I didn't have a deep experience before, until there was a recent incident, I found out that people are poor and short-sighted is true, there is a person, a person next to me, his family is very poor, according to reason, whose living standard is very poor now, but he is different, is a disabled person, the conditions at home are not good, he barely earns any money, just live by frugality, speaking of which, I think everyone should know, you can't make money, just rely on frugality, or will be very poor, some time ago, he told us that a good friend of his is going to get married, this is his best friend, is growing up with his bare ass, because this good friend bought a house in the field, the woman's request is to get married outside, he also agreed, buying a house is not just to live, and the conditions of their family are still okay, with the help of his parents and his own efforts, he bought a house, although it was only a down payment, but it is also a good house, it is a house bought in a big city, everyone knows that the house in a big city is very expensive, and it can be bought, which proves his strength and the strength of his family!

When this good friend invited this classmate at home to attend his wedding in the field, this classmate also invited him many times, and repeatedly told him that you must come, every time he thought of this, his eyes were wet, although he was a disabled person, but his good friend did not dislike him at all, and let him go to participate in such a grand scene, he really looked up to him, he also told himself that no matter what, he was going to go, you can borrow money to buy a train ticket, you can borrow money to buy a decent dress, you can borrow money to give a good friend a gift money, he secretly said to himself, but the day that his good friend told him is getting closer and closer, and the wedding is about to start, and it is already a countdown, 10 days, 5 days, 2 days, 1 day, and when there is still one day before the wedding day, he has been struggling fiercely in his heart, whether to go or not to go?

Although the heart is struggling, but the idea of not going is greater than the idea of going, why do you say that, he thought, buy a train ticket, a round trip costs more than 1000 yuan, go all the way, give the other party a bride price of 500, this is also the lowest standard, and buy a decent clothes, make yourself not so like a rural person, do not embarrass your good friends, this also costs more than 1000, if you go outside with a good friend, go to tourist attractions, is it also a few hundred to more than a thousand?

This is not the best consumption, this is the lowest standard, but it will cost thousands of yuan in this way, so after thinking about it for a long time, he still shyly sent a WeChat message to a good friend, telling him that I have other things tomorrow, and I really can't go, and after he found this excuse, he finally breathed a sigh of relief, and then told himself that it was better to send the gift money to a good friend, when he sent WeChat, he still kept thinking, send 500 yuan, this 500 yuan is estimated to be his living expenses for a month, but send 100 yuan, and embarrassed, but for the sake of face, or send 500, but he still can't bear it, I don't want to let myself live too badly, maybe in the days to come, he sent out a gift of 500 yuan, this money doesn't know where to borrow at all, and even after spending it, it's normal to not be on it, so he thought about it again and again, or send less, this is in line with his daily standards, this is his standard, although he also knows that the gift money has risen many times now, but he can only maintain his life in this way, so he does it according to his own intentions and ideas, and even he doesn't want to blame him for this good friend in the future, a person will only get married once in his life, marriage is not a meal, not a matter every day, But this is the only time, he still spends it like this, he also wants to let his good friends spend a good wedding, he also wants to go to the beautiful wedding, enjoy the beautiful moment, but all because of money, has become a bubble, life, there are many such things, people, the most basic needs are still to meet their own survival, even survival can not be guaranteed, how can he satisfy his vanity, how to enjoy everything else?

Life has always been like this, everyone likes to be generous, everyone likes to be wonderful and outstanding on many occasions, and even in front of all things, but many times, they are limited to their own conditions and abilities, and can only do what they can do, which may really be the result of people's poor ambitions, many times, these poor people, they don't want to look at the problem in the long run, but they are limited to their own abilities, limited to their own conditions, and can only take care of the immediate interests, which may be the result of people's poor ambitions。