, isn't it good?

It's good to just talk about some things that are close to you, but some people don't do that, so I'm also because of this, I don't like to chat very much, and I don't even like to listen to other people's chats, I don't have a good impression of these people who chew the root of their tongues behind their backs, and of course I won't go with them.

And these people, I gradually found that their dissatisfaction with others is only behind their backs, do they dare to say that others are not good face to face?

They don't dare, they say something behind their backs, relieve their psychological pressure, that's all, and many times, I think that since people have a problem, then you point it out in front of him, why don't you?

According to my analysis, if you point it out to your face, you are afraid of offending people, and you still like to say it behind your back, so it is safe not to be heard by the other party, and after you have spoken to others, these people who are chatting with you will generally cater to your views and appreciate your views and practices, so in this way, is it the satisfaction of those who chew the root of the tongue?

But if you point out the shortcomings of others face to face, there is nothing to do, I thought, if the other party has anything bad, I still like to point it out face to face, although this will be regarded by others as a sign of immaturity, but I think this is my personal opinion and practice, I still like this, although others do not seem to agree, but in my opinion, it is correct, what is the matter, say it face to face, if you dare not say it to others, then don't say it, or stay in your own heart, slowly digest it yourself, rot in your heart, if there is something, then please say it to others face to face, this is really the best way, and it is also done by a righteous gentleman, this is my opinion.

I still hope that everyone can do it openly, say it openly, even if the other party knows, and be able to admit it calmly, this is what I said, this is what I do, why do I say it behind my back, maybe I have a different opinion from others on this matter, but I think it is also very good to be able to feel that my point of view is correct and to be able to adhere to my own correct approach, which is also very good and worthy of my own gratification。